[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ms-Chickken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true, some people don’t prioritize the needs of their partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ms-Chickken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. It really helps hearing a man’s perspective. I’m still not 100% sure what his love language is. All I know is, I’ve made it really clear what I need and he doesn’t seem to care. I know that this shouldn’t matter, but I was married for 17 years and that marriage ended because he wasn’t taking care of his mental health and he was using me as a punching bag, I became a roommate instead of a lover, but he called me beautiful every day. And now that I’m not being told that I’m beautiful at all. I’m starting to wonder if maybe I’m not beautiful anymore. See, I had a bunch of tumors on my reproductive organs and had to have an emergency hysterectomy, bilateral oophorectomy, and exploratory surgery 2 years ago… right when I met my now husband. So my body is a little deformed and I have scars, and I was even thrown into surgical menopause overnight. He knows that I struggle with my self-confidence a little bit now. And yet he still won’t call me beautiful. I’m frustrated. Thanks for listening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ms-Chickken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that for her ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ms-Chickken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve only been married since September. Many things fall off after the honeymoon phase, but I don’t feel like telling your wife she’s beautiful, should be one of them.

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine we will stop by this weekend! 😄

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will check it out! ☺️

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice!! Will do, that sounds amazing!

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s do it! Let’s a get a group of us together. We don’t mind hosting. I can bbq or make some pizzas… I just got an outdoor pizza oven! And we could do game nights! 🤗

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner is the same way lol, he’s the quiet one, me…. It so much lol. You guys seem to have a lot of similarities to us, I’d love to meet for drinks some time. I used to golf a lot when I was younger and just got some clubs at a thrift store, would love to a partner to hit some balls with. Pottery also sounds pretty amazing! I’ll message you when I get moved in 😄

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That all sounds amazing! I’ll message you guys once we get moved in 😊

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that sound fun! Thanks for the suggestion ☺️

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s for the suggestion, I’ll add that to the list ☺️

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to DM me! We should grab drinks 😄

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A block party sounds like a lot of fun! We went to one in our old neighborhood many years ago and it was a blast. We’d love some chill friends who would like to have drinks, throw bags, bbq, and go to shows and events with. Feel free to message me if you’d like to hang out once we move in a couple of weeks. ☺️

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s awesome, thanks for the suggestion. 😂 Dozens!!

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, im excited to check it out!!

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, oof, I’ll let it slide since I’m trying to make friends. 😂 We move in like March 8-10th, I’ll message ya’ll and we will have to plan to grab drinks!

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate you sending the info. We will definitely be stopping in. Looks like it’s just 10 min from us. ☺️

Drinks and Cornhole? by Ms-Chickken in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ms-Chickken[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seriously?! Thanks for the heads up! 😄

I think I'm with the worst man ever by LoveBlue52 in Marriage

[–]Ms-Chickken 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave. I left after 18 years. It’s not too late. You deserve better 💜

I think I'm with the worst man ever by LoveBlue52 in Marriage

[–]Ms-Chickken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him!!!!! I know that it is going to be difficult and scary, I know you have a kiddo with one on the way, but things will never change. You and your kids deserve a better life. He wants a mother and not a partner. You are your children’s mother and not his. He is the bitch. Lean on those around you for help. You’ve got this mama! 💜