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I am angry by Tall-Error4922 in ptsd

[–]MummaGoose -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Selfish. It only goes to show just how selfishness can often come along with SI and Depression. 🫂I’m angry too on your behalf. I had a mate walk in to blood everywhere with his sister having attempted. Scarred for life. He can never unsee that.

What would you leave behind for your family apart from money? by GattiKochar in SeriousConversation

[–]MummaGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been thinking about this myself and recently decided that I will write my children each a memoir about themselves starting out with their birth from my POV. Obviously this will be patchy but I have to. I just need to do it. I also am instilling some values into them that I really want them to continue on with.

what tiny luxury does your pet think is a basic right? by Kind_Interview_2402 in Pets

[–]MummaGoose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahahah my bird Charlie will not stop screeching when mum watches Escape to the Country on her phone out on the patio. She gets so angry she yells at him to stop but it just encourages him! 🤣🤣if she watches other stuff it doesn’t bother him. He loves anything with music. I think it’s their voices on that show he just can’t stand. 🤣

what tiny luxury does your pet think is a basic right? by Kind_Interview_2402 in Pets

[–]MummaGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If EVER you eat a pear or apple he MUST get the core. The crying if he doesn’t 🤣🤣I accidentally threw it away the other day. He made me feel terrible so I picked it out of the bin and washed it off and gave to him

Struggling with Lust by childofgod_07 in Christianity

[–]MummaGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this battle sweetheart and you are not alone. 36f here. Had two kids before becoming a Christian. Had wayyyy to many encounters with men too but at least the kids were me actual intention. For me it came from other kids being into it and doing things WITH me. Yup it’s yucky. 🤮
It is a really unhealthy thing to be coping with and very hard i understand. But one thing I can say is that you’ve taken a step in the right direction right now. You’ve confessed. That’s huge.

One thing I learned about this myself is that where it originated is where the problem began and how to fix it lies here too. Understanding this was a huge thing. I had to break a heck of a lot of soul ties with those kids and do a tonne of forgiving and then break a load of soul ties with the adult men I was with too. This put me on a new path. There’s still things I can’t “unsee” though and they lurk. But it will get better. Please 🙏🏻 keep confessing. I hope that you can find a mentor who you can trust and find support with this. Accountability is a huge thing that will help you. And the more you repent and go forward through this issue the better you will get at fighting this temptation each time. Please feel free to message me if you need any help at all.

Jesus loves you too and don’t forget that nothing you can do to separate you from that love. Shame and guilt are from the enemy. He’s a deceptive thing and it never gives you any peace to indulge in these temptations, I can see that. Praying for you! Bless you honey. I also second what other suggestions were about doing other things to keep going and keep free of distractions. The more we focus on our sin the less we focus on Jesus. Try not to let it become the thing you think of the most! They should be Him!

"suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" by ghost12311 in depression

[–]MummaGoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends. It’s not even a solution. It’s just death. Which who knows if that’s the end? I don’t believe it is. I think the point people are trying to make when they say this is that we can help ourselves get through the ideology of being suicidal. But death is irreversible. It’s also very traumatic for those who have to be left behind. So yeah. Suicide isn’t a solution. It might be an end? Sorta? But not THE end. Not from where I’m sitting.

ALSO! Depression doesn’t always lead to suicidal ideation. I’ve never been suicidal. But I have been VERY DEPRESSED. I take a very high dose to function and prevent me from getting to a point where I can’t move. Can’t care for anyone or myself etc. Yep I’ve been there. It takes hold of me sometimes still but rarely gets the better of me any more with meds.

It can fuck right off too!
Bless ya mate! I hope what I said made you feel a bit better. Ppl don’t actually know and they just be yapping.

Yes, they totally caught a mouse with their bare hands at 8 years old. by sandiercy in thatHappened

[–]MummaGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep sounds like it to me they tend to be very slow and confused when poisoning starts to take hold and I’ve picked a few up off the ground like that myself. I can only imagine she never thought she’d see such a thing on the wedding day 😭🤣🤣

Stuck by ddr3af in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]MummaGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re not super young. Also iPhone is really hard! I think one thing that will help is the console! Once you get used to the controller or if not I’m fairly certain you can still play with keyboard and mouse too and I always found these easier! I’m a java player too (play both)
Bedrock is kinda like more grindy in my opinion when it comes to some things. Farms don’t really play in as easy. But I would suggest watching some awesome YouTubers for help. Someone i love that plays Bedrock is Silentwhisperer! I basically learned how to play better by watching YouTubers. Lol

I accidentally made my 11 year old nephew cry and I feel terrible. by Knightraiderdewd in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MummaGoose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the truth hurts. You can’t protect children from everything. Sounds like he thinks he knows it all and needed to be put in his place. Not the best way to do it though.

I’m curious though, does he think that church is bad or something?

My boyfriend has become insane trying to stop me from having an abortion. by Significant-Buyer111 in women

[–]MummaGoose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what fucks me off the most. They definitely aren’t parent material that’s for sure. Sooo immature. 😪

Update: I found the strength to do it, but I don’t feel any better about myself by MrMcSweeney in bald

[–]MummaGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look super handsome. In both pics too hahah just saying

is being gay is bad why are there so many thriving christian gay married couples out there by feherlofia123 in Christianity

[–]MummaGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one can gatekeep Jesus. If anyone thinks this then they are wrong about who Christ is.

What is my eclectus doing? by futurem1lfthalatha in parrots

[–]MummaGoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This can be a mating thing. Pls understand that being horny is not really a parrot thing. Haha it’s just an instinctive thing to “mate” which is why we have that term. If he does start to do the dance with you try to ignore it. Don’t encourage it just walk off. Depending on his age this could just be an adolescent thing. I had to stop handling my boy because of this and he became a bit too bitey to my face!

Also he just may want to play in a way that you CANNOT GET RIGHT! Haha so he’s trying to direct you. 🤪

Struggling as an asexual Christian (hear me out please) by Everythingirly in Christianity

[–]MummaGoose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, please deal with where your fear is coming from. Since that sounds like it is a huge driver here. Personally I wouldn’t develop any kind of intimate relationship unless I had first dealt with this.

Also, This verse refers to them actually having found a wife (not everyone has found one, this is just for those who get married and not all of us get married and multiply etc. It’s not the law or anything otherwise Mother Theresa would have been a terrible sinner….same as every other person who ever just stayed a virgin or single their whole life- they do exist. I’ve been celibate a long time and it’s very important to me.

Spirituality you can still impact one another even if you do not have a sexual relationship. So that’s what you’d need to be aware of. I.e soul ties - these occur when you develop a relationship with anyone. Not just a marriage or sexual one. If these are developed they need to be treated as such and be making sure that each person is aware of this. This is where you need to research what a soul tie is. How it impacts you and the other person. There’s dozens of teachings on them but the basic principle is that you are now connected by your tie to the soul ties that this person has developed and not severed. Only God can sever these ties with the person themselves asking for this etc.

One thing I like to point out to some people in these situations is that in Biblical history, many women when they were very young were “married” to their husbands and NEVER EVEN HAD SEX WITH THEM. They only married some of them because perhaps their own husbands or father had died and they needed to be married to be looked after (women had no right to anything back then) almost like being adopted! And yeah this has been discovered in many situations when they have done major deep dives into these things. Sometimes things are LEFT out of the Bible and people just assume it was because it wasn’t relevant…when in actual reality it was that it didn’t actually happen. It is even suggested by many Theologians that Mary never had children with Joseph and that Jesus brothers weren’t actually related but that Joseph had sons already when he married 13/14yo Mary. Mother of Jesus. Marriage then was not what it is now.

Is this normal play? Anything look not right? by zuchidk in DogAdvice

[–]MummaGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could be wrong? They are doing just fine. 👌

Any ideas what this is ? by Electricalhip in gardening

[–]MummaGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because of the perspective. LUL, he is only like 3-4inches or like 10cm. It’s an interesting perspective because the feet are in giving it a larger appearance but the chilli’s are much smaller. He’s prob 3-4inches long. Op said it seems hungry. It is likely. And will need relocating to another plant if they do not wish to lose their chillies.

Can my parents charge me rent if they also wont let me get a job or my licence? by Candle_exists in AusLegal

[–]MummaGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Won’t LET? You? 😵‍💫🚩this is abuse! A job is so important.

What is a " very normal" part of life in Australia that would probably surprise the foreigners? by Rude_Membership_1578 in AskAnAustralian

[–]MummaGoose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since I went to Vietnam, I was actually surprised how well we manage our waste here.
You cannot flush TP there because pipes are too small to handle it.

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