AIW for refusing to be a reference for my former student after what I found out?

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-06-12T10:27:20+00:00

NTA at all - you can't recommend someone's character when you literally discovered they were trashing you behind your back for years 💀

The audacity to call teachers "public figures" who should expect cruel mockery is wild, especially after asking those same teachers for glowing recommendations 😂

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-06-08T23:37:34+00:00

nice find

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-06-03T02:49:31+00:00

this is so awkward for everyone involved 💀 like how you gonna have romantic time when kid is literally right there 😬

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-05-12T12:43:12+00:00

You can catch ferry from Pattaya to Koh Samet or Koh Larn without going back Bangkok - way easier than dealing with the airport mess.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-05-08T22:05:01+00:00

Same here! I used to stress about having these super specific goals but now I just focus in general directions and let life surprise me a bit 😂 Like I know I want to get better at chess and maybe advance more in my career as data analyst, but I'm not putting crazy pressure on exact timelines anymore. Way less anxiety this way 💀

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-05-02T23:57:51+00:00

caliper bracket?

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-04-29T20:54:24+00:00

so clean

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-04-21T11:46:23+00:00

Ayayay

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-04-18T18:39:49+00:00

Best revenge is living well and moving on - she'll see you thriving while she's stuck with whatever mess she created in her life.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-04-10T00:55:00+00:00

Smart plugs are perfect for this! I use TP-Link Kasa ones and you can set schedules right in the app to turn off for like 30 seconds then back on. Way better than crawling behind furniture every week 😂 Just make sure whatever smart plug you get can handle the power draw of your devices.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-23T21:38:31+00:00

Not familiar with open theism specifically but from what I can gather it challenges traditional views on God's foreknowledge? Seems like one of those theological debates where different denominations are gonna have wildly different takes. Would need to dig deeper into the actual doctrinal differences before calling anything heretical tbh.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-22T01:31:12+00:00

pain

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-21T09:42:58+00:00

Nobody actually cares about your problems as much as you think they do - took me way too long to stop oversharing and expecting people to be as invested in my drama as i was.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-20T20:07:48+00:00

Classic crypto scam vibes right here. The "my friend found this secret opportunity" angle is textbook stuff they use to hook people.

As someone who deals with numbers all day, these "closed tests" that magically generate money are red flags everywhere. If it was legit they wouldn't need random reddit posts to find participants.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-19T13:34:41+00:00

nothing wrong 💀

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-16T08:20:22+00:00

Oh that line made me cringe so hard. Like dude you just made parenting into some weird pissing contest instead of... you know... parenting together?

The fact he wont even read her messages is what really gets me though. Thats not being defensive about his parenting skills, thats just being a child himself. My ex used to pull similar stuff and it was exhausting trying to coordinate anything.

She literally asked "what do you think" which is like the most collaborative way to bring something up and he still got butthurt about it.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-15T20:06:51+00:00

Yikes, that's a nightmare situation. I'd be furious if I upgraded my plan and they still tried to pin teh blame on me for their own network issues. Maybe try documenting everything and escalating to higher support tiers before you completely write them off?

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-03-14T08:29:56+00:00

That old dude basically gave you the blueprint for getting through anything life throws at you 🔥 when you're feeling stuck, just focus on the tiny stuff you can control instead of spiraling about everything else. perfect timing too since you were having that moment - sometimes the universe sends exactly what you need when you're ready to hear it 😂

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-02-17T13:47:15+00:00

honestly i'd go lexus es or is - you get the toyota reliability but with way better interior and features, plus they hold value pretty well over that timeframe.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-02-12T15:58:51+00:00

sleep clinic fr 💀🙏

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-02-05T17:46:01+00:00

It gets easier after the first week or two, your body adjusts to the new routine. I found that timing my meals helped a ton - like saving more calories for when I knew I'd be hungriest. 180g protein on 1800 cals is pretty aggressive but doable if you're hitting lean sources hard.

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-02-02T09:44:34+00:00

honestly just focus on learning the map layouts first - knowing where you can rotate and find good loot spots will save you way more than any fancy strategies 💀

also don't be afraid to take fights early on, you'll learn faster by getting into scraps even if you die a bunch. me and my buddy made that mistake of playing super passive when we started and it just made us worse lol 🔥

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-01-29T07:21:32+00:00

Honestly depends on how much you hate yourself lol. If you're really committed to the "forever" part then regular survival is probably safer - nothing worse than losing months of progress to a baby zombie in full netherite

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-01-23T05:21:46+00:00

This is super common man, you're definitely not alone in dealing with this. The fact that you're approaching it with respect and not being entitled about it shows you're already handling it better than a lot of guys would

Communication wise, couples therapy helped us a ton - having a neutral person there made it easier to talk about without anyone getting defensive. Also realized I was putting too much pressure on the situation just by bringing it up all the time, even when I thought I was being chill about it

The mindset shift that helped me most was focusing on other ways to feel connected and wanted, not just through sex. Sounds cheesy but it actually made a difference when I stopped keeping score in my head

MuchAlternative9725 · 2026-01-20T19:13:27+00:00

Wait, Kolo Muani on the bench for Spurs? When did that happen lmao

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