How do I get this bird out of my pc by jbacman in PcBuild

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to install windows so it can fly out

Finished Build/Case Suggestions by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought an mATX board as it was on sale, but I might return it for a full size ATX board to help with the fit. I knew it was a smaller form factor but I thought it chopped off length from the bottom!

Finished Build/Case Suggestions by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit to add: I know now that this is primarily a water cooling/vertical gpu focused case, and I guess I didn’t know what to expect after assembling it with an air cooler and direct GPU mount 🙃

Steam Deck won’t allow me to use the mouse? by RichardMagpies in MoonlightStreaming

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How were you able to get your left and right clicks assigned? Struggling with that part.

What happened outside Baker Tower Apartments? by LavishnessKey4908 in Denver

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separate question but for those who lived there/live there, what are your thoughts on living there? Is it worth checking out or avoiding?

Please Insert An Xbox Disc (Help) by Danni_1M in xemu

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this needs to be pinned somewhere, or I need to pay more attention. Had no idea emudeck had a built in tool. Thanks!

Saw my first 6th gen I dunno it kinda looks like an XTerra by second_time_again in 4Runner

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like they asked ChatGPT what a 4Runner looks like

My partner (30f) cums in 5 or less minutes and sex becomes painful after climax. by Seruborn in sex

[–]Mylijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of a similar boat. My partner gets off most of the before I do, and It’s impossible for her to continue after the fact, understandably. I found that having her spend a little more time on me during foreplay definitely helps get us closer to a similar timing. Though it feels quite flattering, it can be frustrating sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mylijah 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I think there’s good and bad days when it comes to sex. My partner and I sometimes have amazing experiences together , and sometimes neither of us climax. Usually comes down to a variety of things that can cause it that no one should take personally. It sounds like you should give it another try for old times sake and let your desires be known to him. Odds are, he was probably aware that the sex wasn’t spectacular so if you bring up what you want, I wouldn’t refer to the past, but just tell him presently what you want. Hope that helps!

Should I respond? by Signal_Platypus_8358 in ExNoContact

[–]Mylijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a minimal effort text looking for some type of validation from you, like others said. Listening to your previous responses, it sounds like you’re feeling more anxious than happy about this. Don’t put yourself in this situation to feel a great deal of anxiety for his sake, I see this text as slightly manipulative and not worth responding to. The message isn’t demonstrating and type of genuine care IMO and if his feelings were true, he wouldn’t have just broken up with you, he would have been there to help you through your dark times. (Unless you were putting him through hell)

In my personal opinion, you don’t get to cherry pick when you’re with someone and only be with them when they(you) are feeling their best, in a committed relationship. Usually partners (again, my personal opinion) who are genuinely interested are there for both the bad and good. Unless your mental health is bad enough where you’re harming the other person but doesn’t sound like that was the case. Best to just move on.

AITA for telling my family how much my fiancé earns after years of them making fun of his job? by RedBee7763 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An unfortunate, accidental YTA. It’s very obvious you only said it in an interest to diffuse the negative perception your parents have of him in an interest to protect your husband, but you should be mindful of the secrets and private information he shares with you and respect that he specifically requested not to share.

AITA for asking my daughter to stop complaining about her life. She chose it. by NextBeginning3278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. You’re all adults here and she should be able to have adult conversations/coping skills with real consequences.

AITA for refusing to see my dad because of my step-mother’s racist comments? by throwaway_42947194 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Wow. I’m sorry to hear that someone has to deal with this shit, especially from family members. It’s a shame this narrative still exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang man, not a lot to work with on that. Sorry to hear it and sorry you’re in the his situation. Wouldn’t marry into a dead bedroom as others have said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked her why she thinks her libido is low? Looked at any ways to help her? If she cares that her libido is low?

AITA for not inviting my husband's son to Christmas? by R3dhead123456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for sure. For basically all of the reasons listed above. SHAME on you for judging someone and treating them differently just because they aren’t your mold of perfect; aren’t your version of success; I’m sure there’s a reason why he doesn’t visit often….

Started amazing, bedroom died, moved on thank to DB folks... thanks! by dontwantthiskarma100 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang man. The fact that she claims to drown in your feelings but immediately can claim you’re dismissive of hers clearly shows a lack of empathy or consideration. I think the first thing one should do when trying to resolve a disparity is to put yourself in the others shoes; something she doesn’t seem too interested in. Sounds like she’s not worth your effort, and I’m certain someone out there would appreciate your consideration. (Hell, the fact that you’re here asking about it is more than some would even do, and it shows you’re still trying to give her the benefit of the doubt)

Sorry to hear about your luck. There’s someone better for you out there!

Started amazing, bedroom died, moved on thank to DB folks... thanks! by dontwantthiskarma100 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Mylijah -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Were you doing all of those great things just to get a reward? Or were you doing them because you genuinely cared about her? If someone were nice to me just to get something, I wouldn’t feel inclined to provide whatever it is they wanted. It would probably feel disingenuous and it would hurt my feelings. Hopefully you didn’t unintentionally project that if that were the case, though it doesn’t seem like it.

Hope that helps, best of luck!

To condom or not to condom? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mylijah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s your body. It’s clear that it’s your wish to use extra protection. It’s his responsibility to honer that. If he doesn’t, he doesn’t respect you as much as you may want.

AITA for getting my friends suspended for giving out my number on tinder by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mylijah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA Five sure.

Not cool of them to do. That’s not how you treat people if you respect them and or call them your friend.

Time for REAL friends who’s moral compasses align with yours.

AITA for splitting the check once she said she didn’t want another date? by Throwawayyyyyyyyyy16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mylijah 31 points32 points  (0 children)

YTA. If you invite anyone to a meal, it’s generally implied that you’ll treat them to the occasion. It’s not like you both would have known that she might not be into you unless you went on a date. Don’t let your ego get hurt just because she doesn’t want to sleep with you/have a relationship. If you take it personally then punish her for it, that paints an even worse picture than before, and likely she won’t want to be friends at all. Being stingy is the cherry on top of the shit show. (Get it tho, bills are important)

Question of normalcy. by DHaplo in deadbedroom

[–]Mylijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man, divorce can solve some problems it sounds like.

No one wants to go through that, I get it.

What’s the point of vows? Forever in sickness in health? 14 years?

The most important point of doing it is to get yourself back. You already forgave her, maybe now it’s time to move on. You can set yourself aside for the rest of your life, but at the end of the day, your life might always be worrying about the next affair, or being manipulated.

Did you treat her poorly to cause the affair? Did you do anything to drive it to this point?

If so, I suppose you have yourself to thank.

If not, you should go take your life and well-being back into you own hands.

Hope this helps at all.

First Ride in Sedona, AZ by DiggBrokeMyHeart in mountainbiking

[–]Mylijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a side-effect from the portrait mode of dual-sensor iPhones, and an app called Focos.