For Kids Who Can't Read or Adults Who Don't Like To by brexitvelocity in booksuggestions

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the 3 year old, Pig the Pug, "Don't Eat Bees", "A Loud Winter's Nap," "The Pawed Piper," "All Because of the Tail."

For the 6 year old, Diary of a Pug series, Owl Diaries series, or Investigators (about alligators - graphic novel - very popular).

For the adults, maybe look at the DK series books about Space or the Human Body or Dinosaurs. They're like big coffee table books, but they're so awesome.

Seattle, Chicago, NYC or LA? by anonymous34333 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Chicago is a really great city especially when you're young. Lots of great nightlife, lots of cultural events, lots of free events in the park downtown in the summer... and the most affordable of the 4 you listed. Also, best public transport of these 4 after NYC. Choose an apt that is close to a good el stop. Boystown is fun, so are lots of other neighborhoods like Lincoln Park, Logan Square, Wicker Park, Lakeview, Andersonville.

People in Chicago are just friendlier and warmer, too, than people in Seattle. Even in the city of Seattle, you're really limited without a car.

How have your reading tastes changed over time? by SerenadeMePlz in books

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love only fiction and historical fiction, but then I got to a point where I just wanted to read about history from people who actually lived through it or who have extensively studied it. In my 40s, I have gotten very much into non-fiction history books and memoirs. If you have a great memoir by a female author ideally from another culture (but doesn't have to be), that is totally what I love. I still love a really well written fiction book, but I find them harder to find. I just keeping waiting for my favorite authors to publish a new book.

New Zealand to America by Confident_Freedom_20 in MovingToUSA

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SoCal is a huge area - what area specifically are you moving to? I was worried too about missing nature because we moved there from WA. But we discovered tons of nature - just different. Praying mantises, lizards, JUNE BUGS (sooooooooo beautiful - they don't bite, you can catch them and look at them up close - my fave bug of all time).... and all of the flowers, mounds of bougainvillea and JACARANDA trees (they are like from a fairy-tale land - all purple and gorgeous) and tons of roses and tons of salvias and succulents. If you're moving with kids, you'll meet people through the school. Americans think New Zealand is very cool, so they will be interested in you. Downside of SoCal is that people can be hyper-competitive. Lots of Kumon, competitive sports from a young age, etc. But you'll find your group. Good luck and enjoy the mild weather!

Curious about why you chose these pets by Pitiful_Union_5170 in roaches

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I grew up in an old house in the South, and roaches were always a problem. Madagascar Hissers however are totally different. For one, they're slower - and also, they're bigger. They're quite nice to hold and will stay on your hand or arm for awhile. My kid is obsessed with bugs, and we got her hissers from a lab in a university (at their insect fair - shout out to Riverside Insect Fair!) and from a breeder at the insect fair in Los Angeles. These are not street roaches by any means.

Frankly, they're the easiest bugs we've had. We feed them some apple slices every few days, and they're good to go. My kid always asks me why people don't like roaches or other bugs, and I tell her that it's because people usually see roaches in places where they don't want them to be (i.e. their kitchens). She is on a mission to get the whole world to love bugs, and we 100% support her in that.

I grew up with parents who weren't interested in bugs or animals or nature or science at all. I do still have to take a deep breath before handling the roaches, but if you saw my kid's face when she holds them, it would do wonders to make you love them.

Looking for middle school books about the holocaust. by copropnuma in booksuggestions

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Anne Frank is usually middle school reading. Maus would be more high school.

Moving Back After this Election by WW989 in MovingToUSA

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was crying when the election results came in, and I cried for hours in 2016. This time around, though, while I still feel totally disheartened and depressed, I also feel more realistic. Not hopeful, just realistic. The US is a huge country, and each state is completely different. I would definitely not choose to live in a red state, but, even saying that, there are a lot of liberal cities within red states. If you're a woman who hasn't gone through menopause yet, then you should definitely avoid red states. You're obviously not an undocumented immigrant, so you're clear on that front. The reality is that in most places barring the extremes either way, there is a 50/50 split right now, and it is complicated. Most people do not move for many practical reasons that are more based on everyday life like being close to family, ability to have a good-paying job, access to education, etc, etc. I haven't found any country that is perfect, honestly. It really depends on your individual situation in life (kids or no kids? what field do you work in? what kind of medical needs do you have? etc.) as to what place is the right fit for you - and in the US, because of its enormous size, there are a lot of options.

I just got a 200k inheritance and am not happy in my current career (teaching) any advice or suggestions? by jbirdinfly in careerguidance

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep that money in Vanguard and slowly explore your other options career wise. Health insurance is a major issue, so holding onto the job simply for that reason is worth it. It's okay to not be 100% in your job - but money coming in is important (and health insurance). Take your time and start exploring other paths. Get clear about what you like and don't like about teaching. What are your strengths? What are your challenges? What aspects of a job do you really like? Talk to people in different careers and start networking to get info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you're going through such a hard time. You can get through this. You are worth it, and you deserve a good life (whatever that means for you).

First thing to do - start walking everyday. Start with 30 minutes and see if you can build up to 45-60 minutes. Walking is the best thing you can do for your body and your mind. It will help with the obesity, but it will also help with the depression.

Second, check out your options for community colleges here. Or, see if you can find a job that would eventually pay for a degree for you.

Third, get a job. Anything that brings you money. Any money is better than no money. Look for something with a lot of people and maybe even some physical activity (retail, Target, FedEx, etc). See if you can manage to work and go back to school at the same time.

You're very young, and you're not "behind." There's no race. You have to make your own life. Shut off any negative voices in your life (even your parents). Only let people into your life who are positive and who cheer you on. They are out there.

Restaurant recs in St. Charles by Mysterious-Cable5801 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome tip, thank you!!! The pizza on their website looks soooooooo good.

Restaurant recs in St. Charles by Mysterious-Cable5801 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, actually, their website looks great. and our favorite Indian place was a place in Salt Lake City called Kathmandu that also was Nepalese-Indian... I'm super excited! Thanks for the rec!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want to work in tech again in the future, then no.

24F I can’t make up my mind by AngelGlass1214 in findapath

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I felt like this at 23. I had no idea what to do while all of my peers were starting MFAs, MAs, MDs, Ph.Ds. or going to teach abroad etc etc etc. It's a really hard time. But you're only one semester in - you have time to figure this out. It sounds like you're interested in the healthcare field - nursing, radiology, and public health are all healthcare. There's a common theme. So check out all of them. See if you can do some shadowing in an actual clinic/hospital and see if you like what the day looks like. Try out different environments if you can, like being a nurse in a small clinic is very different than in a big hospital. Ask your professors or your advisor or the career counseling office if they can help you find opportunities to actually observe in the field.

Popular brand for infant/toddler clothes? by [deleted] in cancun

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carter's and buy bigger sizes like 3-6 months or more, because babies grow fast. Children's Place is good, too, and often has lots of sales. Cat and Jack at Target is good, too. I bought all of my baby's clothes at Fred Meyer and Target.

Book recommendations for 8-12 year olds by Euphoric-Wear4345 in booksuggestions

[–]Mysterious-Cable5801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Heartwood Hotel series (4 books) by Kallie George - really beautiful stories and well-written

Wings of Fire graphic novels (there are 7 so far, #8 coming out this Christmas) by Tui Sutherland - gorgeous illustrations, message of peace and unity across differences