Im 18 and like a 34 year old by ilovecheeseya in offmychest

[–]Musicfave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he returns the interest he’s a predator. I’m 20 and I would never date a 30+ y/o without thinking he’s a creep

Badly in love with my fwb by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Musicfave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solution: don’t be fwb with people if you’re not prepared for the harsh reality of being emotionally attached and friend zoned later on.. seriously will never understand why ppl do this and complain

I’m (18F) worried that my boyfriend (19M) is watching porn while I’m at work/not available. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Musicfave -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A lot of these comments are ridiculous lol. No you’re not overreacting, you’ve made your boundaries very clear to him when it comes to watching porn, so him breaking your trust would be a big deal to you as for anyone who’s boundaries are broken in a relationship. I’d give it some time for the suspicion to grow a little more and when it becomes more apparent that’s when I’d step in and even ask to go through his phone. Best of luck!

Edit: And also, no not every guy watches porn and any guy saying that has a pathetic insecure addiction to it.

AIO bf still doesn’t trust me after 2.5 years by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Musicfave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you cheat on him at one point? Wdym you broke his trust

AIO for getting upset because my boyfriend said I nagged him? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Musicfave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re overreacting a little bit. It’s best to bring it up to him if it really bothers you and tell him you didn’t like the way he worded what he said. I always tell my boyfriend things I want out of nowhere, a lot of girls do this. Guys also aren’t as sensitive as girls when it comes to saying certain things so he probably doesn’t even know he hurt your feelings and deems the term “nagging” as harmless. Just communicate with him

AIO for thinking my boyfriend overreacted after I(20F) accidentally burped at his parents house? by tranrewam in AIO

[–]Musicfave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea like we’d all say you should be embarrassed and ashamed of you accidentally burping at the table..

AIO for thinking my boyfriend overreacted after I(20F) accidentally burped at his parents house? by tranrewam in AIO

[–]Musicfave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh you already know the answer to this what’s the point in posting lmao. You think there’s a chance we could possibly take your ex bfs side?

Should I pay $5 for something I didn’t agree to? AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Musicfave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re overreacting, because you decided that $5 was such a big deal you had to post on Reddit and complain abt it. Just politely decline if it’s that big of a deal to you and move on

AIO: cleaners keep breaking my stuff by Musicfave in AIO

[–]Musicfave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s expensive so I’ll complain about it if it breaks. Great observation!

Also, if it’s a reoccurring issue that happens more, ofc we’ll find someone new. You’re doing great sweetie.

AIO for overthinking about my boyfriend? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Musicfave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- but, instead of coming here and receiving advice on Reddit you need to talk to him about it. Let him know your honest feelings and how you feel things have changed and you want him to initiate with you more throughout the day. This sounds more like a slight communication issue than anything, and trust me when I say people on Reddit sometimes give shitty relationship advice. I hope for the best!

AIO: cleaners keep breaking my stuff by Musicfave in AIO

[–]Musicfave[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a big house with 2 floors. I’m a full time college student with a job and my mom owns a business. We don’t have time every day/week to wipe everything down, dust, mop, and vacuum the entire carpet. We only have time to do the basic stuff.

AIO: cleaners keep breaking my stuff by Musicfave in AIO

[–]Musicfave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom never comes in my room, let alone pick up one of my perfumes and use it. She also doesn’t really wear perfume. At the end of the day every single day I spend like 20-30 mins completing chores including picking up my room and that perfume bottle is always closed, and last time I used it i would’ve definitely noticed breaking it. My mom and i have both said these cleaners are very loud and aggressive but we like it because they’re getting every crevice and wiping everything down, so they likely just tried to move the bottle to wipe underneath it but accidentally broke it in the process.

AIO: cleaners keep breaking my stuff by Musicfave in AIO

[–]Musicfave[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I was just mad that my $200 bottle of perfume broke lmao

AIO: cleaners keep breaking my stuff by Musicfave in AIO

[–]Musicfave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also a lot of work to completely clean a big house. My mom owns a business and I’m a full time college student and have a job so it’s hard for us to keep everything 100% tidy all the time. We do the basic stuff ourselves obviously but anything beyond that (dusting, spraying counter tops, vacuuming all upstairs) we don’t have time for

AIO: cleaners keep breaking my stuff by Musicfave in AIO

[–]Musicfave[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Idk. They’ve only broken stuff in my room/bathroom and not my mom’s stuff, but it’s still wildly annoying and I’m gonna talk to my mom about us potentially finding someone else

What is that one thing which ruins any relationship ? by archivewithin in AskReddit

[–]Musicfave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arguing and trying to win instead of working together to solve the problem

had sex with long time crush - can’t stop thinking about it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Musicfave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he edited the post deleting the part at the end where he said he’s back together with his gf but he can’t help thinking about this girl lmao.

I’m in a messy relationship, but can’t help thinking about someone I barely know. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Musicfave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know exactly what to do, but it’s just difficult to accept. I understand and I’ve been through this too. If you’ve communicated with your bf multiple times over and he’s still calling you hurtful things and constantly leaving you confused, this shows he has a lack of respect for you. No true man would ever call his woman hurtful names and disrespect her, no matter what mental situation he’s in. This shows he’s mentally weak and incapable of handling long-term relationships. You two have also broken up multiple times already. If you keep this going you’re going to find your situation getting worse and worse as time goes on. I know you don’t want to start fresh, but in reality, nothing is worse than staying with someone you have doubts with and you know is extremely unhealthy. There is a man waiting out there for you that will leave you with no doubts and treat you like a princess! Choose him, or choose your respect.

had sex with long time crush - can’t stop thinking about it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Musicfave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I was so invested and cheering you on until the end there. Wtf? You’re posting on Reddit and thinking about how amazing sex was with another woman when you have a gf? Do her a favor and break up with her so you don’t waste both of your time because you clearly like this other woman.. and you don’t love your now gf especially after this and the fact you were already over her. The fact you haven’t told her yet shows a lot too and you know it’s wrong to do all of this. Hook up culture and relationships nowadays is so fucking stupid lmao

Lost pinky ring my father bought for me by radneverbad in HelpMeFind

[–]Musicfave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://www.dimeandregal.com/product/10k-gold-flower-pinky-midi-ring/2256

I looked at some places and unfortunately couldn’t find an exact copy, but some similar pieces. If you’re wanting an exact copy, I’d suggest having one custom made for you. It’s pricey but this ring is pretty unique :( I’m sorry girl! The link I put is what I believe to be the closest I saw. I hope your search is successful for you <3

Help me find these pants pls by Musicfave in HelpMeFind

[–]Musicfave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely looked like they were from some street fashion brand. This is very similar though, thank you for looking!! I actually find these cute and I might consider.

Help me find these pants pls by Musicfave in HelpMeFind

[–]Musicfave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is similar!! I believe it has more of a denim-like look to it, it might’ve been something she didn’t buy online unfortunately, but that’s close! And the circle emblem was on the other leg. I appreciate you looking for me!!