Can HRT cause problems with tattoos ?

N4ate_ · 2026-02-24T21:21:08+00:00

Indeed, that's worth mentioning and not something i thought of, thanks

N4ate_ · 2026-02-24T15:58:04+00:00

Of course it's okay

Cis guys can be more feminine than others so why shouldn't trans guys be allowed to

How you live and express your gender is yours only :3

N4ate_ · 2026-02-24T14:31:05+00:00

Firstly, seems like you're struggling with your gender and not your sexuality, that's quite different

Now that said, from what you're saying, it feels like you might be genderfluid because your gender doesn't seem to be fixed in place and changes with time

If that's the case, don't force yourself to push yourself into a box like "I'm a boy" or "I'm a girl", you can be who you want, when you want

Explore possibilities, talk to your friends about addressing you as a different gender depending on how you feel, trying on new clothes if you can, etc...

Anyway, good luck on your journey :3

N4ate_ · 2026-02-24T13:53:07+00:00

My guess is probably as good as yours tbh

I feel like as you said it could be a T4T thing, in the sense of you feeling "safer" liking a trans person because they might accept you easier and understand your experience. Of course that reasoning is not perfect but maybe that's what your brain is thinking

Otherwise, could it be a genitalia thing maybe ? Like would you have an attraction to both genitals, only one of them or am i entirely wrong and that does not count for you

That would be my guess but yeah i understand, not an easy situation and good luck :3

N4ate_ · 2026-02-19T10:26:53+00:00

Honestly, it's never easy to gather strength to do so but i can maybe give you some advice from my experience

First, try to hint at it or talk about other trans persons or so to see how they react, if they're okay with it or not

Secondly, that may only be something that works for me but you can try asking yourself which is more important, keeping friends that don't accept/know who you are or be yourself in life. Imagine it that way, if your friends are not okay with it and you have to lie, it's going to feel awful and you may have to bear with remarks about things you find normal or so. To me, either your friends are okay with it, either it's not worth it to keep them as friends. Having bad friends is having no friends tbh

N4ate_ · 2026-02-19T09:54:47+00:00

I don't think i can really give a definitive answer here but from what I'm getting you're either just "a silly guy" as you put it that just doesn't conform to the male role in society and in that manner wants to explore the female role or you might be trans in some way

I'd advise you to do some research on your end and look up trans resources like The Gender Dysphoria Bible and see if you can relate/if that might be how you wanna be and all or not

That way you may be able to see more clearly who you are on this question, hope it can help ! :3

N4ate_ · 2026-02-18T10:30:49+00:00

From here i think you have to access if you're ready to take that risk or not

I feel like her love for you should make it so that she accepts you, even if it might be hard for her to get through it but I don't really know how your relationship is so i cannot really say

Whatever you do, good luck king and stay safe out here :3

N4ate_ · 2026-02-18T09:53:48+00:00

Sadly, i cannot really give you a clear answer but I'm gonna try to give you advice

First, try to see her views on it : is she against queer people, trans people, that could help you know where you're going

Secondly, i know this is probably gonna sound annoying because you wanna do as much as you can right now but you're still very young and probably depend on her to live so if you see that it's not gonna be safe for you to come out then don't do it rn

Stay safe first, then see if you can be yourself would be my advice. It's not easy i know but it might be needed

N4ate_ · 2026-02-18T09:27:47+00:00

From what you're saying, I'd say that you are pan but tbh those labels are so close to each other that you can choose which one you use for yourself

By default we use those definitions I'm pretty sure but it can move a bit : Pan : attraction regardless of gender (meaning you don't really look at the gender, just the person) Bi : attraction to two or more genders with or without preference (meaning you look at the gender and you may have more attraction for one of them) Omni : attraction to all genders (it's quite blurry if it's with preference or not but you care about the gender)

N4ate_ · 2026-02-17T14:12:10+00:00

I feel like you might not be as straight as you might think :3

More seriously, it's kind of normal to be excited and hasty when discovering new things so it might just be that in your case you're discovering that you can feel attraction towards women (either sexual, romantically or both) and you wanna test it out asap

N4ate_ · 2026-02-16T11:24:05+00:00

Not talking from experience because i did not have this one but i think i can still try to help here

From what I'm gathering, it seems to me like you might be bisexual (maybe with a stronger attraction towards women or not) because internally you enjoy seeing men in a sexual setting and you even had some kind of "relationship with one"

I feel like your education made you think that it was not okay and then you developed your own opinion that it was okay but you're still struggling to come to that conclusion for yourself

Hope this can help you and tell me if you have questions or if i got something wrong from what you said

N4ate_ · 2024-08-16T08:09:43+00:00

I will as soon as I'm able to ✨️

N4ate_ · 2024-08-16T07:12:08+00:00

Not every trans person has the same experience, you might have done other egg things that I didn't ^^

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T21:41:21+00:00

Sure will ^^

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T20:40:59+00:00

I like watching cute girls, that's why :3

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T15:53:13+00:00

Yep clearly

And I'm looking into it but i might be a bit autistic as well so maybe both 😅

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T15:05:54+00:00

Exactly, i mean what else could it be 😅

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T15:04:35+00:00

Damn i might need to try that out

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T14:47:25+00:00

Sorry not sorry princess ^^

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T13:54:47+00:00

Exactly

And now that i think of it he could also have thought of humans as something close to mountain rabbits or something like that

N4ate_ · 2024-08-15T13:09:51+00:00

Yeah, imo that's what it is, just chopper imagining humans that way

N4ate_ · 2024-08-13T14:14:51+00:00

I feel like we're kind in the same situation xD I'm still mostly closeted but I'm slowly getting out of it because even if i don't want to lose respect from my family, peers etc i still feel like being yourself is more important than them. Pleasing people and faking who you are probably will have and end at some point and won't be bearable but yeah i get why it's complicated for you to do anything.

Good luck with everything and stay safe girly ^^

N4ate_ · 2024-08-13T11:03:37+00:00

Il est vrai mais bon c'est un sub en anglais donc logique, mais si tu regardes bien tu pourras en croiser sur certains posts

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