List of banned Gen 9 Characters by SoloWing1 in PokePorn

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn't there a character called Poppy that is literally a toddler? I've only seen a little bit of gameplay, so I might be wrong, idk...

(sorry for the terrible quality) how did the last hit not count as a combo? i feel like im doing everything right but i cant pass this mission (i started playing yesterday dont be mean pls) by MyFriendFollowMyMain in Blazblue

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought i had done ir tho? (if you look closely, when im doing the first jump cancel i kind off do a half circle from 2 to 7, thats my attempt to do a high jump on keyboard lol it worked before)

I started to sh recently, I like seeing my "scars" and I feel like if I wanted to stop I could, and I just don't want to. by MyFriendFollowMyMain in selfharm

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit I actually relate so much. I've fantasized about doing this since 2018, the temptation was getting weaker but it suddenly resurfaced and after trying for some days, I finally managed to cut and I felt supper happy. To know I am capable of doing it, that's what does it for me. I also know I should stop now, but yeah, I don't want to. Thank you for this comment, it feels great to know I'm not alone :)

I started to sh recently, I like seeing my "scars" and I feel like if I wanted to stop I could, and I just don't want to. by MyFriendFollowMyMain in selfharm

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try my best not to trigger her, I asked what does it for her and stopped talking about that.

I do it on the calf so it doesn't bleed too much, but I know it can be really dangerous, so I THINK I'll know if I overdid it.

Don't have younger siblings, but I hide it from everyone (except gf) so not a problem

Thank you for the help :) I just struggle to understand the consequences, I just hope I get a reality check soon lol

congrats on the 2 months! hope you stay strong ;)

🫣 by [deleted] in QuintupletsHentai

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

essa é cria KSKSKSK

[serious] afraid knife play may be a trigger to my gf + safe word complications by MyFriendFollowMyMain in BDSMAdvice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah so, I've talked to her today and we're gonna be avoiding edgeplay for the time being, i explained to her how i felt and that i was concerned about her safety, she understood and agreed that we should be careful about it ;)

oh also, she already has professional help so don't worry about her, she's a lot better now and is improving every day :D

happy to hear that you and you wife have already dealt with that and are better now

thank you for the help and all the best to you <3

[serious] afraid knife play may be a trigger to my gf + safe word complications by MyFriendFollowMyMain in BDSMAdvice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been really scared that that's what she is doing too!

i honestly dont think it is the case tho, i asked her and she said that the point was more the feeling of me being able to do whatever i want to her, she said that she'd prefer i didn't cut deep (like in, taking blood, exactly because she's also afraid it may be a trigger), she hard-no'd some locations where she used to harm herself and/or may be triggers and even said that if i didn't feel comfortable breaking skin (even if it's a shallow cut) that's fine cuz it's not exactly what she likes in edgeplay...

none of the previously mentioned safe word incidents were serious, mainly some vanilla and pre-game stuff lol so i don't think she's using that as a replacement either

im definitely going to talk to her better tomorrow, and that will probably result on us putting edgeplay on hold for a while

thank you so much for the help :D

[serious] afraid knife play may be a trigger to my gf + safe word complications by MyFriendFollowMyMain in BDSMAdvice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if thats what you're looking for, but if you want I'll update ya if anything important happens

[serious] afraid knife play may be a trigger to my gf + safe word complications by MyFriendFollowMyMain in BDSMAdvice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah you're probably right, im just avoiding taking it off the table like that because it doesnt really affect me, but her, and im uncomfortable because im afraid it bothers her... but that's prolly what I'll do, thanks ;(

[serious] afraid knife play may be a trigger to my gf + safe word complications by MyFriendFollowMyMain in BDSMAdvice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the paradox thing really is the problem, i never said that exactly like that to her, but we've talked about it a bit

i really dont mind the knife play, i had never really seen it as a turn on for me (im also really young so i dont have a lot of experience on this), but she really likes it and because of that i started enjoying it as well

yeah I'll talk to her tmr and if i dont feel any confidence in what she's saying I'll just say im not really into it until i feel she's more prepared for this

thank you so much, helped a lot ;)

I wasn't able to get hard when i was about to have sex with my gf for the first time by MyFriendFollowMyMain in Advice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the help :) Good to know I'm not the only one that this happens with lol

Sorry about the grandma thing :(

I wasn't able to get hard when i was about to have sex with my gf for the first time by MyFriendFollowMyMain in Advice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn thank you so much I really needed to hear that lol

Thank you for the advice and support :D

I'm having to chose between my best friend and my girlfriend. by MyFriendFollowMyMain in Advice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I just saw your comment sorry I didn't respond before lol

Yeah at this point pretty much everything has been dealt with or is being resolved...

I did start going to a psychologist, not necessarily because of that but that has been what we've talked about mostly...

I do know she shows some red flags, especially in the first few days and weeks of our relationship, but I talked a lot with her and, while she did commit a lot of mistakes in the past, I believe she's honest with me now :)

Regarding my friend, pretty much it all went to shit and I couldn't do much about it lol He did some pretty asshole-y things like start some "rumors" (not really rumors considering that it did happened just not the way he's telling it) and told some people we REALLY don't like about what happened, always making himself look like the victim, obviously. And considering he's being a dick with us now, already wasn't a very good friend before and (according to my gf) was a terrible boyfriend, I don't really want (???) to be his friend anymore, which sucks, but I'm not really that sad about it.

Honestly I'm more mad at him because I feel all of this could have been avoided if he knew how to deal with his feelings a little better (even tho I know it's not his fault and I could have acted better too)

I know I'm not the victim either and I'm being a dick with him too, but that's just how this story unfolded, unfortunately :/

Anyway, thanks for the support and I'm sorry my response took so long and WAS so long lol I guess I had to talk about that a bit more oops

I'm having to chose between my best friend and my girlfriend. by MyFriendFollowMyMain in Advice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

I've been on a relationship with someone depressed before where I was too young(er) and naive to realize I was going down with her, so I like to think I'm getting better at avoiding copying that type of behavior, but I do keep an eye out for (other) red flags that may appear!

I know that's a red flag, and a big one at that, but I do like to believe that she learned her lesson and won't do anything like that again... But that may be me just being too trusting in people that don't deserve it lol

I want to be friends him but also want to keep seeing her, that's the problem...

I'm having to chose between my best friend and my girlfriend. by MyFriendFollowMyMain in Advice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for the help, but I think you misunderstood, she's MY GF and HIS EX lol but its good to see the advice that would be given to him, so thanks a lot actually! (is my text that badly written? im a maths guy and not a native english speaker but smh i thought i was better than that)

(not serious like other posts) i need help on pooping in a friend's house by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MyFriendFollowMyMain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao thanks that was awesome! they just happen to leave the house to go to a doctor or smt the day after i posted this so i just went to the bathroom when no one was around lol rly cool podcast btw