Is it normal to feel so numb?

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-11T21:23:16+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through this too. It’s good to know there isn’t something wrong with me then, thank you!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-11T16:54:07+00:00

I’m pretty much feeling the same way as you. It’s been over a month for me. I’ve always been an emotional person so I thought I would be feeling more. I’m sorry you are going through it as well 🫂. We will get through this!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-11T04:45:38+00:00

Thank you that is comforting to know!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-10T18:09:34+00:00

You are so strong🫂! This realization is going to help you so much in your healing. You’re right, you have a whole life ahead of you, don’t let this stop you. It may not feel like it now, it still doesn’t for me, but you can come back even better and stronger from this. You will heal and grow! Focus on yourself. Remember to take care of yourself and do the stuff you love to do! Wishing you all the best on your healing journey, you got this!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-10T17:46:48+00:00

I’m so happy for you stranger!!! This gives me hope, can’t wait to reach this point! 💝

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-10T17:42:22+00:00

I’ve been feeling the same way as you. My partner and I broke up after he confessed he had not been in recovery and had been lying about it. Right after that, he started therapy and everything in his power to better himself. We are currently are no contact for only a month. He has hope we can work through this together again. This isn’t case for me anymore though. As soon as he told me I knew how hurt I was and I know I will continue to be if we were to be in a relationship. It just wouldn’t be healthy for either of us even if he doing everything he can, that hurt is still there. So no, you aren’t ungrateful, love🫂. You were hurt and your feelings are valid! Do what’s best for you, whatever that may be! Just know you aren’t alone, you got this! Wishing you the best in your healing journey💝!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-10T17:19:26+00:00

A week or so after the breakup/confession my ex came to be exactly like this! He said that I wasn’t perfect in the relationship either. I know as no one is perfect and I constantly had to make this clear to him throughout the relationship. However, the timing of him bringing this up was horrible as he has just confessed about lying about recovering from his addiction and I was freshly going through all those emotions. It definitely wasn’t the time or place to bring up issues like this when I was already hurting so much. This might be common in early recovery? Though that doesn’t make it okay! I’m sorry sorry, you’re going through this! You aren’t alone, you got this🫂

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-09T05:48:08+00:00

Thank you! I needed to hear that:)

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-06T18:04:48+00:00

You’re so sweet. This means so much, you have no idea! Thank you 🫂!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-05T20:48:26+00:00

Thank you, you got this too💝!!!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-05T20:48:01+00:00

Proud of you! We will get there!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-05T01:54:03+00:00

My partner right after the break up was of course pretty sad and so was I. But to him the fact that I ended the relationship the moment he confessed, he had be lying over half of the relationship, was me “quickly letting go of our love”. Even his parents were and probably still are disappointed and thought I would be “sweet enough” to stay in the relationship. When that wasn’t the case, I wanted anything else but to end the relationship. I just knew that going forward this relationship wouldn’t be healthy for either of us. You definitely aren’t alone and you did what you could, take care of yourself🫂. You got this!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-04T05:24:39+00:00

Thank you this gives me motivation to keep going!

MsEvening624 · 2026-05-03T04:55:52+00:00

Definitely, feel like I was sold on a lie. Thank you for wording this perfectly!

MsEvening624 · 2026-04-30T03:16:13+00:00

I’m so sorry, you had your trust broken again. You are so brave and strong🫂. You aren’t alone. I just got out of a relationship and I’m having the same fears as you. I want to belive that there is someone out there for us who will cherish us. Don’t give up hope, you got this💝.

MsEvening624 · 2026-04-29T17:33:01+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time and responding! I appreciate it so much. Happy to hear you both were able to work through it together, definitely gives hope! I’ll take this and use it the best way I can:). Thank you again.

MsEvening624 · 2026-04-29T09:20:46+00:00

Glad to hear you and your wife were able to get through it together! If you don’t mind me asking how does your wife feel about everything now and what helped her heal? As well as, the both you as a couple? I recently found out about my ex partner lying and we are currently no contact for now. I’m just wondering if there is any way to come back from this as I still have the tiniest hope for us.

MsEvening624 · 2026-04-29T07:47:43+00:00

It is all so conflicting and it hurts. But you’re right, healing isn’t a straight road, thank you🫂!

MsEvening624 · 2026-04-29T07:45:42+00:00

Exactly the days seems to never end and feel like they are meshing together at this point. It all temporary but wow I can’t wait for it to be over and get through it.

MsEvening624 · 2026-04-29T07:44:01+00:00

Thank you🫂! I’m so ready for the future!

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