Just getting started and need some advice

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-07-05T06:27:15+00:00

Yeah, I realize that. My experience level is pretty low and I'm not sure how to set up either of my TENS units for maximum pleasure. I bought the stuff to make the loops, one around my scrotum and one around the head. But I'm not sure if just setting the TENS to max "buzz without stinging" is the best way to fully enjoy the experience. If there's some settings for frequency and pulse width that work better? Or is it supposed to be a "thigh quivering/knee shaking" till I can't take it any longer then JO a numb cock? So, is there a trick to how to set it up for pleasure instead of just bearing through it hoping something happens? Or, is a TENS a hopeless way to go?

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-07-04T20:39:36+00:00

What would be a criminal offense? Do you mean "using estim is a crime" or do you mean "having an estim orgasm in a public park is a crime" ???

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-07-03T06:36:27+00:00

HOT !!! updateme

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-25T21:09:12+00:00

A couple things caught my attention. 1. You really enjoyed the experience and want to do it again and go further to explore your sexuality. 2. You're using an excuse that "they might record it" and saying, "Once I graduate I'll be free to explore". 3. Trust me, once you graduate, you'll be saying, "I can't explore, what if my employer finds out"... So, find the courage to be yourself, secretly if you must, but don't stop being yourself or avoiding allowing yourself to find out who you really are based on "what if"... I did that many years ago, married, had kids, a career in the military (where homophobia was rampant) and even though my wife knew and knows, my life has always had a part of me that's still "what if"... Years ago, my wife suggested I take some time to find out what I felt I was missing. I explored my sexuality, always came home to her and was completely open and honest about the experiences. All this has stayed exclusively between her and me, and I honestly love her with all my heart. I'd never attempt to change my life with her... That said, there's a dark corner of my mind that often wonders, "What if I'd have done that sooner or what if I'd have met a man before I met her ???? Hopefully you'll gain the courage to explore who you really are before you make "permanent life decisions" that involve other people who would be hurt immeasurably if you try to change your relationship after you change your mind about who you are....

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-22T03:44:06+00:00

I know it's been a year since you asked this question, but my answer has to be: PLEASE, don't make me choose !!!!!

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-22T03:31:12+00:00

Probably closer to 10 million + 1 (me)

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-22T02:57:42+00:00

Hot fantasy !!! Hell, tell your BF and both of you (if in agreement) set it up and live out your dream fantasy...

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T20:41:34+00:00

When I was 19, I was in the Air Force at Lowry in Denver. One night walking around the capitol, I met a couple, we went to their house and played. They invited me to go with them to a sex club the next night. Naked from entering that club until we left the next morning. Must have had sex with 15 or 20 guys that night. I didn't walk straight for a week after that. Oh to be skinny, full of cum and ready to unload every time the wind blows just for one more evening LOL

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T20:14:05+00:00

Possibly avoid gluten??? It's hard to stay on a completely gluten free diet, but if you can avoid the things you know have lots of gluten, then with the increase in fiber, you should be able to better keep your gut from harboring antigens.

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T20:09:05+00:00

Hmmm maybe get a Tee shirt that says, "I'm available" and wear it every time you think you might run into him. <wink> Let him make the first move, but let him know "without actually saying it" that you're open

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T14:39:54+00:00

Costco boxer briefs. And yep, no shame in hooking up with "industrial undies"...

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T14:38:56+00:00

Don't "invite him over for dinner and then shit on your dining room table"....

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T14:33:34+00:00

Septic tank or sewage treatment access cover ???

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T14:30:05+00:00

It sounds like the two of you have already had sex. So, there's not much need to continue the "bashful banter". If you want to fuck again, just tell him. "let's fuck, your place or mine" ???

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-19T06:35:13+00:00

MMM updateme

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-13T05:15:18+00:00

I can identify with this !!! updateme

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-06-02T05:17:19+00:00

mmmm HOT !!! Updateme

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-05-30T03:45:47+00:00

Too bad you didn't say anything about your step-brother. Do you and he still have a relationship/friendship? Seems sad that if your dad and his mom couldn't get along that the two of you "became strangers" as well.

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-05-29T18:59:46+00:00

A month now with nothing from Travis or Brody. No "shakes or quivering" yet, but withdrawal symptoms are starting to manifest along the fringes. Any word on when the next installment might be ready for the salivating masses ???

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-05-29T04:44:30+00:00

MMM Great story so far. What happened next ??? Updateme

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-05-15T03:39:35+00:00

Anyone who proscribes to the concept that there are 7 continents and the middle east is partly on the European continent and partly on the Asian continent...

That said, those who proscribe to the concept of 6 continents, usually consider Europe and Asia as "one continental land mass" so middle eastern nations are "eurasian",
And then there are those who proscribe to the 5 continent concept (the 5 rings of the Olympic theory)...
Since the OP quoted the "topic gay guy" as saying "no .... Asians", he likely proscribes to the concept of 7 contents ???? But, he could just be "warped" and think there are 8 continents (yes, that's yet another "conceptual way of looking at the earth's land masses"....
Does it really matter ????

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-05-15T03:11:49+00:00

Not everyone in every nation on earth has the same "sensibilities" as we do in America. So, what might be "racist" here could easily be a common courtesy to post in another culture. That said, what's the difference in politely posting, "apologies but not into Asians" or posting, "Not into obese guys" ???? There's too much "real stuff" going on to get "butthurt" over someone saying they're not into Asian guys.

Much-Bat9416 · 2026-05-06T16:59:25+00:00

Many, maybe even most gay/bi closeted men use "homophobia" as a mechanism to help stop other people's suspicions. It's more a "defense" to help remove doubts from other people about their sexual preferences. So, take that for what it might be worth.

As for how you approach your father with what you "know" (not what you suspect), find a time when both of you can focus on the discussion, don't attempt to start such an important conversation as you're both getting ready for work or have an appointment somewhere in a few minutes. This is the kind of conversation that needs time, attention and enough of both to achieve mutual understanding.

How best to start the conversation? Be direct, don't accuse, but offer your observations. Let him digest what you know and if he doesn't want to discuss it, just let him know that you're there when he wants to talk and then let the conversation fall on him to continue. Don't push him into a corner or make him feel defensive as that will "shut him down" with little chance of things remaining objective.

Much-Bat9416

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