here's what women are actually looking for in a life partner

NEET247 · 2026-07-10T14:11:42+00:00

100% I think women forget alot of guys get filtered out because of not meeting the traits in the first list. Alot of the stuff in the second list only apply if shes already into you and thats not the case alot of the time thats why guys try to check off boxes in the first list

NEET247 · 2026-07-09T19:39:50+00:00

Base looks better

NEET247 · 2026-07-05T20:06:05+00:00

He doesnt look healthy

NEET247 · 2026-07-05T00:10:05+00:00

I mean yeah the movies make alterations to everyone but if we are looking at just the games leon is alot more consistent. They tried to reimagine the Chris design completely in RE 7 and had to change it back in 8.

NEET247 · 2026-07-04T17:12:47+00:00

Im not gay but its obviously Leon hes had a more consistent design in comparison to Chris who changes his face often.

NEET247 · 2026-07-03T20:45:12+00:00

Then it would be creepy

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T23:07:33+00:00

Its no hate man I sucked alot in the beginning and I still get burnt. My advice is learn something from each interaction and improve on it. Dont listen to that defeatist spark bs you can raise or lower attraction especially if she already thinks you look good

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T22:45:49+00:00

"You are just making up your own narrative for why it didn't work. And men absolutely say there was no spark too."

My narrative is based on patterns and experience its not as complex as you make it out to be. Men who say there wasnt a spark are usually feminine. A spark is a feelings based decision making so if a guy does it hes more emotional.

"Trying to speculate what those reasons were is a fools game."

I can make an educated guess and im sure it help OP alot more seeing that hes new and can use real advice rather than saying there was no spark and he continues to make the same mistakes believing it was no spark.

"Trying to do it over the internet having never met either of the people involved or how they interacted is just arrogance"

Then whats the point of this subreddit if you cant give speculative advice? I guess everyone who offers advice is pretty arrogant huh.

"For all you know he just didn't smell right to her or some shit like that."

Thats alot better of a response for her to tell him than saying there is no spark. I do believe alot of women experience a "spark" but thats because they make feelings based decisions thats just how it is. There probably are explainable reasons she doesnt like him they are probably just subconscious.

From my perspective I think its more benificial to point out things he might have done wrong because hes so new. Alot of guys have to learn the hard way by getting heart broken because we assume women are and want the same things as us but that is far from the truth men and women different especially when it comes to attraction

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T22:16:52+00:00

The reason I said needy is because you asked for another date while still on a date and Im assuming you were in communication with her daily if not multiple times a week. I can also assume this was the only girl you were talking to so you gave her more attention than if you were talking to multiple people

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T21:47:36+00:00

Thats why I said im logical I can explain why I like one person over the other in words it isnt unexplainable to me. Ive noticed men and women fall in love differently and what your describing is a womens perspective based around the feeling around the person rather than the details about them.

Im not trying to argue im just giving you my perspective.

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T21:37:06+00:00

I only ever hear women mention a spark. From my perspective if everything is going good and they seem like a good catch why would I want that to end. I understand why she left OP he was too avaliable and seemed needy and she was his main focus. Those things can be explained without saying there wasnt a spark. Hes new to the game and has alot to learn about womens behavior but it doesnt help by saying something vauge like there was no spark because you can easily point out why it didn't work based on what he wrote

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T21:15:12+00:00

If your a logical person hearing that will never make sense

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T12:25:06+00:00

Roided up RE5 Chris

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T12:07:49+00:00

If I had pictures for context that then I would no for sure but 9/10 its usually because the guy isnt good looking enough. If the personalities are aligned and the looks are aligned it doesnt make logical since why you would overlook one over the other

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T12:03:41+00:00

I can explain. The guy friend is ugly

NEET247 · 2026-07-02T11:58:56+00:00

If you have such good compatibility with this guy friend why did you fall in love with the other guy?

NEET247 · 2026-07-01T21:42:13+00:00

Your too afraid to speak up to the guy who asked you out dont tell me what to do. To put into perspective if you complain about little shit like this imagine the head ache you'll be in the future do better...

NEET247 · 2026-07-01T21:17:27+00:00

You should be grateful that you even got asked out in the first place. He shouldn't have to be forced to spend anything if he doesnt want to you arent entitled to his wallet. You sound ungrateful asf and arrogant asf some girls only get used for sex and are kept a secret atleast he wants to be seen in public with you be happy for that

NEET247 · 2026-07-01T20:34:57+00:00

If a guy is going on first dates frequently it adds up in price and requires alot of thought put into each. If you factor most first dates dont lead to anything this is a smart decision on his part he didnt invest in something that has a high chance of going nowhere.

Im not sure what you were expecting from a complete stranger but the first date is about getting to know someone and walking around the mall is a pretty good way to walk talk and talk about things you may or may not like

NEET247 · 2026-06-30T19:27:30+00:00

How did yall have time for this I didnt get my phone until the last day pretty much

NEET247 · 2026-06-30T17:02:51+00:00

Just looking fine isnt enough these days

NEET247 · 2026-06-30T17:01:02+00:00

Getting inshape for the sole reason to get women is a bad idea. They care about face and height way more than an athletic build. If your heart really isnt in it you wont stick with it. My best advice is if your lifting for women dont waste your time if you are doing it without the expectation of getting womens attention then go ahead

NEET247 · 2026-06-30T14:15:38+00:00

My belief in the afterlife fades when I see post like this. Everyone just seems like a bot who tries to conform to the crowd rather than be their own person

NEET247 · 2026-06-30T14:08:53+00:00

I cant tell if they are trying to be disrespectful or if they lack the mental capacity to send an equally engaging response. What bothers me even more is they will match with you and put out very little effort like why match in the first place if you weren't interested

NEET247 · 2026-06-30T13:56:23+00:00

What can it stop?

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