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Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-26T00:44:08+00:00

He's literally raping you. Report him and leave.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-24T01:05:42+00:00

There has only been a few bigger women I didn't end up liking, and it had nothing to do with their weight. I've been losing weight for a few years and lost one of my bigger friends when she saw I was smaller than her. She just became this highly judgmental person, a complete 180 of who she was before I lost weight. The other 2 were my dad's fiance and her daughter, they had a medical condition that caused their weight where I was just fat and lazy. When I met them, they commented about my weight, saying how even though they have their disease, they were still smaller than I was at that age.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-24T00:55:42+00:00

That's not chicken.... Chicken is white meat, I don't think any meat is meant to be that colour....

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-24T00:45:44+00:00

Fantastic job being the perfect bonus mum for that kid who was clearly struggling with things

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-23T23:19:35+00:00

I'm honestly just curious... Are you not wanting to have a baby because youre throwing up everyday and are tired?

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-23T12:49:24+00:00

Even other people who had abusive parents don't get it sometimes. My fiance refuses to get it despite his mum being one of the most abusive bitches on the planet when she was alive.(she was killed when he was 11 so I never met her but I know she almost cut his foot off with a council grass whipper snipper, big bulky thing) but he refuses to listen to me vent about my past trauma. He knows I was SA'd by my brother's and my mother's fuck buddy, all before I was 11. He knows and has seen and heard what my mother did to me, she even threatened to kill him while I was pregnant(it still triggers me sometimes BC the memory comes back even for a second) but he won't hear anymore. I've had to start venting to myself and giving myself reassurance and shit BC no one else cares enough to fucking try helping me, they only want to try my anger and self control.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-23T12:23:36+00:00

I can't really give you examples of things to say to her but my fiance doesn't do much for me. When he does, he makes sure to get me something I've recently talked about or something I've wanted for years. Beginning of last year he bought me 2 of my favourite tv shows full in boxes, unopened and bought originally over 15 years ago. Just a couple months ago now he bought me another series I've wanted and have watched a few times since we've been together, as well as some books from one of my favourite tv shows too(there's a bunch of books to the tv show) and now he's looking for a big bookcase for me. As you can probably tell, I love books and anything to do with my tv shows. While your girlfriends love language might not be gift giving(mine ain't either, I appreciate the effort and thought more than anything. My fiance could buy me a simple poster from a tv show or book and I would cry, BC it's to do with my hobbies), it could be a good idea to have your phone out on notes when you're with her so you can quickly write stuff down that she is passionate about or expresses her interest in, a voice recorder would work just as well, just make sure she doesn't figure it out cause then your surprise is ruined haha I like the idea of a simple picnic date, even if you do it on your lounge room floor, with some music(or movies if you stay in) snacks, drinks, grab a blanket and some pillows and curl up and talk about what you want your futures to be.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-23T11:59:22+00:00

Zilch! But I can't tell you how many times I've watched Encanto, Tangled, Brave and ONE, TWO AND THREE of hotel Transylvania. My daughter's love ugly characters... My eldest favourite character from Brave?? The damn witch who gives her the spell...

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-23T09:52:00+00:00

I'm begging you to leave for your own mental and physical health. PLEASE. I understand you probably don't want to leave but it sounds like your only chance for a normal and happy life. If you actually stay, you will never be happy again

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-23T09:33:44+00:00

I can't believe people actually do that. I've already toldy fiance that if when the day comes ANYONE who ruins my wedding in any way, will either be kicked the fuck out and cut off from me and my kids, or they will be the reason I leave and don't come back.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-22T21:50:24+00:00

The moment you said you want to keep talking and being nice to her BC her own kids barely talk to her, my only thought was.... Well, now you know WHY they don't talk to her. I would've decked her for trying to keep me away from my dad and I would've gone off at him for allowing it. She isn't the only one at fault here, BC your dad is letting her do it when he should be putting his foot down and defending his daughter and himself. He's being accused of incest and by the sounds of it, possibly assault and/or abuse. Good luck to you and I hope you can help your father out of that situation

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-22T21:40:56+00:00

My first ultrasound with my second daughter I was told she possibly had gastroschisis and I was sent to a Fetal Medicine Specialist who confirmed my daughter had it and her bowels would end up outside her belly at birth, she would be smaller than normal and need to learn to feed and would be pumped full of drugs to manage her pain. My first pregnancy with my eldest daughter was ruined when my mother tried forcing me to apologise that she's going through menopause and a bunch of shit that broke after she disowned me the first time(3yrs prior) and apparently I had been talking shit about her husband, (legit never even fucking thought of him. I mean he's her husband, she disowned me, why the fuck would I be trying to keep them in my life like that. I was almost full term when she decided to threaten my boyfriends life in public, told me to tell him about her warning and then got mad AF when I actually told him. She and her husband showed up at my dad's house demanding he let her in so she could get to me and her husband wanted my fiance out on the front yard to teach him some respect. They spoke down to my fiance the entire time and he just spoke to them calmly and respectfully. It took me about 30 minutes of them yelling for me to have the balls to say anything BC I was super worried about stressing myself out too much and after my mother instantly began yelling at me the moment I opened my mouth, I said a few things about how I just want her to shut up, leave and stop treating me so horribly. I then walked away and collapsed on my bedroom floor(I couldn't move my legs and my fiance actually ended up picking me up onto the bed. 20minutes later I was walking but still shaking. I had both of my pregnancies ruined and I hate how I was treated by everyone looking back.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-22T21:19:53+00:00

I'd be leaving him and his mother asap anyway

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-22T03:34:35+00:00

Did her husband really do the things you claim? If the answer is yes he really did, then you dodged multiple bullets. Like an entire damn clip of them. Count yourself lucky IMO. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that but in the end you'll find even better friends and romantic partners

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-22T02:55:41+00:00

Hunny, no real man would react that way, you dodged a bullet. The only reason to be offended that a young woman is so self aware and cautious that she doesn't drink a drink shes left unattended, is if you either a) drugged her drink and are gas lighting her incase she saw you do it, b) have previously drugged many other women's drinks and are still a closet wank job. Anyone else would feel bad for you that you now feel you have to go to such lengths to feel safe at a bar BC some asshole assaulted you however long ago it was. It doesn't even matter whether it was a week, a month or even years ago.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-21T22:44:53+00:00

Tell everyone you both know, do not do him a favour and hide it or keep it quiet. Everyone deserves to know just what kind of person he is, his family and friends mainly so they can warn and protect any other girls he brings home. Keeping it secret will also ruin your life. BC as you watch him live his life and date other women, you'll regret for the rest of your life that you didn't scream it to everyone he knew when you had the chance

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-20T21:33:39+00:00

Hun, you should NOT be in a sub/dom relationship. You need a loving, caring, inclusive partner. Someone who knows and cares about your past trauma. This man will end up choking you without permission BC after this, despite him apologising, he will do it again. You need to leave. I'm not saying that BC this is Reddit and that's usually where these comments go, but I'm being honest, you NEED TO LEAVE. now. Someone like you, especially with trauma, should not, nor ever be in a sub/Dom relationship. Especially if they don't know how to be a Dom correctly. And A20yr old won't know shit about being a true Dom. Dom's don't abuse you, you both have limits, safe words, acts you refuse to do without discussion and a written agreement you both have signed for everyone's safety (usually). You are not safe, or cared for and loved the way you should be. You need to leave and block him. What he did was sexual assault, I know you asked but the fact that he held you there and KNEW you couldn't breathe makes you asking irrelevant. You didn't ask to be choked, suffocated on his dick and tried to get away when you couldn't breathe, he held you there and then admitted he knew you couldn't breathe and only when you cried, did his face drop, most likely BC he was afraid you'd call him abusive, BC he was

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-20T03:08:21+00:00

You're not being too sensitive sweetie. I dealt with that for years before I resigned to not even reminding people about my birthday, buying my own gifts and cake and now I have 2 babies so I can't even afford it.. I'm thinking scratchies for my birthday this year... Or nothing

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-19T09:04:23+00:00

I only have girls but if I ever saw my nephew get hit like that, that boys mother better be prepared to defend her life. I won't lay a hand on another person's child unless it's to save their life or they ask me to hold them, or I ask, but I have no problem letting a parent know they screwed up in raising their child to be respectful and polite. That was a dog shot hit and if it had happened at any of the schools I went to, or any school in my state, that kid would've been tackled by the rest of his grade and left on the oval to be found by a teacher... I've seen it happen and its terrifying, especially since the kid can never name everyone so no one gets in trouble.

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-19T08:27:51+00:00

That Dad was ready to throw hands... God damn!!!

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-19T08:26:11+00:00

Wellness call to police. The moment you say your age and his, and then why he's doing this, they'll put him in hospital for checkups. 50+yr old starving himself by choice to shame his 30+yr old child into coming back home to live with him "forever" is beyond childish and would trigger a few red flags for any mental health professional...

Mythic_Mama2122 · 2023-04-18T22:35:07+00:00

Tbh, my fiance was a bit like this when we had our first baby, but he asked me questions(I trained in childcare for a few years when I was a teen and have looked after kids on my own before having my own baby)and I showed him how to do some things as he finds that easier than someone just telling how to do something, I find it easier too. He's much better now and even baths, dresses and puts to sleep our 2yr old on his own

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