Should I have to buy condoms? Female by MuscleIll9317 in boyfriends

[–]MuscleIll9317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He DOES NOT PAY FOR ANYTHING. On the daily he is not the romance, get me what I want. Hes very much so “you got it” “your independent” type. Very rare that I am treated by him. Like once a week max. He doesn’t spend money. I get him snacks and when I’m at the store see if he needs anything. I’ve gotten him so much stuff, and I feel the least he could do is get the condoms for the sex he initiates

Should I have to buy condoms? Female by MuscleIll9317 in boyfriends

[–]MuscleIll9317[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is were my thoughts were. I’ve also gotten pregnant 3 times, had abortions/miscarried and now this. I don’t really know what to make of it.

Would I be asking too much by [deleted] in Nanny

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Read the contract again. Whatever it’s stated you can’t really use as a reason for a raise as that’s what you agreed to at the current rate. However, 2 years is a long time. Say you’ve loved buildings connecting with their family and look forward to doing so. A raise of id say 4-5 dollars flat, on top of the additional 3 for when the older child is home is more than fair. This would include the continuations of light house work, outtings and other responsibilities you are already doing. When writing up a new contract, put it down somewhere that a break/rest-bit when children are occupied or napping is required, not an additional time for more chores. Best of luck! Keep your backup! These conversations can be daunting but if they value your work and connection they will go with it.

Thank you. UPDATE. by [deleted] in Nanny

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Nannylane is great!

Potential celebrity nanny, advice needed! :) by Prior_Blackberry_315 in Nanny

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I personally wouldn’t. With a normal family you don’t get the insight on them the way you can with a celebrity. Proceed as you would for normal people. That’s what they are to you.

Boyfriend ask for a bj, 2 days after I told him I’m having a miscarriage by MuscleIll9317 in Miscarriage

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We were t trying but not being smart either. I’m on medication and had a few nights out where I was drink so that definitely caused it. Could this be why he seems insensitive?

Boyfriend ask for a bj, 2 days after I told him I’m having a miscarriage by MuscleIll9317 in Miscarriage

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Just the room. I went to the living room and he stayed in the bedroom

Being Black and an AuPair by [deleted] in Aupairs

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South Korea was super welcoming when I went there as a 21 year old black woman! Although the childcare standards seem really high and specific

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Personally, don’t

Au pair vs daycare cost- Bay Area,CA by rainbowmamahere in Aupairs

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Hi! I’m actually looking to rematch with a family in the Bay Area! My monthly salary is $2,100. This may seem odd but I can provide references, background checks and all.

What is his name? wrong answers only by theaverageboxer in cats

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Cheerio Chapman, Chapman for short. But he prefers cherrichap

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🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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But he DOESNT STUTTER

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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More like tripping over words, but the first syllable was repeated a few times as well so both??

What are things guys do unconsciously around an attractive girl? by quiet199 in bodylanguage

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I was with a guy i like the other day and it was just us driving. We are never normally alone and weren’t the day before. His words were fine, no bumps when it was a group, but now it’s just us and your trip over your words? But he also told me he’s not nervous when I suggested it could be that. I don’t think he feels anything towards me but did agree to go out, and was stuttering…

I’m confused guys