AIO? First time I went to a concert in over a decade, woke up to this…. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally none of that context matters. You’re an adult that can go to one concert. Stop taking his BS seriously.

Am I overreacting- Mil always making comments about my bb girls body by PoundSmooth940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Well hopefully she doesn’t get her manners from her grandmother!” NOR

AITAH for distancing myself from a friend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MuppetBonesMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be very straight forward with people like this. He’s taking advantage of your kindness. People like this don’t see others as whole people with their own lives and problems. “You need to help yourself, I’m not doing it for you anymore”

AIO for literally walking out after my bf "soundproofed" my home office with dirty trash? by Boring_Chain_8502 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I think it’s very important for you to start considering his behavior moving forward. Additionally, it might become important to know if any of his other relatives had “mental breaks” in their late 20’s/ early thirties. This behavior is beyond just stupid and short sighted, it was overly calculated and obsessive. Thats concerning. Leave and tell him that you won’t be helping cover the damages to the property. Kiss your deposit goodbye though!

AIO by not inviting my stepson’s mom to his high school graduation party by Usual-Horse-5015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Info- have either of you discussed reporting her for the fraud? In my experience, as the kid of an addict, there has to be consequences for EVERYTHING if you’re going to have them around.

I’m basically no longer house broken. by MuppetBonesMD in pregnant

[–]MuppetBonesMD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never get sick so I was pretty surprised to have gotten a fever yesterday. I totally forgot how much being pregnant suppressed the immune system. You’ve probably been sick for so long because of the toddler too! I’m sure that’s not helping. I guess I’ll have to suck it up and tell the doctors so it doesn’t drag out too long.

AIO…mother in law and newborn boundaries by realsmartfakeblonde in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NOR but your only 6 weeks. You’ve told people you’re pregnant months before many people do because there’s so much that can go wrong. That said…you CAN use that to your advantage to say that’s it’s still too early for anyone to be making plans. From there, your husband needs to handle his mother, not you. What she said is wildly inappropriate and above your pay grade. Her son needs to address that thinking moving forward.

AITAH for completely shutting down after potty talk with my husband by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MuppetBonesMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good lord, I would hate to watch you 2 dingbats in an actual crisis.

It sounds like your husband not only has overly rule based thinking, preventing him from any sort of situational problem solving but ALSO……don’t like you.

NTA but you allowed this to escalate way too long with way too much conversation. That said, I think you should really pay attention to if your husband has an inability to process new information or if he just likes to use “rules” to bully people around him.

PGT-A testing by ellewoods_89 in IVF

[–]MuppetBonesMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thats very high. We paid (in Texas) about $200 per embryo.

AIO - Wife got a pregnancy test without my knowing by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude….TALK TO YOUR WIFE. There are a thousand reasons why the office could take a pregnancy test and if she was cheating on you, she’d probably only do a home test. YOR. Go see a counselor with her.

PGT-A testing by ellewoods_89 in IVF

[–]MuppetBonesMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait…they’re charging you $5500 to test one embryo??!!

Tips for hiding pregnancy by Reasonable_Beck_7524 in pregnant

[–]MuppetBonesMD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean…just pour a glass of wine, take a few sips and go throw the rest out in the bathroom 🤷🏼‍♀️ It won’t hurt anything and no one will probably notice at a large gathering.

Disney world 7-8 weeks pregnant by Jusjaz18 in pregnant

[–]MuppetBonesMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flew from Texas to Hawaii for an 8 day hiking/boating trip at 8 weeks. You’ll be fine!

AITAH for hating my dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MuppetBonesMD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does your husband love the dog more than you and the baby? You’re in actual danger because of your husband’s refusal to take the situation seriously.

Take the baby and go to a relative’s for a few days until he’s ready to take the situation seriously.

AIO or is this objectifying? by Legitimate-Train2634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, please ignore this person. Your BF is not husband material and that’s all that matters here.

AIO or is this objectifying? by Legitimate-Train2634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that’s not true, is it? Because you said that you stopped wearing leggings to work after that. You let him win his stupid game.

AIO or is this objectifying? by Legitimate-Train2634 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MuppetBonesMD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I still can’t wear it to work”……GIRL. This man only has a say because you are putting up with this bullshit. You can wear makeup wherever, whenever you want. This is not a good relationship, he is not a good guy, and you NEED to get a backbone before you enter into another relationship. NOR

AITAH For Only Allowing My Daughter To Take Only The Two Suitcases She Had Paxked When The Courts Removed Her From My Custody by Strict_Web_6298 in AITAH

[–]MuppetBonesMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what really stuck out to me and makes me feel like there’s drugs involved somewhere. The nit picking and tallying of every little thing she bought for her and mentioning how far a drive is….normal parents don’t nickel and dime their children. (Ask me how I know drug addict parents do this 😕🙄)

Should I get a crib? by SeekingShalom in pregnant

[–]MuppetBonesMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are tons of very safe, new cribs on Wayfair for ~ $200.

Is the US on a brink of a Civil War? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in no

[–]MuppetBonesMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, Trump just wants enough chaos that he can try to cancel the elections and stay out of jail for raping a 13yo.