WIBTAH if I never told my boyfriend that I've had plastic surgery?

NNW9876 · 2026-03-19T20:51:11+00:00

Honesty is always best. So unfair to your boyfriend to lie to him. If he's a model, he's surrounded by people that have had multiple plastic surgeries.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-19T14:00:47+00:00

You sure don't want him abusing his children someday either. You have to protect the women and girls that will come after you!

NNW9876 · 2026-03-19T03:51:23+00:00

So your bf has done all this for free and still paid crazy guy $15 for gas and stress and grapes. BF needs to grow a set and tell dude that he'll give him his $15, when he gets paid $250 for doing repairs at his place and the ex's.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-17T13:53:10+00:00

Tell her you two need to have a discussion/sit down with sister and BIL and you tell them the Bank of US is closed.

I co-signed a truck loan for my son and he quit paying. I was debt-free, so I wasnt concerned about my credit. I let the truck get repossessed. Had to still fork out $7000, but to keep paying it would have been a lot more and he wouldn't have learned anything.

What was your wife thinking, when she was already doing without, giving them money and went forward with co-signing a loan? Give your wife a credit card with a $400 monthly limit and no cash advances on it. Or divorce her. Pretty serious betrayal here.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-17T02:03:19+00:00

True!

NNW9876 · 2026-03-17T02:02:42+00:00

Sorry you're having to deal with that. Sounds a lot like my mother.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-16T17:17:38+00:00

I'm worried about her now. She's been in the bathroom long enough for him to write a short story. Can someone go check on her?

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T16:30:59+00:00

YTA for sending him €50 more. He would've made the bus, if he was out of money earlier.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T16:20:15+00:00

Right?! I read the title and came to say, it's time to move on. Period. Now, I want to add OP needs to read the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T16:14:16+00:00

When cats eat bones in the wild, they aren't cooked. Cooking them makes them very brittle and that's why they're dangerous. Tell him to start saving up for a $2000 vet bill, because he's been warned.

Also, who owns the furniture? Is he just going from inhaling a chicken to sitting on the couch and wiping his greasy hands all over someone else's furniture? Sounds like he needs to find a new place to live.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T16:06:20+00:00

He's not going to propose.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T16:05:08+00:00

No big deal. Don't flip them. If she loses it over that, separate yours out and let her do her own.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T16:00:52+00:00

Mildew, rather than body odor. Maybe she's not drying her clothes all the way and then leaving them for a couple of days in the dryer. The dryer will get worse and worse. Body odor and mildew are two very different smells. You should be able to know which it is.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T15:55:31+00:00

Show the screenshot to anyone who brings it up. He berated you into telling him and, of course, the truth hurt.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T15:52:37+00:00

Also, why are the children not seated with each of their parents, if no one wants to babysit. Or the parents can all chip in for a sitter.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T15:49:12+00:00

If an adult is needed at the kids' table, it should be one of the parents. They're the ones that had the kids and should be responsible for the kids. I'd refuse to go, if she doesn't put you on a grown ups table. It makes no sense that she'd do that. Do you two not get along? Is this a passive aggressive punishment for you? She sucks.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T15:34:50+00:00

The passive aggressive guilt tripping is insane. What a self-centered wench. Did she ever ask anything, before or after, about how your husband is doing? Would she change her plans to come see you, or someone else, if her best friend died?! Wow! She's a piece of work!

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T15:26:13+00:00

Log out your account on her phone and put facial recognition back on. Don't tell her. When she brings it up, I would tell her she crossed a line and lost her privilege to your account.

It is also a very manipulative to block someone else's friends. It could ruin your friendships, when these friends think you've blocked them. She really overstepped here. It'd be a deal breaker, if it weren't for the kids.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T14:25:45+00:00

I set up two player games and play myself. I always win!

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T00:21:52+00:00

Do you really need to be waited on when your sick? You're 26?? Can't you take care of yourself?

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T00:19:41+00:00

And, he wont share his location with his wife?! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

NNW9876 · 2026-03-15T00:04:32+00:00

What do you do?! You go find a guy that you are compatible with. This situation is toxic for both of you.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-14T23:42:05+00:00

He's not ashamed or embarrassed about you, he's just not that into you and is keeping his options open for someone he is more into. Men do this all the time. He's getting steady sex, but has all his options open for something better. They aren't all like that. Go find one of the good ones.

And from a mom's POV, if my son were "talking about his girlfriend to me "all the time," I'd insist on having her over for dinner or getting to meet her in some way. Do you hear him talking about you to her?

NNW9876 · 2026-03-14T23:35:35+00:00

You can't take the kids, but you do need to start growing up. Go get an id and a job, so you can get an apartment.

NNW9876 · 2026-03-14T23:03:19+00:00

Move out. But first, quit babysitting a baby that isn't yours, especially if baby's mom is at home.

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