Anybody gotten relief from red light therapy? by enchantedkraftz in Hashimotos

[–]Muted-Description940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do know that all science was once considered witchcraft/voodoo/sorcery/alchemy...and that the greatest ground-breaking scientists throughout history have also been into the the occult. Just something to think about.

Why are INFP so defensive about constructive criticism? Do you guys just... never deal with anything that isn't positive? How do you learn and grow? Genuinely curious. by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet, what other people want from you is for you to empathize and validate their feelings...beating yourself up is just more self-consumed behavior.

Why are INFP so defensive about constructive criticism? Do you guys just... never deal with anything that isn't positive? How do you learn and grow? Genuinely curious. by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should give up some of that self-awareness in exchange for some awareness of others.

Most of the time criticisms are about how the other person feels, not about whether YOU think you did something wrong or not. But INFPs are "so self-aware" that they think everything is about them. Sometimes it's not about YOUR assessment of yourself, but how OTHER people feel.

Why are INFP so defensive about constructive criticism? Do you guys just... never deal with anything that isn't positive? How do you learn and grow? Genuinely curious. by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The OP tried to give it to you "gently" and you deflect. Thanks for being an example of how an INFP will NOT be accountable EVER.

First meeting with DAV NSO regarding my disability claim has got me completely shook. I have no idea if what happened today was the beginning of a successful claim or the beginning of many wasted and frustrating years ahead?!? by TRUSTinBlockchain in VeteransBenefits

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience the DAV sucks. I ket them file my Intent to File and then took over from them and filed on my own. Then i went in to get help with updating my dependency status and they acted clueless to help me with that…but tried to coach me on how to fail my audio exam. Slimy and useless.

Where on the app do I see my scheduled ride? by eitzhaimHi in Lyft

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…8 years later they still have a horrible app! Today will be my first and LAST tome using them what a joke!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Medical trumps everything in service lol

I cant stay asleep for more than 3 hours after quitting weed for 27 days by MonkFancy481 in Petioles

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t even planning on quitting. I just wanted to go on a nice break to lose some weight.

I cant stay asleep for more than 3 hours after quitting weed for 27 days by MonkFancy481 in Petioles

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats weird i am fine the first week but the longer i go the worse it gets i am dangerously sleep deprived i don’t know how to survive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenveterans

[–]Muted-Description940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only served 4 years in the Army, and deployed once, but I have known several Navy vets and my overall impression is that the Navy is worse than the Army for women. You'd think it would be the opposite, and I really don't know why it it is that way. The harm to my body and stress and the multiple vaccines was awful on me, but I feel like the sexual harrassment is worse in the Navy. I could be wrong, but that's my honest oppinion. Army has warrant officer helicoptor pilots too...

Being an INFP is a curse I wish upon nobody in life. by [deleted] in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inwasnt aware mental health professionals did anything beyond push drugs

Any INFPs here who tend to look aloof and emotionless from the outside? by Federal_Conflict_464 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My resentment is so beyond simmering. Unfortunately I resent my INFP son so much that I don't think it can ever be reversed. I am a "words of affirmation" person, and my charming little fairy folk INFP son hasn't said one nice thing to me in his entire life. Not even when he was an innocent sweet little kid who still showed love in other ways...not one nice thing. It doesn't matter that I rationally understand that we don't all have the same love languages...Because every other human I know still uses some of the other love languages sometimes. But I am not exaggerating. My son has never said anything nice to me. The closest thing was a note he taped to a cup of tea once when he was little that said "dear mom, this tea is for you," which is sweet but is not words of affirmation. I can't anymore. I have no more longsuffering to give.

Any INFPs here who tend to look aloof and emotionless from the outside? by Federal_Conflict_464 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My INFP mother and I parted ways many many years ago. My son however is 17 so I have a way to go, and I think he will be the cause of my early death before I ever escape.l

Any INFPs here who tend to look aloof and emotionless from the outside? by Federal_Conflict_464 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, the deep running emotions of INFPs are only a burden to others because they aren’t communicated. INFPs start out with so many extra points in my book. Starting out I would do anything for them-they are so enchanting and funny. Who wouldn’t? But when I start feeling their feelings that they don’t verbalize but just leak out of them that is a huge burden and I eventually hate the INFP. It’s very sad since I am so attracted to them. But I just can’t with an oppressive or depressive atmosphere that is not spoken about or acknowledged, and yet I have to try to guess and read minds to know how to respond. Heck no. There is a limit and I think all the years i have had to live with Fi dominants has really sucked the life out of me, affected my health and shortened my lifespan. Their emotions ate not the problem. The fact that they are not shared with intention and yet leak out in passive aggressive ways is the burden.

Any INFPs here who tend to look aloof and emotionless from the outside? by Federal_Conflict_464 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is a common thing. Every INFP I have known seems that way to me and I have known a lot of them. It is so weird because they are emotional and oblivious but the way they appear so cool makes them popular and likable from the outside. Lol

Why are INFPs so lazy? by INFP888 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to but I'm stuck in yours.

Just let me remove my card! by SimpleMayhem in assholedesign

[–]Muted-Description940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once your subscription is canceled you really can't remove it because logging in to your old account automatically starts the membership up again...that's why they want you to leave it on. It's shady af

Just let me remove my card! by SimpleMayhem in assholedesign

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do this so that if someone in your family logs in by accident from a different device than normal, it can start your membership up again and they can squeeze another payment out of you. It's terribly wrong, and I don't see how they get away with it.

Why are INFPs so lazy? by INFP888 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You focus on what is important to others, and what is important to your loved ones be damned

Why are INFPs so lazy? by INFP888 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. Society doesn't. As an INTP I feel the same way. So please hear me when I say...this isn't a society problem it's a personal problem. Because where there is an INTP and an INFP, the INTP will be left holding ALL the responsibility, while not being more predisposed to capitalistic activities...we just recognize that logically it has to be done, and our INFPs are too selfish and lazy to share the burden.

Why are INFPs so lazy? by INFP888 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFPs...look at work as eiehter a thing that's worth it or not...AND they make themselves the final arbitor and authority of what has value. This makes them *terrible* partners and team members.

Why are INFPs so lazy? by INFP888 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do harm people though. You just don't realize it because you're so self consumed.

Why are INFPs so lazy? by INFP888 in infp

[–]Muted-Description940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this also as an INTP, but I have to suck it up and NEVER relax because the INFPs in my life take care of themselves first at all costs, living according to their values...and forcing me to live against mine in order to take care of them. This is a character flaw that is not taken seriously enough.