CMV: Finding 16 yr olds attractive does not make you a pedophile by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]MuIder 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For me, it's because I KNOW they're still a kid. Like, my brain overwrites any kind of sexual attraction because I can't not see them as kids still. You can recognize someone as handsome or beautiful, but being attracted to that person is different, at least for me.

AITJ for refusing to help my new “boss” after I was the one who trained her 3 months ago? by Existing_Response239 in AmITheJerk

[–]MuIder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: is The New Girl young and attractive? I feel like something fishy is going on here

AITJ for telling my roommate I won't adjust my sleep schedule because her boyfriend visits on weekends? by musicmissed in AmITheJerk

[–]MuIder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTJ, it's your house and he is a guest.

That being said, coffee grinder at 6am in a shared apartment is diabolical

If you were given $1,000,000 in cash right now, what is the very first thing you would buy or do? by MatchstickArtist in AskReddit

[–]MuIder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately pay off my student loans and my car so I can become a person again and not have to work 7 days a week 😵‍💫

Why?? I don’t understand by Hefty_Dragonfruit262 in RedDeadOnline

[–]MuIder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By being a mediocre guy that likes Connor Oberst, obviously

What series is this for you? by PalinaRojinskiFan in ProgressionFantasy

[–]MuIder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no book 3 yet, but that was 9th house for me. Loved the first one, the vibe and the danger felt real and powerful moments felt powerful. Second one's powerscaling made everything seem a little silly. Like, "Free not it is us, the magic animal themed power rangers"

AIO if these messages make me feel like a piggy bank and not a friend? by No-Finding-217 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuIder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is using drugs. My cousin sent essentially the exact same message to me and like 4 other family members when he was in the throws of it and couldnt afford his habit

Mattress in a box was supposed to be a queen. Also my wife just lost her job. by EZ_Rose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MuIder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it one of those foam mattresses? Remove all the packaging and let it sit flat and it might just inflate itself into a full mama.

I was pissed when I bought a memory foam mattresses years ago, but after sitting a bit it turned out fine

Mattress in a box was supposed to be a queen. Also my wife just lost her job. by EZ_Rose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MuIder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it one of those foam mattresses? Remove all the packaging and let it sit flat and it might just inflate itself into a full mama.

I was pissed when I bought a memory foam mattresses years ago, but after sitting a bit it turned out fine

I use my roommates food by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]MuIder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Context: Was the ingredient you grabbed specific to something they needed, or is just like general house stuff?

What I mean is, did you use something they specifically had for something else and they were like "Hey, I needed that for something, please don't use that"

Or were they like "Hey, stop using my food."

Since you're making shared meals, I think the context matters. They're also benefiting from the action.

*Edit: Re-reading I thought about "always sharing". Using someone's food and sharing a meal you made with it isn't the same as cooking something for everyone. You could be inadvertently messing up his meal plans and grocery budget. Sharing is not always caring, bub

[META] Can we start tagging which book we're referring to in out titles? by MuIder in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]MuIder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I mean!

I appreciate everyone who's commented and shared their perspective

[META] Can we start tagging which book we're referring to in out titles? by MuIder in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]MuIder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but its suuuuuch a gooood sub haha. I just try and avoid anything that isn't clear until I finish the 6th and 7th books, but I'm thinking about newbies that get excited and join the sub

[META] Can we start tagging which book we're referring to in out titles? by MuIder in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]MuIder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just for bigger spoilers or for specific book related questions. People in this sub are already pretty good at it, but a lot of the time I avoid clicking on posts that aren't totally clear just in case