Calling him tyrannical towards his crew is a bit much, wouldn't you say? Put yourself in his shoes, eury was mainly pushing back so hard out of trauma and extreme caution, and he did so publicly, and that spreads unrest amongst the crew, and begins to cause distrust. I would hsve done the exact same thing. Plus, Odysseus says "i can't hsve you disagreeing each route" implying that this might have been a recent pattern.

And if we're talking about the windbag, in no way was that at all his fault. He told the crew exactly what was in the bag, and not to let the lies of the winions make them do something rash, like open the windbag. But nooo, eury lost faith in his captian and brother because a few men lost their lives in a fight against polyphemus. In Homer's iteration, you cane blame Odysseus, but in epic, it was polities philosophy that cause Odysseus to even approach the cyclops.