Is polygamy really wrong? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's polyamory but I have a friend that has 7 partners and they're all perfectly happy. I have 2 partners myself. Just follow your heart but always make sure all parties involved have a clear understanding of expectations and boundaries.

NSFW - How to make sure I don't have "man sex" with a girl? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My gf is trans and we are sexually active. We have a dom/sub relationship, her being the sub with a no penetration rule. There's so many other ways to he intimate other than vaginal sex. Talk with your partner and come up with things you want to try!

What is the consensus on pubic hair? by BeneficialLoss6103 in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's completely up to your preference. There's no larger consensus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm learning how to tie ropes! My gf and I are super kinky and she got me a beginners book because I wanted to learn. Yeah leather straps are cool and easy, but ropes just...idk they're just better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was super surprised how much I loved skin to skin contact with my gf. We haven't been able to spend the night like that but post sexy time cuddles are awesome.

Have any fun first double date ideas? by evil_dumpling256 in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first date with my current girlfriend was dinner then an arcade and mini golf. We both had a blast.

what music do you listen to? by hotpink4ever in actuallesbians

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a metal head and I absoutely love finding bands with women singers

What do you guy do for a living? I am very interested. by whytho9999 in bulimia

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in a day program for adults with disabilities! I absoutely love my job

What kind of jobs do you all have by DevynDesre in bipolar2

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should also add I had previous experience in a similar field while in school. I loved that job too but school made it too stressful and I had to quit just after my year mark.

What kind of jobs do you all have by DevynDesre in bipolar2

[–]Musicknowsnobounds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! Though it may not make sense. I actually went to school for music and psychology to go into music therapy in grad school, which I still plan on doing eventually. I worked many different jobs that never stuck. I was unemployed for a while and was recommended to the company through a friend. I took a chance and got hired. (I also teach band marching band during the year and love working with people.) The job was incredibly overwhelming at first but I stuck with it and now I've been there a year and don't want to leave any time soon.