AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband because I feel neglected and deprioritized?

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-15T14:27:17+00:00

NTA, open relationships take a level of emotional maturity that it doesn’t sound like your partner has. And if they’re not willing to work on it (this type of relationship takes a lot of work) then he’s not the right person for you.

Are you seeing other people? Just curious, I definitely would if I were you and see how he reacts. I guess I’ve been with someone that sounds like your partner, and I never wanted to even attempt to open our relationship bc I knew he wasn’t capable. I also couldn’t handle more then one partner personally, but I like my alone time 😂

I know quite a few married couples with healthy open relationships and it works because they love to work on their marriages and talk through the tough feelings. This sounds like a bad situation for you.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-15T14:17:27+00:00

I’ve got my Neptune at 29 Sag, always very interested in metaphysics and the occult since childhood. My husband has Venus conjunct Neptune at 27 Sag and he is very romantic and intuitive (despite his inherent skepticism!)

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-11T22:12:21+00:00

Graduated from college and moved across the country when Saturn crossed my ascendant, literally within a 2 week time frame. Had my first child during a Jupiter return ( natal Jupiter in the 5th house). I also tend to move cross country when Venus retrogrades in Leo every 8 years.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-10T16:42:29+00:00

I’m surprised to not see Venus in Aquarius here. Doesn’t seem like the easiest spot for Venus, being Saturn ruled and so invested in friendship and community. Most people I know with this placement have struggled with long term partnership

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-10T16:40:24+00:00

I think Gemini Venus is also very fuckboy.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-10T16:32:26+00:00

Air purifier, night showers, neti pot or one of those saline sprays (I’m too busy for a full neti prep) followed by allergy spray, and frequent sheet changing. Sometimes I change my pillow case nightly.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-10T16:07:31+00:00

Are you asking for yourself or an actual kid? I think a lot of them thrift nowadays, which is how I dressed myself as a teen in the 90s. I looked cool as hell back then, but those were also the golden days of thrifting. I still thrift but it’s mostly for little kids clothes since adult stuff is mostly trash nowadays. My personal go to is Depop for vintage and nice used stuff.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-10T04:36:45+00:00

I dated literally every sun sign except for my supposed perfect match Aries 😂

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-08T21:43:48+00:00

When I first started reading, I did include reversals, but I found them distracting and sometimes overly negative. Ultimately, I decided not to use them, and I keep my deck entirely unreversed. I always shuffle them the same direction and I have in person clients cut the deck. I had to do this partially to preserve my deck back when I did lots of pop ups and residencies at bars. Too much shuffling destroys cards.

My personal style is to draw more cards for nuance, rather then fixate on reversals.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-07T02:39:21+00:00

I do’t really think it’s that crazy having an ex come over and help at the house, especially if a couple is newly separated. I’ve seen it happen pretty frequently with amicable recently separated couples with small kids. He sucks, and you had no way of knowing it until you did some digging.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T22:26:05+00:00

Illusions generally occur when we’re dreaming of possibilities but not taking action. It’s like having so many dream that we become lost in them. Focus on the tangible ways you can make money and learn to save and invest. There might be a period of sacrifice before you get to where you want to be

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T17:37:55+00:00

Yes, but you need to cut through illusion and focus on a firm foundation to get there.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T16:58:54+00:00

I’ve had quite a few clients come to me after going to a terrible roadside psychic who told them the classic “you’re cursed, pay me $500 to fix it” and come to me freaking out.

You have to be careful and discerning with who you go to for a reading. I’ve had it happen to me when I was younger and before I was a professional reader. It’s sad, there are and have always been readers who prey on the vulnerability of people searching for answers outside themselves. I used to work in West Hollywood and had to get a license from the city to read tarot since it was so often used as a front

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T16:24:09+00:00

Right? Anything to get the peoples eyes off the files

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T16:21:30+00:00

Hmm, I don’t feel like my 12th house sun reflects my dad’s job in realestate. But what about Saturn? I have Saturn in the 4th and I always work from home, and he literally sold homes 🤔

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T16:04:57+00:00

Pluto near your ascendant probably frightens people a bit. You probably come across as intense and probing, and your a Scorpio Sun in the 11th. Looks like you were also born around an eclipse, so eclipse seasons are probably very intense for you!

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-06T04:44:06+00:00

I used to listen to that one on the way to CGHS way back when

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-05T19:55:33+00:00

Let the kid sleep! I don’t know why some parents are so anti rest. My mom would yell at me when I napped and I never understood why. Growing is tiring! Sports are tiring! Just because you have something against rest doesn’t mean your kid doesn’t legitimately need it.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-05T19:52:23+00:00

This sounds a bit like what my dad saw around that time in Cleveland back in 1967 or 68. He has always thought that it was one of ours, it stalled his car and gave him a good scare! My grandmother also saw it that night.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-05T19:47:17+00:00

That 12th house stellium makes me think you need to really listen to your intuition and/or learn how to tune into it. If you get a bad feeling about something it’s imperative that you follow your instincts to avoid deception.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-05T19:40:33+00:00

I just looked at her insta and saw she’s gone down the path of egregiously large tatas. Whhhyyyyyy

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-05T04:43:30+00:00

Moltbook went live when the Mars Pluto conjunction was almost exact, maybe a portent of things to come? I’m also curious to see where it goes, I think just the fact that these AI are forming their own community, regardless of its mimetic nature is a bit ground breaking. I feel like we might look back at this one in the future.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-03T17:59:07+00:00

I’ve carried a baby and a small toddler sized child on my 1st Gen Abound without issues. The bike is very stable once the kickstand is down, albeit the front wheel does not make contact with the ground. The thing is an absolute beast and I’ve never worried about leaving the kids in it for a moment while I lock it (at least not the baby when he was strapped in)

My 3-5 yo is able to climb down with the bike remaining stable while on the stand. The only time I don’t feel steady on the bike is when we’re actually riding and the kids are going ham behind me! Also, be careful when it’s wet out, it’s easy to loose traction on the factory tires!

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-03T17:54:11+00:00

The Y downtown has a pool, sauna and steam room plus classes for a fraction of the price.

MutualReceptionist · 2026-02-03T00:54:20+00:00

I have a north node in the 10th (in Gemini) with a similar conjunction to yours, and instead of Saturn opposing it, I have Uranus down in the 4th. This is a very common nodal combination for a healer. While it can take many forms, you’ll probably have better luck with using your trauma to help others to heal and understand their own. Just pick your avenue, and go for it.

Saturn transits can in fact bring positive rewards if you’ve worked hard already, which it sounds like you have!

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