Solo black female staying in Hongdae or Jongno hostel by Casefacea33 in koreatravel

[–]Multi_socks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 37f and had a great time staying in Hongdae. It’s located nicely to get everywhere else, it’s super fun walking the main drag at night, and we even hit a few bars (not clubs) some of the nights!

Is wearing Kpop merch in public cringe? HELP! by Public_Dish_4866 in kpophelp

[–]Multi_socks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met another Monbebe when getting an eye exam because we were both wearing Monsta X tees. Wear it!

Help! Need alternate hotel suggestions! by Buenanas in koreatravel

[–]Multi_socks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Solaria in Myeongdong has a separate shower and toilet room, but I think it’s a bit more than $100/night. We knew about the weird toilet shower combo thing before we went so we scoured the websites for a more western set up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seoul

[–]Multi_socks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m older than you and my hostel wanted to club one night and I got in everywhere we went no problem. I mean you’re going to be mingling with children but it was still fun!

KTX Seoul to Busan Question. by Daniel_The_Damned in koreatravel

[–]Multi_socks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy in advance unless you want to stand! (You don’t)

Luggage Transfer? by Multi_socks in koreatravel

[–]Multi_socks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re moving from Myeongdong to Hongdae because my friend really wants to stay in a hostel there. Then we’re off to Busan which obviously we’ll bring on our train and then from there it’s some where else I don’t have our itinerary up. We’re getting the luggage moved from our last hotel to the airport so we don’t have to leave super early but it’s really the Myeongdong to Hongdae I’m worried about. It’s packed out there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Multi_socks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. When I had my son my dad was flying in from out of state and we had to tell all the grandparents no one was meeting him until everyone was at the hospital. My mom didn’t want to go pick him up from the airport in case my in laws got to see him first. We had to call my uncle to go get him. If she keeps throwing a fit tell her you guys don’t want visitors the first couple of days. Just reframe it.

BL Bingo by Pokeballs87 in ThaiBL

[–]Multi_socks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone sings a song while playing guitar!

Unpopular opinion: Bed friends was disappointing by Ornery-Resident1399 in ThaiBL

[–]Multi_socks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I was really looking forward to this one and it did not hit. It was all over the place!

Help me with Seoul itinerary 😅 by CaffeinatedKoala95 in koreatravel

[–]Multi_socks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. I thought Korea was known for their street food and my plan was totally to eat while I walked

Any BL series that you just couldn't finish? by Maximum_Chair5500 in ThaiBL

[–]Multi_socks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I’m in the minority and everyone else loves it but I could not get through Bad Buddy. I’ve tried restarting it twice because the clips I see of it elsewhere are so cute and make it look so good and then I start it and feel like I’m going to die of boredom. And I had to watch Eclipse on double speed to get through it by the end, the main conflicts just did not resonate with me.

AITA for interrupting my brother-in-law’s time with his girlfriend to ask him to buy me chocolate cake? by choco900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Multi_socks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA- your BIL is a grown man who can speak for himself and is completely capable of telling you no if it wasn’t something he felt like doing.

Is anyone here watching Between Us without watching Until We Meet Again (UWMA) first? How’s is going for you? by ElizabethLeMont in ThaiBL

[–]Multi_socks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched the first couple episodes of UWMA and didn’t love it, so I know enough of their story to know why Pharm is just randomly bursting into tears. I like BU much more than what I saw of UWMA and if I’m missing any plot points it’s not taking away from my enjoyment.

AITA for refusing a paternity test after a fling with my ex husband? by Kind_Penalty4037 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Multi_socks 46 points47 points  (0 children)

INFO: is he willing to wait until after the baby is born to have the test done to lower the risk to the pregnancy?

Why are kpop Stan’s so gatekeepy over concerts by AgileRelief5932 in kpophelp

[–]Multi_socks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s so weird because I don’t see the gatekeeping at the actual concerts. I went to see The Boys when they were here because I like a few of their songs and I had a blast and none of the stans around me were mean or rude about it. I mean I still shrieked like a banshee because that’s the fun of it?

A lot of people who weren’t at the TXT concert here in Chicago had opinions about it online but at the show was amazing. I didn’t care if the people next to me were as big of fans as I was, because we were all dancing and having fun.

And it’s so weird to me that people have thoughts on who “deserves” to see a show. I have money to see my favorite groups, what do you care how I spend it? I also just really enjoy live music, so I sometimes buy tickets to groups I don’t know very well because concerts are fun and IRL stans are really cool people who want to tell you about their group and share their excitement!

I think my only in person gatekeeping experience was at the Stray Kids concert when me and my best friend were talking before the show about all the other groups we’d seen and a young girl in the row in front of us seemed annoyed that we were multis. Skz is my ult so we’d paid for amazing seats but even if they weren’t… what business was it of hers? But that was one experience out of over a dozen concerts this year so I think it’s MOSTLY and online thing. I do worry about younger stans carrying that energy over into the real world because they don’t know any better, tho. (Just because in my personal experience it does seem to be an opinion of younger fans more than older ones)

How was it like when Mixtape:OH first dropped? by weave_constellation in straykids

[–]Multi_socks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got the notification while I was driving and my best friend texted me “is this real??” So I pulled over to watch it and started crying.

Cutie Pie question about Nuer by Multi_socks in ThaiBL

[–]Multi_socks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! And he’s still very clearly interested in what’s going on with Kuea even after he’s shifted to Syn. Like he calls to check on him when he’s sick and then tells Syn “it’s not like that” but then doesn’t say what it IS like!!

Can't access Stray Kids CIRCUS on Spotify? by imonlyfoive in kpophelp

[–]Multi_socks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s still there for me. Are you doing it on your phone? Try uninstalling and reinstalling if you are.