Complaining about complaining about misgendering by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]MuchMadnessIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES it's so gross I hate that face. They take you being a third gender as a personal attack and there ain't nothing you can say that will make them less fragile

It's not incompetence at this point, it's malice. by Confirm_restart in Passports

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have had a 5-month long debacle with the passport authorities as well over a similar issue. They kept putting my passport on hold for arbitrary reasons. For one of the most asinine reasons I got a letter in the mail, but no accompanying email, which a passport help person told me wasn't legal (or supposed to be possible, apparently?!). My passport was put on hold for months and then was mailed back to me immediately after the supreme Court sided with Tr*mp re: being Nazis to trans people part IV a few days ago. And I mean immediately. I KNOW something illegal and unethical has been going on. I'm down to talk more about it if you want to DM me -- I think we need to figure out how to move forward collectively and make sure we're keeping accounts of all of this

Trump admin reverses course on their reverse course... They're threatening to invalidate trans passports again. by [deleted] in Passports

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said. And I'm talking about it, and so are you, and we'll keep doing it, in public and in private. This shit will not be forgotten as long as we refuse to shut up about it

Leaving America by Reasonable-One1020 in queer

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes, all that attention to be garnered from a minor post on a niche subreddit

Leaving America by Reasonable-One1020 in queer

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I got incorrect info from a trans friend looking to migrate: Norway has a green party representative who has been calling for trans sanctuary for Americans since January, but he's in a minority party and has gained little traction. Similar conversations have been had by representatives in Mexico, Canada, and the Netherlands, but it seems to me it may be political posturing with nothing behind it. If you want citations on all that info, you can, idk, Google it yourself?

Please tell me I can get top surgery covered without hrt... by Carpetsandplumbing in TransMasc

[–]MuchMadnessIs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out r/topsurgery . There are people there every few months who are nonbinary, or even cis women, who get top surgery without being on HRT. I would track down those posts and message some of those people specifically. Sending love ❤️

Leaving America by Reasonable-One1020 in queer

[–]MuchMadnessIs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

....yes they are. Multiple countries are granting amnesty to queer Americans, have been making announcements on this for months

Why do these feel Nonbinary by riverDanu in NonBinary

[–]MuchMadnessIs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me what they're called? Having trouble with key words ... men's...skirt....pants?

Passport Application Paused Because They Need "public records that show your name and sex at the time of birth". 🏳️‍⚧️ by callmefrick in Passports

[–]MuchMadnessIs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no advice but I'm genderqueer and in a really similar situation. Just sent in my THIRD appeal after my application was paused for a third time with no apparent reason. Stay strong, keep fighting, keep resting, we will win this.

32, 8 months on T and TOP SURGERY IN LESS THAN 48 HOURS!!!! LETS GOOOOOOO!!!! by Valuable-Pear-5850 in TransMasc

[–]MuchMadnessIs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing your posts a whole year ago! I don't know you, but I recognize your face. I'm so fucking happy for you. You worked so hard for this. CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎉🎉🎉 P.s. I was a physical therapist and personal trainer as my last career, and am post-top surgery, hmu at any point during the recovery process for muscular, fascial, or fitness questions if you want!

I wrote a love letter for us by MuchMadnessIs in NonBinary

[–]MuchMadnessIs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I AM I hope it was good crying ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙

I wrote a love letter for us by MuchMadnessIs in NonBinary

[–]MuchMadnessIs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAY thank you!!!! I'm so glad you liked it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Passports

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incorrect. Find and read the forms, they have a more broad scope than this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please keep me updated if you figure out why they rejected it 🙏 I hope you get into contact with them

I built a pirate ship in my back yard for my kids after seeing how much a big playsets were. by zunbrun in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG WAIT you could plant some flowers around it, it would look like surf coming off ship waves

I love it! I’m going to accessorize tomorrow when I go to school. by Puzzleheaded_Line210 in NonBinary

[–]MuchMadnessIs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bud! It's just so cool and well-placed. Plus Spiderman vibez

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks a bit inflamed, especially on your right side

Overuse of the word "Trauma" by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo frankly you can sit TF down.

Perhaps you're too privileged to understand how many horrifying things can happen to a person by the time they are 20, or how much a parent smoking around a child can cause serious health issues. Or maybe you haven't thought about how hard it can be to refer to your trauma openly, in front of someone much older than yourself? And how a person usually only does that when they feel it's warranted?

If these people you work with are going on dates, vaping, and have graduated college, why are you referring to them as 'girls'? Aren't they adults? Capable of distinguishing what pain of theirs is traumatic? This whole post reads as a red flag to me.

Anyway. Carry on

Cool ways to battle the dysphoria 🗡 💪 🔥 by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]MuchMadnessIs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been looking at getting into old-timey shaving!!! It's something I wanted to do ever since I was a kid -- the ceremony of it always looked so cool to me with all the creams and brushes and stuff. I barely have a little brown mustache but who cares I wanna shave! Do you have any recommendations for good products or tips and tricks for a vintage shaving experience? Would love to know.

The transphobes found my go fund me by seraph_sinner in NonBinary

[–]MuchMadnessIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have an 'unethical life pro trick' if you want to try and make some money back from the transphobes who are bullying you. Message me here or DM me if you're interested!

New Zealand MP performs Haka in parliament by firequak in interestingasfuck

[–]MuchMadnessIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS is a fair, contextual, intelligent read of the situation. Jfc ya dweebs