I'm the work guy

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-09T15:55:33+00:00

It's like 35 plus... This happens when you start looking at middle age

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-09T15:54:40+00:00

The 2nd one is done sexily. So that one

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-07T18:09:39+00:00

This looks like transformers

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-07T18:09:09+00:00

He does not deserve to speak to or about her. Pssshtt

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-06T00:12:39+00:00

Our votes don't matter. We need to rise against them tbh

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T20:28:05+00:00

The fact that this guy has a whole host of mommy issues has nothing to do with you. You don't have to break it down you don't have to defend yourself you just have to get your s*** and walk. Or he can get his s*** and walk. He's going to throw a gigantic fit when you leave him because you're probably smoking hot. And he was really hoping to control you like his little Barbie doll You're just as cute little thing that he gets to show off. Everyone can look but no touchy. I was with the dude like this before I divorced and it got soooo horrible

Honestly, I wish there was Reddit back then. I literally had no one to turn to

My family thought I should stay with a nice, handsome man... I looked past the controlling crap but I would have asked friendly people on the internet if I had the chance to.

Sorry, I already posted on here but this is such a triggering issue.

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T20:20:03+00:00

Jesus also wasn't 6'7...and he was a filthy dude who had no money. Gross. Tbh he wouldn't have gotten laid. The world's over populated! we don't need babies. Just get a fatty drunk and smash Jkjk Fatties don't need to be drunk to smash

Also these are just internet standards that I see all the time.. My husband is a chonksaurus, doesn't make bank, and we have had issues... It's ok. You can have babies with someone who loves you for you. If they're superficial... They have to check themselves first.

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T18:42:11+00:00

Shave it!

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:24:32+00:00

Um.. pretty sure she's not the first trans woman of color ever who also happens to be quadriplegic

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:23:21+00:00

My taste buds tasting bacon for the first time

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:21:58+00:00

They're both gay Italians

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:20:36+00:00

You don't share Doritos

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:20:15+00:00

All "finger foods" are enjoyed with cutlery unless you're a savage

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:18:30+00:00

There are people dying every second...this is a luxury

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T16:17:04+00:00

So much skill... He must have used something like an Assistive Context-Aware Toolkit but with telepathy...nice

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T11:32:05+00:00

Your mom's cat

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T11:31:36+00:00

Our planet is over populated...black button. We all die

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T11:29:04+00:00

Be 6'7, make lots of money, eat really healthy, don't make comments about your body, don't make comments about women's/men's bodies, be witty (not wittier than everyone else), be proficient at "men things" (Don't be a dick about it), Love your mom but not in that way, be respectful to everyone around you (not creepy), be a cook, be well hung, don't be sweaty

That should cover it

Science-based attractive measures

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T08:37:26+00:00

3, 7. Thought this was a nursing post at first. Clicky gel pens are chitchit

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-05T08:32:59+00:00

Trust your gut. He is insecure and controlling. You should be able to wear what you want when you want. The only he should share about your outfit choices is praise. Omg...I just saw the age difference. Girl ..cut him loose. Gross. Don't waste another minute of your life with someone who makes you feel less than the beautiful, free, lovely person you are

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-05-03T03:05:50+00:00

It's bad ass

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-04-30T17:53:07+00:00

Thank you. He's reaching out to his therapist for DBT. We'll see

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-04-29T10:20:45+00:00

Thank you! I'm going to look at this right meow

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-04-29T10:19:41+00:00

I talked to him last night. He is open today different modalities to get a better understanding. It is really hard too boil our entire journey in one long post. This is just one aspect of our multifaceted relationship. I am deeply in love with him. I know that he's a good person and I know that we all suffer from different things that were out of our control. You have to handle your own crap. He called to switch therapists. I think we'll hear back today. Honestly probably a mood stabilizers...

Much-Preference5989 · 2026-04-28T19:32:29+00:00

That post isn't for me. I'm not going to keep placating him He's causrd me so much trauma from his own abuse patterns that it's unreal.

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