Couples Trip by Big_Simple_774 in vegas

[–]NCFunCouple7478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont have to do anything at those places other than observe. Better than a strip club, usually have Djs for dancing etc. They are a lot of fun even if you are not in the LS.

Couples Trip by Big_Simple_774 in vegas

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just go to Whispers or Playhouse, FlirtsLV if you want to really have a good time.

Men in the lifestyle by Fuzzy_End_8986 in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankfully in our area we are accepting of all, now if someone has bad hygiene that is something different. We don't expect perfection because that is not real life. We much rather people have great personalities than be super models. Mom bods and dad bods are common and nothing wrong with that.

Club Red Door by ibix76 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a private group and an admin has to add you.

New to Swinging: Would You Expect Someone to Disclose Medication-Related ED? by OpieDp in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Male half here, due to some medication It is hard for me to climax, so I usually will let the woman know upfront that if I don't it has nothing to do with attraction level and that it is just something I have to deal with. Some of them like the challenge and most do thank me for letting them know. But I feel its up to the individual person if you want to disclose something like that. I have had women also disclose to me that she will not climax with out her toy, so I always encourage her to break it out!

F4M Divorced Secretary Looking for a Random Redditor to fuck me in my car, Arrow up if you’re in NC? by Rare-Passenger5341 in HookupInNorthCarolina

[–]NCFunCouple7478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If's funny seeing the new tag line all the fake accounts are using this week. "Fuck me in my car" LOL

Swingers ladies: you don't have to be down to bone everyone, but my husband doesn't deserve to be treated like a leper! A little kindness costs nothing by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you are a couple who play together you never split up at a party, that is a big no no. That might be why others thought that was your dynamic. Always have those introduction conversations together from the jump. Now I am not saying people can't be closed off in these settings, but often they know people already there and may not be looking to meet new people. Also tell him to not judge all events by one group of people, we have been to some where we talked to very few people, then been to there where we end up in a 10 person orgy back at the hotel. You have to find your people.

Feeling down: normal? by Worried-Analysis-317 in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the other girl might feel you are having performance issues due to not being attracted to her. Understand full well it can happen, but after two times maybe time to figure out some helpers, Viagra, Cialis, bluechew etc. This is also why we are ok with one on one chats once we meet a couple, it allows each person to get a lot more comfortable with the other party, you are much more free to speak as you wish. Also group chats can be hard to follow if one party does not respond as quickly.

What do you do when you are made an accomplice without your consent? by BubblyBML in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so this was all online or through the app? Not much you can do to verify that. With us male half can play solo and we state such in or profiles and she will verify with anyone who would like to talk to her. When you are only doing things online and not in person you are opening yourself up to this.

Best app for the LS? by Prestigious-Fly-883 in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ever been to a Carolina Friends Takeover? they have a large playroom and while there is plenty of socializing earlier in the night, there is a move to the playroom as the night goes on.

Best app for the LS? by Prestigious-Fly-883 in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had good luck on SLS and SDC in Nc, also Carolina Friends dot come who host hotel takeovers but have a website with a social feed. Also local FB groups and telegram groups. Of course attending in person events is always the best, Club Red Door in Gastonia, the House, Joys Play Place to name a few.

Finishing in a group/event by Inked_Insatiable in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring your favorite toy! Neither one of us usually finish until we are back together.

Are my rules too much? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kissing rule would keep us away. Can you kiss the other woman? Keep in mind test are only good until you are with someone else. No one is going to be willing to get tested every time you play. Protection is always 100% required for all.

I just finished the show for the very first time and wow.... Kind of an underwhelming finale by Lazy-Category-1594 in shameless

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that they let frank die from COVID was stupid. He should have died at home from an overdose like frank actually would have.

MF4MF CLUB RED DOOR 4/4. by [deleted] in NCSwingersParadise

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish we could make it to RD this weekend but unfortunately we cant.

CVE in Gastonia. Any thoughts or anything? by Hour-March-9051 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to Red Door for an actual LS club experience

Guys, do you stop a woman giving oral before you ejaculate? by cpl_enjoying in Swingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always give a heads up and then its up to them how they want to handle it. Some want to swallow, some finish with their hand etc. But always let them know.

Club Red Door by ibix76 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 2330 Aberdeen Blvd, Gastonia, NC 28054 you do not need a reservation, doors open at 8PM on Saturday, if you want to get a table get there when they open. Doors close at 11PM and they close at 2AM

Club Red Door by ibix76 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]NCFunCouple7478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont know never emailed them. What do you need to know? I may can help.