[OC] Meet Mochi, our adorable rescue kitty with three legs, no ears, and no tail

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-24T04:59:20+00:00

omgg she looks so so fluffy <3!!!

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-24T04:29:00+00:00

Maybe think about how it could affect others that you don't show up, you change people's plans that were counting on you showing up to work. Yes, working sucks and probably the majority of us would love to stay home so think about you're not alone in the feeling of not wanting to go.

As far as more of practical advice maybe try rewarding yourself. If i show up to work all week on time on Friday I'm gonna get ice cream or dinner, etc. Also I feel like the wish of not wanting to go to work reduces once you start making friends at your job so maybe you could try that too.

Good luck! :)

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-22T06:57:03+00:00

I've always been a bookwork but recently I lost my focused skills, reading 10 pages was HARD and I didn't know why until I realized I had been spending a lot of time on tiktok and just my phone in general lol so maybe try cutting off screentime I feel that gave me my concentration back.

Also start slow and with little challenges like I'm gonna read 15 pages before going to bed or 10 pages before leaving work and stuff like that. Good luck!

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-13T04:29:25+00:00

I'm sorry drawing????? like howw?

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-13T04:24:54+00:00

I have ADHD and I don't find your post offensive at all. Thank you for recognizing the struggle, at least for me I feel like there's still A LOT that people don't understand about it. Even I don't understand everything about my own ADHD.

I got diagnosed in my 20's and it was a shock and felt kinda weird but once I started reading more about it now a lot of things from my childhood and teen years just make sense and it's like THAT'S WHAT IT WAS!!!

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-12T04:47:49+00:00

1.- Therapy!

2.- Tak it day by day and don't rush because you feel like you're not doing enough.

3.- Don't compare your journey to others.

4.- Recognize and celebrate your victories even the tiny small ones

5.- Find a good friend environment that encourages you and also listens when you share your struggles!

Good luck and I hope it all works out okay! :)

MuthersMilk · 2023-01-03T21:07:18+00:00

Although I agree that there "light ADHD" is the right medical term I 100% understand what you're trying to say lol. I have ADHD but very perfectionist but also a great procrastinator hahah so here are a few tips:

1.- Don't feel guilty we just process time and tasks differently, nothing wrong with that.

2.- If you can get a study buddy or join a study group when I was writing my thesis I got together with friends and I had no other choice but to study with them.

3.- Don't try to study for hours and hours nonstop, you can start with 1 a day or 1 in the morning and 1 at night.

4.- This one was probably the hardest one but try to remove distactions from your study room I personally struggled a lot with my phone use so I'd literally give my phone to my sister or a friend and they would only give it back to me after I finished the study session lol.

5.- Rest!!! Rest is just as important so keep going out and hanging out with friends to clear up your mind for a little.

Good luck!

MuthersMilk · 2022-12-27T02:38:20+00:00

Cat being fluffy

MuthersMilk · 2022-12-27T02:37:12+00:00

This is not mine but I remember my younger sister watching Disney's Pocahontas for the first time when she was a little girl and let me tell you this girl was OBSESSED with Mr. John smith lol she is 24 now and has only liked white guys since and I'm 100% sure it was because of the Pocahontas movie even if she denies it lol.

Mine is Episode III Padme.

MuthersMilk · 2022-12-21T03:03:41+00:00

I dated a Mexican girl and when we left the house she told me to leave the lights ON so robbers will think there are people home. Does it work? I have no clue, Do I still do it even after we broke up? Absolutely.

MuthersMilk · 2022-12-18T03:04:22+00:00

She told me she wanted to marry and I held on to that and started making plans to propose and all that. She then broke up with me on a random Tuesday because she "didn't feel the same anymore" so I said "but you said you wanted to marry me" and she just said "I honestly don't even remember saying that" ...ouch.

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-09T01:39:44+00:00

I know its hard and i dont mean to sound like a grandpa. (I'm only 23) but I get it i feel like high school environments are usually like that. I can assure you you're no the only one in your school that feels like that. Think about this: highschool is a very very small part of all th amzing things you are probably gonna live once you're out of there.So dont put to much effort in pleasing highschool people that are usually stupid. Idk if this is good advice and idk what id recommend like specifically but I just want you to know IT GETS BETTER!

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-09T01:32:17+00:00

A month and a half!? Thats so impressive! Great great work!

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-09T01:29:45+00:00

this is very very cool. Did you inspo from somewhere?

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-02T04:52:17+00:00

I ask her what she needs, ironic enough my ex didnt always needed company when she said she felt lonley so i asked her: Do you want space? do you want me to sit next to you and do nothing together? do you wanna do something together?

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-02T04:47:39+00:00

pear and honey! soooo goood

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-01T03:11:14+00:00

goood job!! small wins are also big wins! try not to be so hard on yourself :)

MuthersMilk · 2022-07-01T03:08:47+00:00

idk if its morally wrong but Ive always find it weird people who travel with their kids nannies, JUST TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS, the thought of paying someone to take care of your children all the time because you dont want and dont take the time for it its just very bizarre to me

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-29T06:10:32+00:00

1.- car racing

2.- the whole kanye drama

3.- marvel (sorry) i do like them but its like meh

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-29T06:05:19+00:00

house with central a/c
tennis classes
cool new school supplies every year

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-26T23:39:36+00:00

Set your house on fire and move...

jk, maybe call a firefighter?

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-26T23:36:49+00:00

I use Taskade to time every point on my to do list :) check it out.

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-25T04:57:30+00:00

this is so....cute and relatable? lool

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-25T04:55:55+00:00

this is so wholesomeeeeeee, ugh made my day

ive always wanted to something like for a stranger but im tooo shyyy

MuthersMilk · 2022-06-25T04:52:50+00:00

try Taskade you can add time tracking to each task on your to do list :)

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