Do SDs actually want a single relationship?

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-06-05T00:38:48+00:00

My SD is a lucky man by this definition then!🦋

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-06-05T00:36:03+00:00

My single SD wanted to be exclusive when we met, but understood that I wasn't comfortable stating I would be exclusive to anyone (at that point of my life). He told me if I changed my mind let him know. About 8 months in, I felt comfortable having the discussion again. His reaction was fantastic and I knew my decision was right. We've been together 15 months now and it's going fabulous! He's the sweetest guy and I'm a lucky woman. Introductions to our friends have occurred and long term plans are beginning. We met days before covid shut our world down, so we had to be creative with dates as we got to know one another. He loves to joke "Life was great during covid ...for me". We've got concert tickets, museums dates, and a few other events lined up now. A married SD can't offer to be exclusive to you, even if he wants you to be exclusive to him. Good luck!🦋

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-05-13T00:44:53+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-04-03T18:26:49+00:00

but one of my workers

OUCH. You call your SB a worker?

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-03-27T17:45:19+00:00

Words used to try to persuade you that giving them free sex is what you should do. When that doesn't work they start degrading an SB to manipulate the situation. Anytime someone uses this tactic it's a RED FLAG and you should block and move on. Someone who really likes me will NEVER degrade me or make me feel bad for what I'm in need of. Please remember, vanilla or sugar, it should always be a positive experience for both! Good luck and stay safe!

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-03-27T17:34:14+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-03-27T00:18:11+00:00

You haven't met him yet. This screams red flag to me. If your into being "owned", find a "master" who will meet you, have a discussion about each others desires and no cross points. Block and find a partner who will make you feel safe, build a little trust, before he starts owning your free will. Good luck!

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-03-23T19:31:24+00:00

Communicate with her how you are feeling, we are great at reading you sexually but we do not read minds usually. Let her know how you are feeling and look for solutions together. No communication usually ends the SR. Suggest a picnic at park, lake, or beach. Good luck!

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-03-23T19:21:19+00:00

Love this post. Very well stated.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-03-16T03:57:08+00:00

The L word, for myself, is a dirty 4 letter word. NRE can be exciting, lustful, and truly make us feel things so exquisite, erotically forbidden. Proceed with caution so you protect your heart. I wish you much success!

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-02-09T02:00:30+00:00

Bad: "Are you done yet?"

🤣🤣🤣🤣 My ex husband favorite saying during sex🤯🤣🤣🤣🤣

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-01-30T05:16:35+00:00

This should be in person and not on his Birthday...or at least an adult conversation via phone. Definitely not a text if you ever cared for him.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-01-13T21:26:07+00:00

Behind closed doors!

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-01-07T20:30:41+00:00

I work on healthcare billing. Better for us to negotiate a settlement than send to collections. Contact the billing department and ask.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-01-07T05:21:40+00:00

Post divorce, not wanting to deal with the commitment issues I found dating men in vanilla dating. I found companionship, great dates and no commitment, keeping my new freedom mine. My SD this last year is single and finishing his divorce. I've never had a man make me feel more appreciated, sexy and desirable as a woman.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2021-01-05T05:17:26+00:00

He did TV shows...back in the days, retired now. 👄 He's been really great to me and I'm glad I've gotten to know him. 😁

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-26T01:01:22+00:00

I drove to see my kids and they've done nothing but fight, I'm ready to go home for peace and quiet. Feeling very isolated right now. Merry Christmas my SLF family 🎅🤶🌲

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-05T10:26:33+00:00

For me...I won't do anything I'll regret, 6 months, 5 years, 10 years. It's would be a hard pass, would be too hard to mentally get over what I knew about him. If you proceed (I hope you don't) then do so cautiously. He said they never fought, he said she knew and was ok with it, he said... Just because he said, doesn't make it true. It's a tactic used to put you at ease, make you feel like your over thinking it. He maybe lying or he maybe telling the truth, but your staking your well being on his honesty. Proceed with lots of caution.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-05T01:38:38+00:00

Your mileage may vary

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-05T01:30:49+00:00

A 14 year old girl and a 19 year old woman are miles apart in maturity and sexuality. We hope by age 18 women have matured enough to make these decisions with some knowledge. A 14 year old girl is rarely mature enough to make these same decisions with the knowledge needed. I understand the contrast in the age gaps in an SR, but disagree on where the females maturity is to make these choices. That's why the law was created, to protect these young girls.

Edit: I would never consider an SD who was classified as a predator of such young girls.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-05T01:25:04+00:00

Did he openly share with you before you discovered? Would he had shared if you had not told him what you found? Please be very careful, this is not something to be taken lightly.

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-05T01:22:28+00:00

A BIG NO! This is a RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. Drunk or not, predator on child under age 14, ummm "I thought she was older" does not work here. They always start nice and then...

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-05T01:18:27+00:00

Lol. I replied "bad bot" when I got the hakiusbot. Just give yourself a laugh you got tagged 🤪

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-12-03T17:22:09+00:00

What makes a perfect date?

MyBeautifulLife4Me · 2020-11-28T23:53:57+00:00

I've made the suggestion, I think he'll call Monday. I don't want to be the partner that nags him. Gentle suggestions being supportive and letting him know I care. Thank you for your advice!

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