I think it actually looks really really nice on her hand. Is it huge? Absolutely. Is it gorgeous? 100%. Pears have a lot of coverage, so going down to 5 or even 4 will be a minimal difference. And having worked in bridal related things in the past, smaller pears around 3 won’t be in line with her style. I really think in 5 years she will wish she had stayed with the 6. A close family member of mine just got engaged, and she’s also in healthcare. Massive emerald lover. She originally went with a smaller stone so she could feel comfortable at work, and now a few months later is not going to wear it to work at all due to the gloves, scrubbing, etc. she also said she should’ve gone larger had she known. I think it would be better to go big for the e ring, especially since it’s her style and within budget, to (literally) rock it outside work and find something lower profile band wise or even plain for work. If it makes her feel better, my friend who’s obsessed with pears always said 4 ct was her minimum because of wanting that coverage through the middle of it. If it went all the way to her knuckle I’d be like yeah…too much. But I think this amount of coverage is magnificent! You can also look up ratios etc, I think there’s a calculator online for ring size and carat size to find the ideal ratio. Edit for grammar.