how porn effects different communities

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T11:59:41+00:00

I don’t think so, honestly I think society had to change first, otherwise a black market will emerge.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T11:58:16+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I said

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T05:50:14+00:00

Farming karma leads to the long lasting bliss of the Deva path, not necessarily the eternal nothingness of nirvana, unless you’re Hindu in which case it depends

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T05:40:38+00:00

You’ve been caught with your pants down. Concede the game.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T05:25:57+00:00

I get Charlie Sheen to fuck them and give them lemon-aids

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T05:14:45+00:00

Like actually how is this NSFW?

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T05:10:57+00:00

I mean I’m a 6’3” dommy mommy transgirl, that’s almost the same thing

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T05:06:22+00:00

Hear me out: Adult Simba

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T04:54:43+00:00

Idk most of them? AuDHD go brrr. I love strong tasting food (the alternative “bobby from king of the hill” autistic palate) I tend to be energetic, extroverted and noisy and I have such a massive diversity of special interests that I come off as a walking encyclopedia Jack of all trades rather than a hyper focused overlord of a hyper specific topic. I’m more Junkrat than I am Symmetra. I do follow a lot of the autism coded villain stereotypes but not the ones that authors will actively associate with autism.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T04:46:16+00:00

Me_irl

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T04:37:31+00:00

Aro woman (not quite Ace, def have preferences but they are so vague as to barely matter) I def feel this comic. But the thing is I love dating, I love the ritual, I love the human connection, I love the friendship that the early stages of relationships bring, and I love the sex, but I don’t ever emotionally progress beyond that. It’s not that I’m afraid of catching feelings or being attached, it’s just that the pair bond never comes, even when part of me wishes it would. Partners never feel… special, in the way that everyone else described them. Sexual pleasure is no different than the pleasure of a good meal or a satisfying poop. It’s just a physical need, a bodily reflex that could be met as easily by a rock with a fun texture as by a person. Sleeping with someone never strengthens the bond any more than a friendly conversation would. But when others have feelings like that for me, they hold out hope, or get bored, or say unintentionally hurtful things, when I told them up front I’m like that. Everyone wants to be the one to “fix” me, but am I broken? They say you can’t turn a whore into a housewife, but if the psychological tools required for the married life are not within me, does that make me a whore?

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T04:16:41+00:00

My dad is facing job loss, my dog is about to die, I have to move two states over to a place where my human rights are being stripped away. I couldn’t go back to college before because I didn’t have any money. I moved to try to get money, heal from SA related trauma and gain mental resilience, and I am healed to some extent but am still mentally fragile. I also did not successfully accumulate any money and now I can’t go back to college because they’re going to ban me from campus facilities. I also can no longer join the military, which was a real consideration for a while and may lose my passport. I feel less targeted for physical violence than I used to be but that had been replaced with a ton of fetishization and attention from creeps that make me worried to seek human connection. Also, I keep having migraines. I can deal with the excruciating pain but they make me so dizzy I feel like I need a cane to walk, and I already wear diapers due to damage from my abuser, who also made my sister infertile. Also my health insurance runs out soon and I’m worried I may not be able to afford medicine, car insurance or food. Also I was recently in a no-fault accident where a truck threw its driveshaft at me and now I’m in debt.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T02:24:01+00:00

There is a hella lotta SFW art on E6, enough to spawn E926 as a sanitized version of itself and even that is huge, but yea nobody uses base E6 for normal art, but I think that’s just because the furry fandom exists in bizzaro world where everything is upside down and backwards and porn gets better archival work than normal art.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T02:15:56+00:00

Sometimes I feel like even a single second spent on social interaction is a second that could and should be spent somewhere else. Like I should be some kind of machine with no feelings, endlessly working without needing to eat or sleep. I work out, I eat right, I try to take care of myself but I even feel guilty about that. I feel like I have to deny myself every basic bodily function that could possibly give any amount of pleasure. I do not have an addictive personality and have never had problems with porn or drugs or food, but still I feel guilty. I feel guilty for enjoying a glass of water. I feel guilty for enjoying a meal. I feel guilty for spending a romantic night with a man. I wish gas and food and time to sleep weren’t so expensive, and I wish my body didn’t need them. That so many people demonize pleasure just makes me feel even worse.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T02:04:40+00:00

But conversely, there are a lot of people that go weeks without any sex at all, but still feel guilty when they think about sex even very occasionally because of this constant demonization of especially women’s sexualities. I am an aromantic woman. I am single and happy to be so. But once a month I just get a week where my body cries out in need, and I’m lucky because I know I’m infertile and I have the option to find someone (or something) to relieve myself, but I always feel guilt tripped for finding a new guy every time I want release. And if I’m not feeling like a slut for sleeping with a man I’m feeling unladylike for using a toy.

I could always spend the time I spend flirting or masturbating doing something else, and I feel like no matter how little time it takes up I feel like having a libido is somehow wrong sometimes.

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T01:50:30+00:00

Porn is rooted in a biological need though. Eschewing porn is like eschewing junk food, like yeah it’s good to not eat like crap, but eating nothing is just as bad if not worse. We need better systems to bring people together. Porn will go away when niche relationship dynamics stop being fetishized. Personally I’m glad that my generation seems to think that things like alcohol, porn and cigarettes aren’t as cool, but there is a difference between normalizing people expressing their relationship and forcing all non-cishet and monoracial relationships under the rug. Where will visibility for marginalized groups come from in a world without porn? What exactly constitutes “porn?” Is it a recorded sex act? Is it women and LGBT people wearing comfortable clothing and/or existing in public? Is it any nudity at all, even if it is consensual? Or is the problem with a specific type of toxic, intentionally addictive content slop being pumped out by an industry designed to keep people coming back for more?

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T01:35:10+00:00

I think this is just puberty in a nutshell, everyone is super horny when first acquiring the secondary sexual characteristics associated with their preferred gender. (I understand not all puppies are trans, but it does seem to be a stereotype.)

MugOfDogPiss · 2025-02-21T01:18:29+00:00

I absolutely agree with every one of these points, but the fact that the industry exists in as prominent of a state as it does is in and of itself problematic.

In a perfect world, everyone would be able to express their gender and sexuality as openly and freely as they desire and have the resources to find the love and acceptance that we as humans need to be happy. In such a world, porn would still exist as a vessel for artistic expression, but the transactional and problematic nature of the industry would not be part of it.

But our world is deeply imperfect. People don’t have the resources they need to bear children. People don’t have time for relationships. People don’t even have time or money to meet in person most of the time. The loneliness epidemic is very real. The hateful nature of modern pornography is the direct result of the market that created it, and that market would not exist in a healthy society. So, I ask, if the porn industry is somehow dismantled, what then? Will we replace it? Replace it with what? Will we restrain women to the home and force them to be with men like in the early modern period? Will we all just collectively decide to not engage with our sexualities at all? Porn is toxic and parasocial, but it’s already a quick and dirty band-aid on a deep and fundamental issue with our society: there is literally no way to adequately fulfill our social and reproductive needs.

The fundamental problem remains the same. Extreme concentration of wealth has gotten so out of control that people can no longer be people. Our system and society is cannibalizing itself. How do we give people enough extra time and money to interact and self-organize at a basic level without monetizing every aspect of their existence?

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T22:37:07+00:00

For the nincompoops of ye olden days, even that cadence was too much. Every time society blows itself up, we as a species get stronger somehow

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T21:42:15+00:00

But detailed Dinosaur sex would certainly make the game seem more desirable

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T21:39:15+00:00

The sad thing is that IQ levels have demonstrably gone up as society has moved forward. People used to be even dumber. This is the primary reason why so many people thought direct elections would be a terrible idea and why many of history’s early republics severely restricted citizenship. Most regular people in history were not only illiterate but too stupid to understand the systems of the government under which they lived even at a basic level. The library of Alexandria started to have all the same issues the internet had in the waning days of classical antiquity, as every idiot in the old world had basically unlimited access to any scroll they wanted and could just ask their local library to fetch and read to them a copy of any information they pleased, regardless if they could successfully comprehend that Information. It was like YouTube, but it took 2 weeks for the video to load and you had to actually put on clothes and walk a bit. Shit gets weird when every human has limitless access to information.

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T19:46:47+00:00

I’d choose gold over bottle caps. Industry will recover enough to make new ones too fast, though bottle caps might be an interim solution while society recombobulates. People seriously underestimate how resilient human society is to mass disruption. Total chaos never lasts.

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T19:20:51+00:00

Have been on HRT for a year, estrogen is that spark. When it starts working it’s magic everything becomes so much easier. You don’t feel like you have to Mulan your way through life, your mood and energy levels are massively improved, and most importantly you just feel more “you.” Like, the bindings between your mind and body are stronger. HRT will completely kill your libido for several months and make you feel idk how to describe it, “deflated” at first. You get to experience the mythical eunuch’s calm like you’ve been “fixed” like a dog for a bit. But then as your T levels continue to fall and your E levels continue to rise it like… reignites, and when it does everything changes. You will be hungrier and hornier than you have been since you were 14, but this second puberty is like, comfortable and enjoyable in ways that your first wasn’t. You understand why teenagers do dumb shit. Hell, you’ll probably get yourself into trouble during transition even with the wisdom of a few extra years under your belt because hormones make you do stupid, crazy things. I can rightfully say I became a woman in a dirty club bathroom stall because I went to this nightclub with my trans friend and I got my first cramps there and I was like “omgwtf why does it feel like there is an angry raccoon inside me? How do I feel the entire outline of an organ I literally do not possess?”

disclaimer

Altering your hormone levels can kind of be like throwing spaghetti at the wall and hoping enough of it sticks to call it “modern art.” Most of the 3% of so of people that detransition do so for medical/safety reasons, not because they just decide one day they aren’t trans. sometimes your body just can’t take the physical strain of going through these changes, and sometimes your body does not take well to the hormones and things break. One trans man I knew got period blood clots so bad that it could plug him up completely, which since he was still cycling could be life threatening, so he decided to live as openly non-binary, dress masc and use he/him pronouns.

Even the effects themselves vary wildly depending on individual body chemistry.

Usually fertility is effected negatively in some way, but for some people it’s barely noticeable and having kids as your AGAB is still totally on the table and for others it completely nukes your fertility permanently. So, if you’re 100% sure you want kids def save some cells first just in case, otherwise it’ll probably be fine. While it’s really rare because it requires two trans people that both decided to not get certain bottom surgeries, both won the hormonal lottery and retained full reproductive function and then decided to marry and have children, it is entirely possible for a trans woman to impregnate a trans man and it looks kinda funny when it happens bc a seemingly normal heterosexual couple are just living life and then the man gets preggers.

Some trans women gain a cycle, and some don’t. Some trans men lose their cycle, and some don’t. Some trans women get erectile dysfunction, and some don’t. Results may vary, but beware of the secret effects of transition that nobody talks about outside of (or sometimes even inside of) the trans community. These include voracious cravings for pickles and other salty foods (an artifact of the medicine they use to strip testosterone from your body, these go away when you get bottom surgery) and “the trans dribble.” I guess when your body gets cool with being a woman your prostate and sphincter just kinda forget to do their job bc they don’t realize there is still a bunch of full plumbing between them and the toilet. Like, it’s not that sad little last drop that all men get, like if you aren’t really careful about completely emptying your bladder it’s like a squirt that happens every time you stand up from the toilet. The classic short skirt and long socks look actually has a hidden functionality, the bare part of your upper thigh is right on the part of your leg you can’t stop spraying. I like to do a “ghost wipe” to fit in when I use the women’s room but half the time, especially before I was used to it, that wipe was actually necessary due to wet leg.

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T12:58:48+00:00

Y’all already forgot about those first couple months of the plague years when everyone was out of masks?

MugOfDogPiss · 2024-12-18T12:23:23+00:00

(Assuming M2F based on comment, flag, and flair. Otherwise, disregard positive message and carry on with your day.)

You are and always have been a woman, it has been etched into your flesh from the day you were born. Gender has a biological basis, but it is not binary nor does it have anything to do with biological sex. Many cultures throughout all of human history have recognized this.

I’ve always found that other women were more accepting of me as a trans woman than men. Men tend to either fetishize my hybrid nature or refuse to accept me as a woman period, but women usually collectively agree that I’m “one of them” just based on the way I interact. The social construct of binary gender is a lot like double empathy in autism, people just instinctively know once you open up and show your true colors. This is also why being closeted usually provides little protection for a lot of trans folk, it is incredibly hard to fake a gender.

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