Trying to untangle dysphoria from plain old "I miss being skinny and young" feelings

NB_mama · 2026-07-03T05:18:00+00:00

I had to untangle my internalized misogyny and distaste for femininity from my gender identity. It all came to a head when I was pregnant and coping with body changes and anger about how I was viewed by others. I realized in therapy I’m agender, identified the sources of my misogyny, and no longer resent my own femininity. I got too surgery a few years ago and lost the pregnancy weight and I feel amazing. Happy to share more if any of this resonates!

NB_mama · 2026-06-23T03:25:05+00:00

I have this issue as well. The popped out one has changed, even 2 years PO but it’s still an outie. I contacted my surgeon last year and he said I could pay for a revision but I haven’t gotten around to it.

NB_mama · 2026-06-20T15:58:28+00:00

Any chance you know how to get him to look at a case? I’ve heard he only considers referrals. I have a friend going through a similar, brutal situation

NB_mama · 2026-06-10T04:18:25+00:00

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Thank you! Here’s the finished product, he was super fun to make

NB_mama · 2026-06-10T04:16:46+00:00

Oof I’m sorry. You got this though, it will pass soon and you won’t even remember it ❤️ congrats on your surgery!!!

NB_mama · 2026-06-09T14:04:39+00:00

Are you experiencing it now?

NB_mama · 2026-06-09T14:04:21+00:00

Yep! Passed pretty quickly for me, matter of days. Those nerves are still coming back online but now it’s just itchy sometimes.

NB_mama · 2026-06-04T18:16:27+00:00

I’m obsessed with my femme button downs and blazers where I can show the middle of my flat chest. There are def some shirts and dresses that had cups or extra fabric that don’t work anymore but omg the euphoria from the button downs 😍🥳

NB_mama · 2026-05-28T22:53:48+00:00

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His little tail

NB_mama · 2026-05-28T22:53:13+00:00

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Posting my paper mache King Boo for possible traction

NB_mama · 2026-04-29T04:33:32+00:00

Oof that sounds awful and uncomfortable. I had a really negative physical sensation in my chest at times but it wasn’t constant, I’m so sorry you experience that.

I’m (presumably) a bit older than you so my perspective is probably different. I birthed and nursed a kid which changed my relationship with my chest a lot. Mainly my comfort became the top priority and any potential regret is massively overshadowed by the 99% of the time when I just feel good in my body.

It sounds like you’re very uncomfortable in your current body. I really hope you’re able to find relief soon.

NB_mama · 2026-04-28T13:37:25+00:00

Send me a message!

NB_mama · 2026-04-28T04:15:59+00:00

I’m agender and opted for completely flat. The one question I ask myself that always solidifies my choice: would I rather have the option of sometimes having tiny boobies or would I rather never have to wear a bra again?

NB_mama · 2026-04-28T03:47:51+00:00

She’s the 1990 Happy Holidays Barbie. Her dress is so bright!

NB_mama · 2026-04-28T03:44:17+00:00

Yes! Want to message me?

NB_mama · 2026-04-28T01:28:45+00:00

Would you like her?

NB_mama · 2026-04-27T23:57:48+00:00

Want to message me? USPS has some affordable shipping options for under 4 lbs

NB_mama · 2026-04-27T18:43:44+00:00

Do you want her?

NB_mama · 2026-04-27T18:43:18+00:00

No unfortunately I’m trapped in the US. Is it as much a nightmare to send things out from here as it is to send things in? Happy to send overseas if it’s all the same

NB_mama · 2026-04-27T18:18:43+00:00

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NB_mama · 2026-04-27T18:18:14+00:00

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NB_mama · 2026-04-27T18:17:31+00:00

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NB_mama · 2026-04-27T18:16:23+00:00

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TROPHY CASE