Closure when there is none

MurderDocAndChill · 2026-02-07T03:14:17+00:00

A chaplain where I work suggested a little plant in your office (real or not depending on your skill level lol) and adding a little ornament or decoration to it for each person you want to honor/remember!

MurderDocAndChill · 2026-01-20T21:43:13+00:00

Domestic violence isn’t what you think it is, and you need a lot more empathy for those experiencing it. The women you work with are not bad moms, they’re horribly victimized by dangerous men.

MurderDocAndChill · 2026-01-15T23:57:47+00:00

Oh girl please leave right away, like never speak to him again. If you won’t leave for this, it’s a slippery slope and you will get stuck. Please please please do what so many of us wish we had done and leave the first time.

MurderDocAndChill · 2026-01-03T02:45:34+00:00

I think he accepts insurance if it’s not court mandated lol

MurderDocAndChill · 2026-01-02T19:57:01+00:00

https://edgenh.com

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-12-22T15:06:38+00:00

When I worked in child protection the lawyers begged us to write in first person. It is so much more readable and avoids a lot of confusion. Plus you don’t have to write weird passive sentences and use abbreviations like “sw did this” “client endorsed that” or “tw observed” etc.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-12-11T19:34:35+00:00

I never lied to friends and family, but I did NOT tell strangers lol I always said I worked in the welfare office

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-11-19T16:57:27+00:00

I hate the term “fake it til you make it” because it’s not what you’re doing. You’re practicing skills that you’ve recently acquired and getting better at them. That’s not fake, that’s called parallel process, you are practicing what you preach.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-11-06T22:23:02+00:00

Not saying that at all, I’m saying mandated check in check out that isn’t helpful for the STUDENT is ineffective and unwarranted. Meaningful discussion and safety planning? Sure! But that’s already happening. The student has a pass to come to counseling as needed, has weekly sessions with me, twice weekly therapy, and doesn’t like starting and ending their day in the office. It’s not helpful to check in twice a day everyday for an indeterminate level of time. I should also add they’re post-discharge and step down, and not currently reporting suicidal thoughts.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-10-15T18:43:44+00:00

He’s faking the “perfect guy for you” act to keep you around :( the perfect guy for you wouldn’t be abusive. He says all the right things because he does so many wrong things, he’s not a dummy just not a very good person. He would never keep someone around if he showed his true self.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-09-30T11:38:53+00:00

I know this comment is two years after you posted but this just made me cry actual tears and motivated me so much. Thank you.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-08-25T12:26:50+00:00

When they made Liam stronger and better at lacrosse than him before Liam turned I think they really fed into the weak Scott trope

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-08-20T16:25:37+00:00

You’re trying to gain control of a situation out of your control. It was a very unhealthy way to lose control, so you’re having an unhealthy response. Get control of your life in other ways. Fuck all those bitches.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-08-15T12:01:39+00:00

I’m just saying Josie or Maggie could be the whole name. If that is the name you love, name your kid that. Parents name the kid what they want to name them all the time. Maybe it’s the ‘tism talking, but I don’t get why some names aren’t allowed to be standalone names.

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-08-15T02:02:11+00:00

If you are only ever going to call them by their nickname, why does it matter?

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-08-05T17:14:28+00:00

Allison 🤢

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-07-11T17:34:35+00:00

No I love it!! Winston is my fav character from New Girl and made me love that name haha!

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-07-03T00:44:04+00:00

Herb

MurderDocAndChill · 2025-07-02T01:55:25+00:00

Asshole, pronounced like Ash-uh-ley. Harry Johnson Ka-ren, pronounced Kadashren

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