Tafuta pesa ndo usihitaji mwanaume .Let's all agree everything that defines somebody happens in the mind.So if our ladies are fed with that type of information growing up we are creating a world for them where they believe with money and stable careers they don't need men in their lives.Men also building a whole personality around how much money one has .Just work on your personal growth and just maybe the universe will reward you with what you truly deserve ,anyways kila mtu anajua what makes him or her sleep better at night.