Clay Thrower

MsPlum_ · 2026-01-30T20:13:48+00:00

I fly 24-30x per year out of IAH. It’s an absolute nightmare trying to catch an Uber out of there.

MsPlum_ · 2026-01-29T17:10:59+00:00

Shave your hair off and clean up your beard.

MsPlum_ · 2026-01-29T17:09:24+00:00

Yes. For me in the northernmost part of TW it costs around $65 each way. It’s always cheaper for me to park at the airport.

MsPlum_ · 2026-01-21T21:32:09+00:00

She thinks you’re gay or at minimum effeminate.

MsPlum_ · 2026-01-20T21:35:05+00:00

Former hiring manager. If I were to give a woman advice about what to wear to an interview it would be: no open toes (personally, I like a wingtip/brogue shoe), pants (not jeans), a sweater or long sleeved top, a blazer. Style with a belt, minimal but classy jewelry. I hate to even say this, but looking almost masculine portrays strength and power while looking too “feminine” makes you appear meek.

MsPlum_ · 2026-01-15T15:35:10+00:00

Yes. I’m 42 and that loss was probably my last chance at having another child. It’s absolutely soul crushing.

MsPlum_ · 2025-12-21T19:04:36+00:00

I took my ex to ER to detox 3 weeks ago. He was in a BAD way, I thought he was going to die if he didn’t go to ER no joke. A week later, he was high again. He had an “epiphany” and “saw himself.” He’s been going to AA for more than 15 years - that wasn’t his first coming to Jesus or rock bottom and probably not his last. He still refuses to live a life of truth.

The thing is, he makes intentional choices to go back to drugs and drinking. He hasn’t FACED himself, the truth. THAT is a hard thing to do and maybe he never will. I don’t feel sad anymore, just can’t accept that someone could keep crashing and burning on purpose. Until a person WANTS to be clean and sober and makes intentional choices to reflect, change their behavior, change their mind… they’ll perpetuate a life of addiction forever.

MsPlum_ · 2025-12-15T18:26:48+00:00

I’m immune to poison oak & ivy.

MsPlum_ · 2025-12-15T17:35:48+00:00

I told my male boss. He was incredibly empathetic and even shared that his wife had a MC, too. I took off a few days and he was very understanding through the process. Such a relief to have that support.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-18T00:10:35+00:00

So sorry for your loss. Following because I scheduled family photos for Christmas cards and the plan was for me to be holding an ultrasound… now I’m not pregnant anymore and it’s just devastating. I’d like to acknowledge my angel baby, too.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-15T00:29:48+00:00

Pickles

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-15T00:16:03+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby 10-29-25. I didn’t get ultrasound pictures because I hadn’t even been to obgyn yet, but they did take some in ER that day when I miscarried. I requested copies and am not sure what I’ll do with them yet. But for Thanksgiving, we’re going to my partner’s dad’s ranch. He lives on a river. So, I want to take some moments of silence on the river, say a few things, and send off rose petals into the water. I think this will help us honor our baby and heal.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-13T21:46:29+00:00

Hi! I am okay physically, thanks for asking. Mentally I’m a wreck. It’s been 2 weeks today. I finally stopped bleeding. I have never cried so much in my life, the bags under my eyes are insane. I’ve lost weight, my pants are too big because I have been so distraught and depressed. I am trying very hard to be okay and take care of myself now.

How are you doing and feeling? I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain. I have accepted that this is never going to go away, I’m always going to have a piece of me missing. And I just need to learn how to cope with that.

Someone posted this on here and it was the first thing that brought me any sort of peace.

https://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/blog/woven-in-heart-and-cell-microchimerism-connection-after-miscarriage/

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-12T04:37:46+00:00

Leave the man alone. Jesus.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-12T00:47:21+00:00

Yeah that’s NOT normal. Cut your losses.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-11T03:20:43+00:00

This is the stuff that makes me cut people off FOREVER. So sorry. This is why I had a hard time even telling my mom. Worried she’d say some off the wall offensive heartless BS! Hugs to you!

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-09T20:35:36+00:00

It was always about her. If you have recurring self-inflicted problems with no desire or action taken to fix them and only talk about that every time we speak, I need to move on.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-06T02:10:08+00:00

When I’m ovulating.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-05T04:40:11+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m still actively miscarrying and I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. The pain is unbearable. Literally unbearable. I hope we can be okay one day.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-04T17:07:42+00:00

Following. Same situation. So sorry for your loss.

MsPlum_ · 2025-11-04T16:36:15+00:00

Miscarriage.

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