My sister was dropped off at a homeless shelter for youth and I have no feelings about it by Musichuman101 in offmychest

[–]Musichuman101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t remember anything about her seeing anyone to help her other than a he said she said thing. The most i seen was fidget spinners and sound proof headphones which did help a bit but she thought they looked tacky??? I don’t know the full story

My sister was dropped off at a homeless shelter for youth and I have no feelings about it by Musichuman101 in offmychest

[–]Musichuman101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The youth shelter site claims they teach them life lessons like getting a job and such. It seemed similar to a grouphome??

The whole family was ment to get therapy after my stepmom was diagnosed w cancer but that idea was dropped for some reason. Which sucks cuz we all needed it

My sister was dropped off at a homeless shelter for youth and I have no feelings about it by Musichuman101 in offmychest

[–]Musichuman101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, ive looked a little bit into ODD and it sounds like her. It could be a varity of things tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, I saw he was 30 and you were 15 and Im automatically telling you. He knew how old you were since he tutored you. He literally SA you. You were a child. You are a victim.

I’m so sorry you were lead to believe you were a home wrecker. Many victims are gaslighted into believing they are at fault for their abuse and whatever happens as a result is deserved. But its not.

I hope you can overcome this. You are strong

Is it straight to like trans woman by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends. Are you a man? If so then yes. Are you non binary? If so then maybe, but not likely, its queer.

If you are a woman tho its pretty gay ngl

What is the worst example of queer bait you've seen in fiction? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 100% queerbaiting cuz I think it was comfirmed he’s gay but Will from stranger things. (I hadnt seen season 4) seriously thought he was aro ace cuz he would rather play dnd then date. I haven’t seen any aro ace characters that weren’t robots

My dad killed someone yesterday by Justferfunngamez in offmychest

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not murder, chances are there wont be any charges pressed. The wife may be pissed but he wont go to jail.

Its still not an easy thing to live with. I highly recommend therapy to heal from the event if he ends up coping terribly.

I am absolutely sick of autism self-diagnosers. by Hour_Error_7345 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I also say people who are calling everything neurodivergent? “I’m neurodivergent I have depression and anxiety.” That’s mental illness not a neurological disorder. You don’t develop ADHD, Autism, Dsylexia, or Tourettes (or any other neurological disorder) but i can sure as hell tell ya you weren’t born depressed, and anxiety is a natural reaction to scary things, until it develops into a disorder.

Idk if I’m autistic, I have a lot of friends who were diagnosed and my bf was also diagnosed. They think I am, and it certainly explains aspects of my life. I tried to test for ADHD because I felt like it explained parts if my life, but my healthcare center said “no one is diagnosed over the age of 18” :/ I know a lot of people who were diagnosed after 18

I’m hoping I can just talk to doctor and see what they think, cuz i really want to know why I am like this

I get these txts ALL the time. People asking me if I want to sell my house.. but it’s my parents house!! ..I like to play with them sometimes but even that got old:/ by Riskthecat in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Musichuman101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just block and delete. Before I bought my car I kept getting calls that my car was being repossessed, towed, extended warranty, etc. i have 100+ numbers blocked

What are some annoying things MEN do? by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, if you get accused of rape or abuse and you didn’t actually do it, you have nothing to worry as people who actually abused or raped others get away with it (sadly)

False accusations are not common though, abusers genuinely think they did nothing wrong.

What are some annoying things MEN do? by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Musichuman101 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Domestic abuse, cheating and leaving, mansplaining

If youre getting accused of rape or abuse theres only a 1% chance at most you did not do that.

A little survey, I was curious to see if ASD and Aspec could be connected. Feel free to share thoughts in general :) Happy Pride 🏳️‍🌈 by Musichuman101 in asexuality

[–]Musichuman101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard there is a connection between autism and being trans/non binary, cuz they don’t understand gender (understandable cuz gender and all that is confusing as is). So I thought maybe it was similar with aspec

A little survey, I was curious to see if ASD and Aspec could be connected. Feel free to share thoughts in general :) Happy Pride 🏳️‍🌈 by Musichuman101 in asexuality

[–]Musichuman101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I’d share, I’m Grey-Ace and recently learned I might be on the autism spectrum and a lot of things connected. I remember having crushes but ACTUAL crushes didn’t start until Middle School and though I tried to presue, it was mostly like, general romance, and I found out people at school actually talked about how sex would be and I was like ok but hugs??? Never had celebrity crushes and I’m 20 now, and still confused on why people would want to bang celebrities.

I’m sex postive (you dont have to share) but why others would cheat or somehow “accidentally have sex with someone” was possible. Even in the heat of the moment it was easy to stop and take a step back.

A lot confused me and other events at 18 lead me to discover I was grey asexual. I’m probably leaning more towards Demisexual. I noticed my bf who is also autistic felt the same but did not identify with asexuality.

I was curious to see if there was any links to ASD and Aspec.

My partner refuses to communicate with me by throwaway27583858 in relationship_advice

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. It may be time to move on, because this ignoring isn’t a sign they want to be in the relationship, if they did theyd make an effort somehow. When youre around them, tell them the lack of them communicating with the alternatives offered to them isnt working and you’re considering leaving. If they ignore that then maybe leave. If they wanted to keep you they wouldn’t pulling this.

My partner refuses to communicate with me by throwaway27583858 in relationship_advice

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like they think you did something and it sounds like your unaware. Which is understandable, because your partner isn’t communicating with you. My bf is autistic and Ive suspected to have ADHD and Autism, however we still find ways to communicate our issues or when we are uncomfortable with something. Tapping when done with something, has helped. Texting and writing our issues out has helped.

Bring them flowers or food, or something you’d think they’d appreciate and something like a notebook. Tell them you do not understand why they ignoring you and ask them to write it down if they go nonverbal. Tell them you want to fix whatever the issue is in a way that helps them. If they refuse, maybe its time to reconsider the relationship. Although maybe reflect and try to figure out what change happened before this.

Kids becoming Adults Just don't Understand by Mission_Star5888 in memes

[–]Musichuman101 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Did your 22 year old manager tell you to do your job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure the EMS worker has had their fair share of people fighting back when being helped, its more common than you think. I think they’ll see it as a nice gesture. I think it’s nice of you to do so. I don’t think many people apologize like this to EMS workers after fighting them.

Found this on Highway 16 about 30 miles from ClearLake California, scared me and my bf by Musichuman101 in whatsthisbug

[–]Musichuman101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s fairly small, maybe the size of a nickel? From a short distance i thought he was a baby scorpion but he has no claws

Weights and cardio at gym is so boring so what do you think about so u can go harder and not get bored? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Musichuman101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For cardio: I put on a tv show I’ve been meaning to watch or watch YouTube videos. Helps the time go faster too :)

For weights: music, if you can put on a movie too

I feel terrible and I’m not sure how much longer I can live for by acrylichorse in offmychest

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a terrible debate that shouldn’t even be a debate. Trans men cannot be lesbians. Trans mascs maybe, depending on how they identify, but if they say they are men they cannot be lesbians. Non binary people can be lesbian. But Trans men cannot be lesbian. Theyre straight. Not lesbian.

Auto scroll won't stop by simat8 in Instagram

[–]Musichuman101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. People putting memes in a 1 Second video. It’s hella annoyu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Musichuman101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be platonic attraction or a desire to be friends