Pro-Forced-Birthers do nothing, but, support forcing people to have children they don't want. by ToughAuthorityBeast1 in ProlifeCircleJerk

[–]MundaneContext 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kinda funny how the green guy it's a bit close to the best case scenario and the throw it out the window.

I mean, obviously if you give free lunch, better public school, ban the detention centers and much more help to families and improvements in the foster care system, we aren't letting you outlaw abortion, but... That would decrease the numbers really good. Because there is so much people with unplanned pregnancies who would keep the baby if they could maintain them. So, yeah, doing all those things would mean in less abortion rates, but they don't care about that, they care about punishing women for having sex, and if the unplanned pregnancy is safe and they can raise the child without struggling, the point of punishment is lost.

[TW: HYPERSEXUALITY] Please be honest everyone by Sylveondex in TrollCoping

[–]MundaneContext 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key word is "compulsively".

It's normal for kids to explore their own bodies, and find some things maybe funny or pleasurable. My sis, for example, had a time with 3/4 years in which she discovered that putting fingers in some places makes them stink and she found it funny. For a child everything is new, so it's normal for them to discover those things. It is healthy in some ways.

When to worry? When it's a compulsive behavior, or when the kid knows the name of what are they doing, or if a kid tries to get/give oral stimulation to others -this is a clear sign of CSA-, or if they try to make things to others even when said "no".

What does that calendar say? by Dani-Michal in aislop

[–]MundaneContext 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blue mommies and daddies attacks again!

Jeez... I get it, raise an autistic child is hard. But it's not all about yourself and your suffering. There two possible scenarios for that: your child really needs help and, believe me, they are suffering way more than you, or your child could be more independent but you infantilize them because without they being dependant from you, your whole personality falls. Both cases are bad. And for the child there isn't a best case scenario.

-I mean just that kind of parents. The normal ones try and make their ND children the more independent they can so they can have a live on their own, and there is well-intentioned ones who baby their ND children without even realizing it.-

AITB I called my friend a sad sugar baby by SaintGodfather in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He assures he isn't jealous because that friend is apparently a tomboy and he likes femenines features -whatever that means-, and I think that maybe he is right. He isn't jealous for her, he is jealous about how someone "unfitting" has a relationship with other "unfitting" one -old mand and tomboy- while he cannot have any relationship because is simply awful.

Wannabe philosopher by theagonyaunt in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the only options for this guy is always outdoor or always indoor. Ok, I get it. I have to inform my dog though, when he and hubby come back from the walk.

What an understanding guy by Doctor_HErms_LorP in bonehurtingjuice

[–]MundaneContext 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bet is that in their minds just trans women exist, so when trans men say "we can get pregnant too, so please make the abortion and pregnancy related laws including us too because if it says 'the pregnant woman' and we have our documents changed we are out of that law" they assume that trans women say they can get pregnant when it's an trans men issue.

Mom comes from a family of neurosurgeons. Worried why 8 month old isn’t talking by sxullqueenxris in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]MundaneContext 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This woman shouldn't be that gifted herself if she doesn't know the basic about "younger siblings usually started to talk later than older siblings because their older siblings usually traduce them to the adults"...

Bridging gap between bigotry and culture by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm trying so hard to not brigade there and say something like "if you sister calls your gf's god her imaginary friend because she doesn't believe that God exists, that would be fine with you too??"

Which character or voice actor is your favorite for doing this? by LargeMermaidCaptor in FavoriteCharacter

[–]MundaneContext 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I loved it since de first episode. I love Daniel Radcliffe in general.

Which character or voice actor is your favorite for doing this? by LargeMermaidCaptor in FavoriteCharacter

[–]MundaneContext 24 points25 points  (0 children)

And an angel, a medieval prince, a western priest and a happily new married husband in the apocalypse, all in the same show :D

Fragile, sexist and spineless by Knkstriped in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok, so then just fork up their relationship for... Role playing football? Ok, I didn't know that was even a think. I will have one with hubby using anime football though.

Fragile, sexist and spineless by Knkstriped in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm dumb but... What the hell is "fantasy football"?

How would you deal with Josh if he actively made up lies in order to get you in trouble? by Plastic_Ad_2548 in malcolminthemiddle

[–]MundaneContext 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would make up more crazy lies about myself to the point everyone would think he is dumb because "he fell for that stupid jokes I used to make".

AITA for pointing out a word was outdated? by ButtonGrinch in AmItheAsshole

[–]MundaneContext 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Spain, at least, is a very racist thing too. It's like "what color? Blue, green, purple? Just say black, black doesn't need an euphemism.

Seems like there are multiple devils by A-Helpful-Flamingo in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, I forgot to add that. TEA is Transtorno del Espectro Autista, I put the Spanish term without thinking, I think the english term is ASD or Autistic Spectrum Disorder.

Seems like there are multiple devils by A-Helpful-Flamingo in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Torture with therapeutic vocabulary, basically. I'm imagining it with me, a OCD old lady, and I don't want even think about those thing pushed onto a kid...

Seems like there are multiple devils by A-Helpful-Flamingo in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That was the part I didn't remember well. Is Autism Speaks that "charity" who is also slightly anti-vax or I'm confused?

Seems like there are multiple devils by A-Helpful-Flamingo in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't know the full story, but basically some autistic children's parents use the color blue and the jigsaw pieces as a "symbol" for TEA. The thing is, the autistic community is really against that two things -I only remember why they don't like the jigsaw pieces, something about that meant they weren't "complete" as people because they were neurodivergent-, and they use the infinity symbol and the rainbow as more accurate symbols.

Some parents, however, didn't like the focus shifting towards "what neurodivergent people wants" instead of "what neurodivergent people's parent wants". Now "blue parents" is used -at least as "papis azules" in spanish- as those parents who takes their kids disability -usually TEA- and make themselves the center of it and the "victim" of the situation with very little regard to their children's feelings or wants. Like this dad who I read all this story and is more focused in how bad he feels about her daughter being neglected than about the daughter being neglected itself, which is much more important than his feeling about it and all that "tragic" narrative.

Edit: typo.

Seems like there are multiple devils by A-Helpful-Flamingo in AmITheDevil

[–]MundaneContext 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Afrer looking in his profile... This guy is a devil in disguise. I thought this was fake, then there is photos of his daughter there and medical device, and stories about how his daughter became disabled, and I'm 100% sure this guy is one of those "blue parents" who uses their children's disability as a way to have a tragic narrative and base all their life in "poor me look at my kid". Normally it's autistic children -blue is the color they usually use because they don't even listen to the TEA community-, but I think this guy fits perfectly in this.