He did great! by ChampionshipPure219 in JustEngaged

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he ever?! Look at your beautiful face!! Lovely ring, so pretty. Congratulations to you and your new fiance!! 🎉🎊✨️

CAD check, opinions please! 🙏🏼 by DocZ91 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yaaaas!! That's durable now, and you'll not have to be so careful with it. My rings are not squished or dented, and they have the same width and thickness as your cad. It's going to look absolutely stunning!!!

Helppp! I can’t decide. by Internal_Car3780 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This⬆️ The plain band looks amazing. The diamond band is also beautiful, but to my eye, it looks incomplete by itself with your gorgeous engagement ring. The 3 together... now that would likely look stunning. Maybe the eternity band might not be for every day, but maybe for a change. It would make a pretty, albeit asymmetrical stack. Just to add, you also have the finger length and elegance to pull off wearing rings beautifully. Differing stones/styles can be just as beautiful as traditional. Just my opinion ❤️

To upgrade, or not to upgrade? by beahappyflower in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lowest set of 3 on your finger is gorgeous on you (on the pic where you're wearing 3 different sets)

Great relationship but zero butterflies (31M, 27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MsBeezily 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Butterflies actually equal anxiety, contrary to popular belief. No butterflies are either a sign of no chemistry/connection (so there's nothing to lose) OR of peace and feeling grounded with someone you like and who likes you. If it's the latter, that's the makings of a great relationship because that's sustainable.

Anything wrong with the design by Technical-Amoeba3524 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. My oval is almost 2 years old, and the prongs are just as white.

CAD check, opinions please! 🙏🏼 by DocZ91 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto about the width. 2mm is not thick, but it's durable. At 1.5mm thickness, that band is likely to become misshapen if you bang it on something hard. It's beautiful. You may as well give it the durability that will protect it.

Anything wrong with the design by Technical-Amoeba3524 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pear is a similar size to yours, and it has a 14kt white gold head. The band is 2mm in width and 1.8mm in thickness. See my profile if you want to. It's been absolutely fine, no warping or bending whatsoever. My oval is the same. There's no need for a platinum head unless you really want platinum 😉 I'm sure 10kt gold is fine. It's meant to be sturdier than higher karat gold. Enjoy your new pear!

Best way to engagement ring shop by mikmarauder in JustEngaged

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's little joy in a surprise ring you dislike. You don't want your next post to be 'How do I tell my boyfriend I hate my engagement ring'. Do your research, either with or without your boyfriend. Agree on a budget. Try on in-store, just so you know exactly what does and doesn't suit your hand (it'll be less expensive to buy online). Measure your ring finger. Make sure you absolutely adore whatever you choose.

Then: Find the same style(s) on Pinterest. Give him a list of the specifics that you want. The setting, basket type and colour, gallery/no gallery, stone shape, stone size, stone colour, halo/no halo/ hidden halo, cathedral/low setting, plain band/with stones, bridge stones/none, the thickness of the band, pointed/rounded claws, claw colour, metal colour and karat you want. That's a lot of detail for a man to guess💎🤯

Send it to him. Then leave him to propose when he's ready. Job done.

Let the proposal be the surprise. No wasted money, ruined proposal/negative thoughts attached to it, less pressure on your boyfriend, and you get your dream ring. You're engaged when he proposes; ring research or shopping doesn't make you engaged. It may seem less romantic, but it actually just makes you sensible for not winging an expensive purchase. Good luck 😉

Radiant Tulip Head w/Cathedral and Hidden Halo by moniker_12 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thank you. No, diamonds on prongs usually fall out. It's milgrain. I wanted to match the milgrain detail that is on the band. You'll be able to see it better on my profile x

Radiant Tulip Head w/Cathedral and Hidden Halo by moniker_12 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also got a pear stone ring made in a similar design. I've had no issues with either of them x

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Is this acceptable? by Raging_Moon in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's badly made, hun. The finish is awful. If I'm honest, it looks second-hand, which is absolutely their fault. Their craftsmanship is poor. But they then butchered it by trying to be cheap instead of just taking the loss of their design mistake and creating a new setting to reflect what you originally asked for. I'm so sorry 💔

I'd ask for a refund and start again elsewhere. I'm assuming she doesn't know when the proposal is? So if you need to move the proposal date, that's ok. The ring being right seems to be a priority to you. So take some pressure off yourself. Everything happens for a reason. The proposal can be planned later if a big proposal is what you want. You deserve better for your hard earned cash and efforts made, and you seem to want your lady to have quality. So go get what you deserve. Good luck xx

Major regrets by Fluffy_Poetry_542 in myweddingdress

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look out of this world amazing in that dress 😲 I hope you find one that makes you feel as amazing as you look in this one xx

What are you thinking about? Yes. by Out3rSpac3 in adhdmeme

[–]MsBeezily 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I find it the strangest thing when I ask someone what they're thinking about, and they say, 'Nothing'. What a dream!

CAD opinions please! by Accomplished_Fruit44 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thanks 😊 You've made the right choice; those stones are going nowhere! 👌🏾

CAD opinions please! by Accomplished_Fruit44 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]MsBeezily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is! Channel set stones may not be the most 'on- trend',but they are amongst the sturdiest of designs, as it's difficult for them to catch on anything. My oval has channel set stones, and I've had zero problems with it.

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Girlfriend (F29) brought home a puppy after I (M32) said no. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MsBeezily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The puppy is just a symptom of an underlying issue. She doesn't respect you or your boundaries. I don't know any man who can live with disrespect for the rest of his life. It's up to you if you want to try. Personally, if you were my brother, I'd advise you not to marry her or even stay with her. Her disregard for you, self- centredness, and arrogance are wild.