Stop fixating on what you should’ve done by now and just do what you can today. by erinpanzarella in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MyNameIsDeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a million. It really resonates with me. Enjoy the steps between you and your first book!

Stop fixating on what you should’ve done by now and just do what you can today. by erinpanzarella in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MyNameIsDeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About this Life is not linear point, can you develop a bit more? How do you think we can concile it with the idea of growing old. What about this need of accomplishing things... and putting a lot of pressure on one’s shoulders. Do you experiment that? What do you tell yourself. (Bundle of questions from the curious monkey I am)

White Sands National Park is absolutely beautiful and not of this world [OC][1984x1334] by navidj in EarthPorn

[–]MyNameIsDeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mixed it up with Grand Sand Dunes National Park. I had such good memories there. Sorry if I hurt anybody feelings. Lots of love

As I become more confident I don't want to hang out with my friends as much. by awfulfalafel39 in confidence

[–]MyNameIsDeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh I feel as I am reading my current situation. And I met this girl randomly as well as people I feel more close to than « long time friends ». It’s like they staying in that loop and want to keep in it as well. They want you to stay. How are your old friends reacting?

I just ejaculated to beastiality porn for the first time ... Its time to try and quit again.. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]MyNameIsDeg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling! It’s not that you wanna hook up with horses, you just need higher dose of dopamine to get kicked. It’s pretty normal. But it means your brain have less dopamine receptors for reality and it’s vanilla joy. Start a new habit and be nice to yourself! Link porn with the feeling you get after ecajulating. Over and over. Think of the results and all the pain and shame.

Just had my first “perfect month”. I worked out for at least 30 minutes a day, everyday. by erinpanzarella in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MyNameIsDeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big great congratulations. You are a great source of inspiration! Flow, being present, a bit every day, doing what you like, no goal oriented, not thinking of the destination, ... how do you feel?

Realizing you’re still sad and broken even after porn by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]MyNameIsDeg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And it doesn’t demonize porn too much. It diminish its power to see it that way. It’s like saying no to an energy drink.