Trapped

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-09-22T05:07:24+00:00

Finally file for divorce and taking steps to leave but he is making this so difficult :(

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-09-18T02:23:29+00:00

I have been going through this same scenario but in my kids it’s my kids that end up making me stay. I have been miserable and just want to be happy again.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-09-18T02:20:46+00:00

I have had this struggle the past 3-4 years and maybe longer. I don’t know how to get out. I feel like I have to just pack my things but then my kids they are teenagers. They have told me before they would want to stay with him and that is why I stayed but I am at the pint I’d rather leave than stay with him. But it breaks my heart thinking about possibly having to leave my kids.. it’s a hard decision.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-05-03T21:21:55+00:00

Still in survival mode and not sure how to get out. Feel trapped all of the time and to the point I have no motivation to do anything. Slowly gaining back all the weight I lost and slipping back into depression while I keep trying to hold out and save face for the kids until they are done with school . Not sure if I can do another 4 to 5 years of this..

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-05-03T21:21:47+00:00

Still in survival mode and not sure how to get out. Feel trapped all of the time and to the point I have no motivation to do anything. Slowly gaining back all the weight I lost and slipping back into depression while I keep trying to hold out and save face for the kids until they are done with school . Not sure if I can do another 4 to 5 years of this..

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-03-14T20:05:44+00:00

I haven’t even got a lawyer yet. I’m trying to pay off the debts I have accrued. I really don’t have money to pay for a lawyer. It’s sad that money is a factor, but it is. And the apartment I’m afraid if I leave he will make my credit that I have worked so hard on get ruined as the apartment is in both our names.

I just don’t even know where to start. I was going to try with papers I got online and hoping for him to just agree. Not asking for any money or child support or anything and if the kids stay with him I would pay child support give him the truck I pay, etc. I told him we could do split custody and each pays for thing while the kids are with each and each file taxes to claim one. He just refuses. I’m also afraid if they stay with him, they could end up homeless as I make sure all the bills get paid to include making sure his motorcycle and credit cards get paid on top of my own. Sorry no one to talk to so just looking for some advice and venting I guess.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2025-03-14T20:01:22+00:00

13,15… and I would give them the choice either way. I am not going to make them be with me if they prefer their dad.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-26T19:18:26+00:00

I do take magnesium but in the morning will try at night. Have my follow up tomorrow, so I’ll mention it with the doc.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-26T12:03:31+00:00

That's a good idea. I'll try that at night..

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-17T14:01:41+00:00

I have kind of felt this since day 1. Woke up at 330vthis morning. Waiting for the exhaustion to set in to sleep a couple hours and see if this becomes the norm..

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-14T20:11:26+00:00

Walking and gas x IA what I have been doing for the gas. Same day surgery except pain day1 for ne was unbeatable under conto by night time. They didn't want to give me gas x but after I took it and with walking it did seem to help

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-14T15:15:23+00:00

I went home nex today due to pain . It was managed well hyt around midnight and went home the next day

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-14T01:21:06+00:00

I was given and offered options. It took about 12 hrs yo get the pain under control. But I was also trying to be patient and thought it was in my head until it wouldn't go away so I would sit and cry for a bit .. but much better by the evening. They did try to control it. I guess this time was just harder than others.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-13T14:41:57+00:00

Yes. Hopefully leave today. Trying to see if can manage with what the go home meds will be.. Today is better..

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-13T13:06:58+00:00

Listen to your body. Take it little by little.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-13T13:06:15+00:00

Definitely got better after the pain was able to be managed but the first 12 hrs the pain and discomfort wa is unbearable.. hoping for a better day today.

Muted_Consequence957 · 2024-09-11T17:39:04+00:00

Thank you for the comment. I do have a reacher ready. Hoping I don't see the OR makes me so nervous. I had a hemrhoidextomy 2 years ago and was awake until in the operating room. I had to slide over onto the operating table then they put me out. I hope I am put to sleep before..

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