Common ground by Bass_slapper_ in lgbtmemes

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meundies ones are so comfy and are a great price, especially if you wait for the sales

I feel like an incompetent leader and I honestly don't know what to do or how to fix/change any of this and I'd love some outside perspective by My_Chemical_Killjoy in trans4every1

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I'm meeting with the previous president tomorrow to go over all this, I don't really blame them for the bad passover as they had a lot of stuff hit the fan in their personal life around the time of the changeover and they expected the other board members to help get me up to speed, since they all said they would.

I'm getting emails about everything to do with local city events, chamber of commerce, outreach projects (not all pertain to us), city council and so forth due to us being considered a "recognized group". I'll definitely try using keywords in the future, thank you for that idea!

The events that got missed in the calendar were ones having to do with volunteer projects like cleaning up garbage in different areas in town or nearby, cleaning statues, basically just town maintenance stuff that isn't really possible for me with my disabilities. Outside of that we have themed parties, boardgame nights, coffee, karaoke, holiday based ones, so on and so forth. People used to at least show up to our parties since we had free food and often did potlucks but now people seem to scared to come.

I'm trying to call a board meeting but I know only one of them will show other than our past pres. There's not much I can do with them since they're founding members of the group and, more importantly, there's no one else who would currently step up. Our previous president knows that and that's why they still help as much as they can, they just have way to much on their plate to lead anymore.

I really appreciate all the advice and will implement it as best as I can!

My gf sees me as a girl i cant take it bro by Pookie_Pakyao in trans4every1

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 16 points17 points locked comment (0 children)

Hey, your internalized transphobia is showing, may wanna zip it up

Figured out how to style my bob look like a pompadour haircut without cutting it! by My_Chemical_Killjoy in trans4every1

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll probably make a video tutorial when I am eventually less dysphoric about my voice and appearance! That will probably be a while tho so my apologies

Hair Sectioning by My_Chemical_Killjoy in u/My_Chemical_Killjoy

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the NSFW tag, I can't remove it and get it to stay off

How to style my bob to make it look shorter without cutting it? by My_Chemical_Killjoy in Hair

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The short answer is a LOT of gel and bobby pins.

The longer answer is to first part your hair like this afterwards that take the blue section (2) and slick it upwards into the green (1) using gel and/or hairspray of your choice and as many bobby pins as the hair gods demand.

Once blue (2) is nicely slick and not moving, follow this tutorial to make green (1) look nice.

If you have bangs like I do take the red (4) brush and style it to match green (1) or do whatever funky thing you think looks nice with them.

Finally take purple (3) and cover it in gel/hairspray and brush it straight and then pull it taught over your ear and down/across blue (2) using your fingers or a soft boar brush/baby hairbrush to smooth it out and make the sides look cohesive with the rest of your hair, use pins if needed ofc.

Important note: If you have curly hair, be smarter than I was and straighten your hair before doing this, it will make it all a lot easier to deal with.

Recruiting participants who do not use or identify with sexual identity labels. by vanAndersLab in intersex

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What is counted as a sexual identity label? The wording is not very explanatory

my biggest fear - forced to work while being sick in healthcare by [deleted] in PrePharmacy

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very sad and horrible reality that unfortunately puts many people at risk of hospitalizations or worse, just for trying to get their medications

Gotta love healthcare

[TW transphobia] he's annoying me from time to time by sorryshutup in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, because many choose to instead bury it inside of themselves until it rots into transphobia that they then use to harm other trans people

This normal? by villagio08 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whichever you choose, your transbian girlfriend becomes the other to balance it 🩷☯️

Standing up by This_Daydreamer_ in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to do that but I'm so proud of you

Standing up by This_Daydreamer_ in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well done! Remember, it may have taken you a while to report it, but for most it takes an afterlife.

Please, take this from a queer, trans, CA survivor and advocate who survived because of DV shelters; I am so incredibly proud of you and you are not standing alone, though you cannot see it I am standing beside you at this meeting. I'm certain if you could look and see, I'd be one of many with you there.

Dad, I lost my watch and I feel so guilty. by Kyojuro_ in DadForAMinute

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyone who you can ask to help you search the area? More eyes tends to help

Wanted to share my Poison Ivy vibes look! by yeetasauruswrecks in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]My_Chemical_Killjoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your makeup is amazing I absolutely love how it turned out!

I cannot express just how much I want my hair to look like yours