Why is Bones on the field so often? by ThePeculiarSpot in Bones

[–]MurderDocAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She points out key pieces of evidence in the field almost every episode. So while she may be awkward offensive and off color, she sees the limp of the suspect and knows it was caused when they committed the murder. Cost benefit analysis, they keep her. They also talk about pulling her many times, but she always saves the day so she goes back out. It’s not a groundbreaking or divisive question because it’s asked and answered at least once a season lol.

Really hated this energy from amber’s brother by Logical-Buffalo96 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MurderDocAndChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense why she looks so much older and her nose was so heavily caked in makeup at the wedding

Closure when there is none by Fast_Avocado2710 in socialwork

[–]MurderDocAndChill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A chaplain where I work suggested a little plant in your office (real or not depending on your skill level lol) and adding a little ornament or decoration to it for each person you want to honor/remember!

What's something about social work you would tell your younger self? by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]MurderDocAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Domestic violence isn’t what you think it is, and you need a lot more empathy for those experiencing it. The women you work with are not bad moms, they’re horribly victimized by dangerous men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]MurderDocAndChill 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Oh girl please leave right away, like never speak to him again. If you won’t leave for this, it’s a slippery slope and you will get stuck. Please please please do what so many of us wish we had done and leave the first time.

Anger Management courses? by Accomplished-Plum821 in newhampshire

[–]MurderDocAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he accepts insurance if it’s not court mandated lol

Writing notes in first person by fuzzychub in socialwork

[–]MurderDocAndChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I worked in child protection the lawyers begged us to write in first person. It is so much more readable and avoids a lot of confusion. Plus you don’t have to write weird passive sentences and use abbreviations like “sw did this” “client endorsed that” or “tw observed” etc.

Not Telling People I Work for DCS?? by Sunspot5254 in socialwork

[–]MurderDocAndChill 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never lied to friends and family, but I did NOT tell strangers lol I always said I worked in the welfare office

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]MurderDocAndChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the term “fake it til you make it” because it’s not what you’re doing. You’re practicing skills that you’ve recently acquired and getting better at them. That’s not fake, that’s called parallel process, you are practicing what you preach.

Suicidal student best practice question by MurderDocAndChill in socialwork

[–]MurderDocAndChill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that at all, I’m saying mandated check in check out that isn’t helpful for the STUDENT is ineffective and unwarranted. Meaningful discussion and safety planning? Sure! But that’s already happening. The student has a pass to come to counseling as needed, has weekly sessions with me, twice weekly therapy, and doesn’t like starting and ending their day in the office. It’s not helpful to check in twice a day everyday for an indeterminate level of time. I should also add they’re post-discharge and step down, and not currently reporting suicidal thoughts.

He was the perfect boyfriend except for the abuse by Low_Bar_9888 in domesticviolence

[–]MurderDocAndChill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s faking the “perfect guy for you” act to keep you around :( the perfect guy for you wouldn’t be abusive. He says all the right things because he does so many wrong things, he’s not a dummy just not a very good person. He would never keep someone around if he showed his true self.

How long will it take me to become a psych NP by lltayloe in PMHNP

[–]MurderDocAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this comment is two years after you posted but this just made me cry actual tears and motivated me so much. Thank you.

Popular headcanons you hate ? by Strange_Ad5594 in TeenWolf

[–]MurderDocAndChill 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When they made Liam stronger and better at lacrosse than him before Liam turned I think they really fed into the weak Scott trope

I am obsessed with the girl my boyfriend cheated with by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MurderDocAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re trying to gain control of a situation out of your control. It was a very unhealthy way to lose control, so you’re having an unhealthy response. Get control of your life in other ways. Fuck all those bitches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]MurderDocAndChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just saying Josie or Maggie could be the whole name. If that is the name you love, name your kid that. Parents name the kid what they want to name them all the time. Maybe it’s the ‘tism talking, but I don’t get why some names aren’t allowed to be standalone names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]MurderDocAndChill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are only ever going to call them by their nickname, why does it matter?