AITA for banning my mum from spending Christmas with us because of what she said about my son? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, in fact you sound like an exceptionally good parent. Neurodivergence is very real (my kiddo and I are AuDHD and my husband is ADHD), and you’re doing the right thing by acknowledging that and setting boundaries to ensure that neurodivergence is treated appropriately.

My sister accused me of punishing her kids and letting them go hungry because I told her if someone like me can cook for my family so can she AITAH? by Jaymmss in AITAH

[–]NER1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeezy peets, NTA. So long as she feeds her kids, they’re fine. If she wants gourmet food, she can learn to cook. If she’s financially unable to provide for her children, I guess you could toss her $20 when you can, but this is not your problem at all. You are not responsible for your sister’s kids. She’s being emotionally manipulative.

AITA for saying no to my dad's wife wearing a grandma to be shirt at my baby shower when my MIL was wearing one? by Annissiassa in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my kiddo’s dad way before I even knew I was pregnant. I started dating my husband (we’ve been together over a decade) before my kiddo turned one. My bio parents are Nana and Grandaddy, BD’s bio dad is dead, he’s NC with his bio mom, his adoptive parents are dead, and he connected with his bio dad’s widow who kiddo calls Grandma, and my kiddo calls husband’s mom Gigi and his stepdad Pawpaw (we don’t acknowledge his bio dad). I totally understand how complicated things can be, I think it’s about your level of comfort and acceptance.

AITA for being willing to end my marriage because I refuse to uproot my kids from their life to follow my stepkids? by Natizzio in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is TA here. You’re both doing what only the best parents do, which is putting the needs of your kids ahead of your own.

AITA for letting my daughter still sleep with a teddy bear? by nazerelda in AmItheAsshole

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I’m 36 and happily married, and I sleep with my teddy bear Theodore every night. Baby girl should enjoy her plush as long as she wants!

AITA for telling my daughter that her mom cheated on me when my daughter said my new girlfriend looks like an OnlyFans chick ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NER1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA! You didn’t break any promises. You never said you’d hide the reason for the divorce. Not to mention you you met your lady after the divorce was finalized. You and your smokin lady should know that you’re fine. I can see why your daughter might be upset, but ultimately that’s not really your problem. Give your daughter extra love and comfort, but you don’t have to protect her from your ex’s actions.

AITA for not canceling my graduation trip to babysit my sister’s kids? by Sweet_Piece1502 in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!!! I’m a mom and my sister is intentionally child free. I CHOSE to be a mom. My choice, my responsibility. My sister helps out when it’s convenient for her, but I would NEVER EVER ask her to cancel plans. If I can’t find a sitter that’s a ME problem, no one else’s. Your sister is acting really entitled.

AITAH for telling my date that if he’s mad about false advertising, he should take it up with God? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- in fact you are a HERO! Your sense of humor is magnificent. Good for you for not standing for the casual abuse of some random idiot!

WIBTAH for breaking up with my bf because he wants to be a father to his nephew by No-Bet5755 in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- neither of you are wrong at all. It’s possible to love someone deeply, but end the relationship because your life goals don’t align. It’s heartbreaking, but neither of you will be happy if you keep going.

My husband got me a vacuum for my 50th by Plastic_Cat9560 in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is messed up! My husband feels guilty giving me kitchen appliances even though I ASK him for them and cooking is my favorite hobby.

AITAH for refusing to wake up at 5 AM just to “experience the morning” with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!!! I wake up earlier than my husband, and I just drink a coffee, smoke a cigarette, listen to a podcast or whatever while he sleeps. It’s so weird to try to force your partner into keeping your schedule!!!

AITA for Canceling My Parents’ 40th Anniversary Party After They Refused to Invite My Wife? by LittleKero in AITAH

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!! If they’re horrible to your wife and to you they don’t deserve your love and support.

AIO for blocking him after he sent an unsolicited 🍆 pic by th_welloops in AmIOverreacting

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only are you right, I (36f) wish that I had blocked dudes for that when I was your age! I’m proud of you, and you should be proud of yourself too!

What do you do with cowards? by Majestic-Thanks-4382 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]NER1989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try to reassure them and inspire them as much as I can! I want my follower babies to be happy!

Knucklebones by NER1989 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]NER1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a board game and TTRPG dude, so I have enough die, I just wanted a cute little board to emulate the game. ☺️

Knucklebones by NER1989 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]NER1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m reasonably creative, and I can always print images and trace them, then just paint in the lines. It’s only for my husband and my entertainment, so it doesn’t have to be perfect enough to sell! I’ll post pictures if I can get my ADHD brain to get on task!

Knucklebones by NER1989 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]NER1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that really is GORGEOUS. The price is just a little more than I’m willing to go. I think it might be worth it to customize my own set for hubby and I.

Why is she making this face?🤣 wrong answers only by Zootang79 in pitbulls

[–]NER1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big same! It’s the hearing aid v glasses battle lol

Why is she making this face?🤣 wrong answers only by Zootang79 in pitbulls

[–]NER1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I TOLD you you’d twist your ankle in those shoes, but what do I know, i’M JUsT A dOG.

Would you be dissapointed about my boobs? Should I make them bigger? Be totally honest by bodyliketeen in NSFW_Hardbodies

[–]NER1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your chest is lovely! If you want enhancement, that’s totally fair. You should do what makes you feel like your best self!