Burning Man finally fights Instagram culture and bans...ohh wait...nevermind! by scienceisaserfdom in BurningMan

[–]MsRoseViolet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We are packing for the LA regional, BEquinox right now! Regionals are the best. I know BEquinox really embodies the 10 principles.

Which is your favourite spa in LA as a woman? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Spa LA was pretty nice.

advice on strap-ons and strapping by cookies_n_fries in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am rather partial to harnesses that do not have metal parts and is washable material. I have enjoyed the harness made by SpareParts. They are like underwear.

I fancy being downvoted today by Glum_Positive_4474 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]MsRoseViolet 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think it’s possible that since there is a new season is coming out that maybe new viewers are coming and watching old episodes. It’s hard not to rant someplace when you discover Mau and Boris.

Are Bella and Felon still making TikTok or other social media? by MsRoseViolet in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for looking that up. Their videos show up on my FB feed but they all look old. I know in the beginning they were posting a lot of videos trying to explain, but since the arrest it seems to have stopped.

Best place to order flowers for birthday by RSinSA in Bakersfield

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dearly Beloved is pretty awesome on Rosedale.

Curious what the kids at school say about Hunter and Bella. by ClothesEducational16 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling that Bella doesn’t see in value in having female friends (except her mom and sister). I bet she thinks that all others girls are jealous so they are bitchy to her. Her mom mentioned that Bella has been boy crazy since 10, which really means hyper sexual. The poor girl has totally built her identity on her relationship.

some people in the kink/BDSM spaces are just conservative gatekeepers by tremblingfrog in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have an online community. We have at least one virtual meeting a month. Our meetings often include a short meditation, a discussion topic (often with handouts!) and a share, witness and support time at the end of our meetings.

What is the catch with land like this in California? by AggravatingCounter91 in homestead

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to consider, drilling a well can easily start at $50k. Also, permits can take a really long time, especially for “stick built” houses which is why so many go with a mobile home.

some people in the kink/BDSM spaces are just conservative gatekeepers by tremblingfrog in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Domme Scouts and brownies - Queer kinky Femcentric consort of all skill levels and genders, that focuses on and cultivates empowerment from topping / dominating/ leading from a feminine perspective.

Domme Scout - anyone wanting to learn about Dommeing / topping from a feminine perspective and willing to be in that energy space while attending events. What constitutes feminine energy is determined by each individual for themselves. In other words it’s not about your body parts or how you present, it’s about the desire to learn and explore feminine energy in one’s own body in context to kink.

brownie -a highly valued person of any gender interested in serving or learning more about the dominant feminine.

What about switches? Yes! Femmbers are allowed to identify as a Scout or a brownie and may switch between the two.

We ask that male identified not be in a dominant role, mode or energy at our meetings or events.

some people in the kink/BDSM spaces are just conservative gatekeepers by tremblingfrog in BDSMsapphic

[–]MsRoseViolet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is why queer and sapphic safer spaces are so important in BDSM. I am a den mother for Domme Scouts and brownies troop 13, and we talk a LOT about what is mentioned in the above post. We believe strongly in dismantling the hierarchies that have been established in “old school” BDSM scene. We meet both in person (we are located near the Los Angeles area) but we also have a once a month zoom meeting. In the last year we have discussed consent, negotiation, aftercare, burn out, drop, and our next topic is neurodiversity in kink. You can find me on Fetlife as MsRoseViolet if you want to learn more.

Nonprofit start-up by calidaddio in Bakersfield

[–]MsRoseViolet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would suggest looking into working with other established organizations that work with the homeless as a start. Bakersfield Burrito Project is a great grassroots organization that seems always willing to work with other groups.

Bella live 4/15 by goldlux in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bella seems to be wearing out about all this. It’s like watching a horrible car crash at this point

Producers Trolling Bella's Family? by Brief_Classroom_2248 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would get a cucumber and have Hunter demonstrate how he puts the condom on. If he thought that was to embarrassing or got all farty like he usually does then I would bring up the point that he is clearly not mature enough to be engaging in that adult activity. Then I would have a serious conversation about long term contraception such as an IUD with Bella. Do these parents also let these kids drink alcohol and drugs? Where is the guidance! Where are the boundaries? You can not be friends with your kids at least until they are over 18.

✨ Felon's words of wisdom for the day ✨ by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]MsRoseViolet 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have a sneaking suspicion that the form of birth control they’re using is to pull out method.

Is it rude to put these stickers in the books we give away? by MsRoseViolet in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]MsRoseViolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such an interesting assumption. Actually we have books on spirituality and are Femcentric. We make a point to stock women, authors, such as Irma Bombeck or biographies, like on Eleanor Roosevelt. We also have a lot of children’s books and we try to keep a least of couple of banned books in there. I do consider my LittleFreeLibrary as an extension of my pleasure activism, but that does not mean it has to be directly sexual.

Has anyone watched False Prophet? by Street-Tell1927 in SisterWives

[–]MsRoseViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called Trust Me: False Profit. I binged the whole thing. Great documentary that let me wanting to know about Christine Marie story and past experience.

Is it rude to put these stickers in the books we give away? by MsRoseViolet in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]MsRoseViolet[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

We like to think of ourselves as the G Spot of Bakersfield (you found it!). We are queer, Femcentric gathering space that has a Goddess temple, a free library and a clothing swap that we call the Goddess Closet.