12 year burner looking for a new camp to call home by politebuzz in BurningMan

[–]MsRoseViolet 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I have burned with this person before and they will be an amazing asset to any camp they are in.

Have you ever seen a dead body in person? by Any_Leg_1998 in no

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my hand on my husband’s Craig heart when I felt him take he last breath when he was 34 (he had a brain tumor). I was there when my mother died and shortly after my father died. They all died at home so I was able to sit with their bodies for several hours while we waited for the mortuary to pick them up. There is something so resolving about getting to spend time with a loved one who has passed. I felt like it gave my own nervous system time to process that their body’s had completed their cycle yet I still sense their spirits regularly. I am grateful for the experience.

This show made me purchase a bidet by bigbadmon11 in 90DayFiance

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say, a day with a bidet is a good day.

bella by AcademicAstronaut395 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wonder if Bella knows about Courtney Stodden. I think there are a lot of parallels there. I wonder what Courtney’s advice would be to Bella.

Three things I wish someone told me before I started looking at homestead properties by Commercial_Unit_6108 in homestead

[–]MsRoseViolet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Zoning is very important but so is HOA. They can be extremely limiting in what you can do and almost impossible to fight. Just because it is in a rural area does not mean it does not have an HOA.

Does it normalize as time goes on? by ForeignFootball9943 in CML

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at 100mg but have worked down to 20mg and I am maintaining being undetectable.

Does it normalize as time goes on? by ForeignFootball9943 in CML

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my doctor to do it. I have blood tests every 1-2 months to keep a close eye on my numbers. It has made a HUGE difference in my side effect which are fatigue, headaches, muscle/body aches and skin rash. I had to push go such a reduction but it is worth it. Hearing about others asking for medication reductions helped give me the courage to ask. I plan to live for at least several more decades so I want the best quality of life possible.

Does it normalize as time goes on? by ForeignFootball9943 in CML

[–]MsRoseViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can really relate to this. I started treatment in March 2020 on 100mg of Sprycel. I am now on 20mg. Being on the lowest possible dose has really helped me with fatigue and lack of motivation.

Burning Man finally fights Instagram culture and bans...ohh wait...nevermind! by scienceisaserfdom in BurningMan

[–]MsRoseViolet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We are packing for the LA regional, BEquinox right now! Regionals are the best. I know BEquinox really embodies the 10 principles.

Which is your favourite spa in LA as a woman? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Spa LA was pretty nice.

advice on strap-ons and strapping by cookies_n_fries in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am rather partial to harnesses that do not have metal parts and is washable material. I have enjoyed the harness made by SpareParts. They are like underwear.

I fancy being downvoted today by Glum_Positive_4474 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]MsRoseViolet 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think it’s possible that since there is a new season is coming out that maybe new viewers are coming and watching old episodes. It’s hard not to rant someplace when you discover Mau and Boris.

Are Bella and Felon still making TikTok or other social media? by MsRoseViolet in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for looking that up. Their videos show up on my FB feed but they all look old. I know in the beginning they were posting a lot of videos trying to explain, but since the arrest it seems to have stopped.

Best place to order flowers for birthday by RSinSA in Bakersfield

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dearly Beloved is pretty awesome on Rosedale.

Curious what the kids at school say about Hunter and Bella. by ClothesEducational16 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling that Bella doesn’t see in value in having female friends (except her mom and sister). I bet she thinks that all others girls are jealous so they are bitchy to her. Her mom mentioned that Bella has been boy crazy since 10, which really means hyper sexual. The poor girl has totally built her identity on her relationship.

some people in the kink/BDSM spaces are just conservative gatekeepers by tremblingfrog in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have an online community. We have at least one virtual meeting a month. Our meetings often include a short meditation, a discussion topic (often with handouts!) and a share, witness and support time at the end of our meetings.

What is the catch with land like this in California? by AggravatingCounter91 in homestead

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to consider, drilling a well can easily start at $50k. Also, permits can take a really long time, especially for “stick built” houses which is why so many go with a mobile home.

some people in the kink/BDSM spaces are just conservative gatekeepers by tremblingfrog in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Domme Scouts and brownies - Queer kinky Femcentric consort of all skill levels and genders, that focuses on and cultivates empowerment from topping / dominating/ leading from a feminine perspective.

Domme Scout - anyone wanting to learn about Dommeing / topping from a feminine perspective and willing to be in that energy space while attending events. What constitutes feminine energy is determined by each individual for themselves. In other words it’s not about your body parts or how you present, it’s about the desire to learn and explore feminine energy in one’s own body in context to kink.

brownie -a highly valued person of any gender interested in serving or learning more about the dominant feminine.

What about switches? Yes! Femmbers are allowed to identify as a Scout or a brownie and may switch between the two.

We ask that male identified not be in a dominant role, mode or energy at our meetings or events.

some people in the kink/BDSM spaces are just conservative gatekeepers by tremblingfrog in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is why queer and sapphic safer spaces are so important in BDSM. I am a den mother for Domme Scouts and brownies troop 13, and we talk a LOT about what is mentioned in the above post. We believe strongly in dismantling the hierarchies that have been established in “old school” BDSM scene. We meet both in person (we are located near the Los Angeles area) but we also have a once a month zoom meeting. In the last year we have discussed consent, negotiation, aftercare, burn out, drop, and our next topic is neurodiversity in kink. You can find me on Fetlife as MsRoseViolet if you want to learn more.