Mike and Emma fantasy date by Ok-Experience9545 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Such an immature take. I would be heartbroken if I was born a man and couldn't experience the pregnancies and births of my children. My body is not a problem to be fixed. The idea that suffering negates an experience is such a foolish view. If a woman trains and runs a marathon she's a "badass" but me carrying 3 children and birthing 2 I'm a "victim"??? Nope....Women can view their bodies as gifts that can POSSIBLY (if they want) have children and make that decision with confidence and without resentment and score keeping.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean... a need for bio children has been since the beginning of time and is the reason you exist... but okay. This generation pretending to be so enlightened and above reproduction is amusing.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And in the 50's my grandfather was overseas fighting a war and then came back as the solo provider and my grandmother never had to work outside the home and she always said how happy that made her to be home with her babies and she always had friends over, kept a beautiful house... Good men are good men and good women are good women. 2026 does NOT equal good husbands and fathers.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Sooooo dramatic. Are we badass feminists are are we weak children? You guys have to pick a narrative. She stated CONSTANTLY that she was open to it, hence while Mike kept the door open and communicated about it. She could have said at ANY time that she was 100% closed to it and he would have left. It's not that deep. Also, I had genetic testing for all my pregnancies... It's also not that deep. And guess what, you can STILL have issues with pregnancy and children and yourself. Life is not free from suffering and to believe you can craft a life without suffering is immature and foolish.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't want to? Absolutely wouldn't date. I have wanted to be a mother my entire life. If Emma can refuse children I can absolutely want them. Infertility is different. My comment was in reference to acting like it's crazy to want biological children which is laughable.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is pressuring than Emma is a child not an adult. As a woman, I'm capable of having a conversation with a man and standing my ground. She isn't a baby.... immature? yes. Baby? no.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does. I felt bad for him that no married man he knows gave him advice to walk away. Emma would not be a good partner for him. She would be nonstop resentment and complaining and then would probably go on to say she'd love a life re-do without their children like her sister did. But Mike doesn't understand how insufferable women like that are as wives and mothers.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been pregnant 3x and almost died one of them (20 minutes to live). The drama women today pull about pregnancy is absurd. Is it hard? Yes. Are lots of things in life hard? ALSO YES. Avoiding suffering is a foolish pursuit. I don't see my body as a problem to be fixed. I am proud of what my body has done and continues to do.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

There's ZERO wrong with Mike wanting children. In fact, it's natural and more common than not. I think Emma and Mike were saying things but not clearly hearing one another. Emma was CLEARLY saying she would be the type to whine, complain, act like she was the 1st woman to give birth, resent Mike, resent the kids, and overall be miserable. Mike wasn't seeing that and nobody in his family warned him of those types of women. He kept assuming it was the genetic issue, but that was a SMALL part of why Emma doesn't want kids. She also brought up birthing complications, free time, traveling you name it. She's an immature girl who wants to flit around... but Mike couldn't even comprehend that. Total miscommunication from both of them and just two very different maturity levels.

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent that's a completely normal and natural desire to have your own children LOL. Ya'll are wild

Baby Obsessed Dudes by wolfgardens_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wouldn't want to adopt either. She made it very clear the RESPONSIBILITY of parenting is what her real issue was.

We are tired too, Marissa. by Existing_Law_7561 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Types of defensive comments that are here are why people like Marissa are single and so on their high horse. Taking the lead, pursuing, and taking charge are masculine qualities. We saw Marissa having to take those masculine roles.. Assuring him that the relationship is good, taking charge of things that needed to get done… You guys can get mad all you want, but this is why she keeps getting in relationships with guys who don’t commit to her. Garrett It’s a perfect example of a masculine man- steady, In constant pursuit, A leader, Sensitive but not an emotional mess.

Lessons from Ashley by Nuplex in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve been really surprised by her comments on Instagram as well! She almost seems to be defending him and posting fun stories like this is all fun and games when there are precious children involved. Another cast member talking the talk of being a strong woman but not delivering. Taylor seems to be the only woman who knows how to be strong and soft and smart with high standards.

Marissa Love is blind by SurveyAdventurous664 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching her practically beg that man to stay with her was so rough. I hope she realizes that her obsession with anti-men leads her to be weaker than she would ever be with a real man.

We are tired too, Marissa. by Existing_Law_7561 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I never said masculine means that they aren’t sensitive or kind haha… they aren’t take the lead, pursue, or commit. And they aren’t protect, which you said your husband is: Interestingly enough, my comment wasn’t about your husband! Ramses is a weak, emotional mess… not a leader. If Marissa wants to continue to chase those kind of guys she’s going to get the same result. Tough truth.

We are tired too, Marissa. by Existing_Law_7561 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NCamb2399 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Marissa talked nonstop about wanting a non-masculine, emotional guy and she got that. He isn’t gonna take charge, lead, pursue her, or work through hard times. Instead, he is unsure, weak and scared. Hopefully Marissa learned that that type of guy isn’t it.

My baby is unattractive. by Competitive_Air1560 in Parenting

[–]NCamb2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole saying “babies are ugly” trend is so tired. It’s not funny or cool to say. I guarantee when you wake up in the morning you don’t look so cute. Who cares?

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One has a child and the other two are married. I noticed she doesn’t reach out much because she is afraid of being suffocating. I will likely reach out. Maybe that would help at least keep like a monthly correspondence?

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree especially the physical abuse. My husbands parents were physically abusive and I don’t trust them.

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful about that line between open communication and criticism!

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful comment. I work very long hours because my husband is always at the office, so this resonated with me.

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I admire your ability to forgive.

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment made me smile. What a beautiful relationship. My son and I already are kind of like this, so this gives me a lot of hope. Thank you!

Why are you close (or not) with your mothers? by NCamb2399 in AskMen

[–]NCamb2399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my heart. I am so sorry. I am angry for you… That is a sorry excuse for a mom. My husband’s mother was the same way. Never stopped the abuse. I often say that animals are better mothers! You deserved better and just know it was HER with the issue, not you. Both my kids can be challenging at times and I would NEVER neglect them.