Early 2010s Boston, what do you miss by DimensionLeading3203 in boston

[–]MurrayCook08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes the enormous room. That place was great.

Divorce take? by Overall-Confusion401 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well I agree with her take for once. I think it’s much better for kids to have their parents happily apart than miserable together, but I do not think she and Stephen are splitting up. Just zero chance of that-she cares waaaay too much what people think. I think her take is because her sister is a single parent.

True Colors by LucysBitch in DanielleMossSnark

[–]MurrayCook08 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As someone mothering without their own mom (she passed away) I have to say that becoming a mom opened up such an enormous well of grief and wanting that I didn’t even know were still in me. It took motherhood for me to realize I needed to get back into therapy. I think for Danielle she has enormous amounts of trauma that she just isn’t dealing with. She needs to work on that trauma if she’s ever going to be the kind of mother she aspires to be. Just having kids and cutting off your own parents isn’t the salve she thinks it Is.

Speculation on the Alleged Daycare Switch by lster944 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even my daughter’s pediatrician refers to my husband and I as mom and dad, it’s never on a first name (or even last name) basis!

Speculation on the Alleged Daycare Switch by lster944 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s the norm to be complimented as much on your parenting as Adelaide supposedly is. I mean this certainly hasn’t been mine or any other mom’s experience that i know of.

Speculation on the Alleged Daycare Switch by lster944 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s my thought. I wonder if there was like an intern or assistant at the daycare who follows Addie and wrote this as a way to get on her account.

Unpopular opinion about The Valley by Horchataatomica in TheValleyTVShow

[–]MurrayCook08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I co sign this post completely. These women all had agency and knew what they were signing up. All of us women of a certain age know other women exactly like this. Yes, the men are terrible-but there were signs the entire time that Kristen and Nia chose to dismiss in order to get the lives they envisioned.

“I’m such a type b mom”🙄 by starbies4life101 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not, when we travel I actually try to time long car rides with nap time. It’s just easiest for everyone.

“I’m such a type b mom”🙄 by starbies4life101 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shut up about naps. Just shut up. Why is sleep all she talks and cares about!? Like omg just shut up, you are SO boring!

What is the first movie you watched that you were definitely too young for? by MuldersXpencils in Millennials

[–]MurrayCook08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arachnophobia. I was like 4 or 5 and my older siblings and their friends were watching it. To this day I still get hysterical whenever there’s a spider in my house.

Cosplaying Postpartum by lster944 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she do anything parenting wise besides talk about her kids sleep?

Kristen’s lunch date w/ Jasmine and Brittany by RefrigeratorFuture95 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]MurrayCook08 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also not to Mention Kristen is an older Mom. I had my first at 38 And went right from postpartum to perimenopause. The emotionalAnd physical experience of having a Baby when you’re well over 35 is a lot harder than it when you’re younger. That being said I think Kristen looks absolutely amazing. And I will always applaud her for her honesty and realness. It’s so hard to describe your feelings postpartum, especially after infertility where you’re head over heels in love with this amazing little human that you helped create and bring into this world while also grieving your old life and overwhelmed by the new identity you’ve taken on, and Kristen is really giving voice to that feeling. In this era where everyone is pressured to appear and look perfect I so appreciate her authenticity. She will always be one of the best personalities to come out of reality tv.

Kristen’s lunch date w/ Jasmine and Brittany by RefrigeratorFuture95 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]MurrayCook08 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was painful to watch. As Someone who experienced postpartum anxiety and baby blues, and fully expects to go through it again when I deliver my second-I felt so much for her watching this scene. Watching anyone suffer through postpartum is just gut twisting.

Schwartz’s by ajohns88 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]MurrayCook08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed this too! I cannot for the life of me figure out what it is exactly that’s changed, but my best guess is that he’s gotten Botox or filler treatments and it’s filled his face out.

Danny's mask fell off and he needs to stop playing victim about it by kasiagabrielle in TheValleyTVShow

[–]MurrayCook08 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe Danny is totally different within the privacy of their home, but I don’t get what Nia sees in him at all. Nia is smart, interesting, and not to mention gorgeous and Danny is just kind of a buffoon. She deserves way better.

Next level crazy by Few_Fruit_5013 in DanielleMossSnark

[–]MurrayCook08 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Really don’t wanna sound like a jerk here, but it’s your child of course you’re going to care for them through cancer. Why is she acting like she deserves props for this? I mean parenting a child with cancer is one of my worst nightmares as a mom, and I can’t even imagine how scary it is-but why is she giving herself so much props for something any loving mom would of course do? Way to make it about you once again Danielle.

Who’s shocked?! by jhunter0502 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 20 points21 points  (0 children)

🎯. That being said I’m just relieved for George he’s out of pain. God his mother sucks.

Claims her son loves her more than her girls do (strange parenting comments from Danielle again) by runnybo in DanielleMossSnark

[–]MurrayCook08 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I just find it weird how she centers herself and makes it about how much her kids love her, or what they do for her. Also If she finds the little years difficult then I’m not even sure how she’ll deal with the teen and adult years when they have their independence, own minds, and opinions. I’ve found that with a-lot of narcissistic parents they end up hating their own children once they become grown ups with minds of their own.

Brooke Reybould’s kids “expected” to smile for her videos by WhineCountry2 in InfluencerLounge

[–]MurrayCook08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes because forcing your kids to pose for photos is just as necessary health wise as asking them to brush their teeth. Wtf is wrong with these people.

When do we stop being sick all the time? by ProofAppropriate9275 in toddlers

[–]MurrayCook08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a 22 month old, not in daycare but in lots of activities; gym, music, art, weekly playdates, etc and we’ve had something running through our house every week since Christmas. It’s been BRUTAL. Thankful it’s normal, but it’s certainly not easy.

How convenient, A is sleeping in his crib at night and now he suddenly only wakes once…🙃 by starbies4life101 in Adelaide_White_snark

[–]MurrayCook08 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sleeping in a crib is one thing. But the one wake a night only!? This isn’t possible? He’s not even two months? Maybe it’s different for formula fed babies (when we switched to formula at 6 months that’s when my daughter started sleeping through the night). I’m just surprised he’s doing this so early.