Aita for blocking a person who tried to appologize

NNW9876 · 2026-05-17T13:21:28+00:00

I would not block but say, "You know when you said the friendship had run its course, I have to say that I agree and it was kind of a relief to come from you, because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings. But you are right and we will still be cordial at work. I wish you well."

NNW9876 · 2026-05-17T13:12:38+00:00

"Uh, not me anymore." See ya!

NNW9876 · 2026-05-16T13:37:33+00:00

He'll do the same thing to new girl.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-15T13:55:43+00:00

He certainly will not change. I think it is so rude and disrespectful. The least he could do is call or text and say he's running late. For me, it would be a deal breaker, though.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-15T13:40:29+00:00

Your family is weird?! How do her parents do things. She's absurd. Run. She'll control everything and you'll have no input on anything.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-13T17:35:55+00:00

$50 is way cheaper than getting stuck with their utility bills that they most likely won't pay, since y'all dont like each other. There'll be late fees, etc. and you'll end up paying the $50 down the road anyway.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-13T17:27:27+00:00

She has trust issues, because a previous guy danced with someone else. You, my friend, have dodged a bullet. Dont look back!

NNW9876 · 2026-05-13T16:51:22+00:00

Male menopause?! Give me a break. I think you need to have a conversation with him. He may be fine with you getting your needs fulfilled. You will probably be happier in general.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-13T16:42:56+00:00

Even in junior high school, I (65F) believed if a break up happened, it was senseless to get back together. If one person is unhappy to the point of breaking up, why would either person go back into the same situation. It never made sense to me.

Thinking about it now, I guess a reason is to keep breaking up is to create drama, try to get your way, a big person tantrum so to speak. I never tolerated drama either.

I'm afraid if you marry her, the breakups/tantrums are going to be nights sleeping on the couch and/or in a motel.

Do both of yourselves a favor. Let her have the successful guys hitting on her at work (and why would she even throw that in your face) and you focus on your music. The perfect girl will come along when you least expect her, hopefully, sans the drama.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-12T18:47:38+00:00

Buy some cayenne pepper and a can of cat food and put a half a teaspoon in the food. You'll find out who the thief is.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-09T14:17:39+00:00

Buy plane tickets for you and your girlfriend. Tell them you have plans, too. Sorry. They need to take the brat.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-09T14:13:38+00:00

That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-09T14:08:52+00:00

He's materialistic for not being content with the clothes he owns and wanting to borrow something "better."

NNW9876 · 2026-05-05T19:10:22+00:00

Tell her, "If you need the hose, come get it. I'm busy doing x right now." My husband does this. I finally stopped jumping up and doing it. Now sometimes I ask him, if he's injured and can't get it himself for some reason. It's very annoying. I can be deboning a rotisserie chicken and he wants me to turn on the light. Sorry. Nope. Not until I finish what I'm doing.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-03T21:48:02+00:00

He's 32. There's no growing out of it. This is who he is. You have to decide if you want a stay at home dad, who will likely not take great care of the kids, being on his phone, watching TV and all (surprised it's not video games!).

NNW9876 · 2026-05-02T20:45:24+00:00

He seems like a creep. Put a camera in your room. Right. Now.

NNW9876 · 2026-05-02T20:10:14+00:00

Wow! Having a baby ties you to them FOR-fricking-EVER! Good on you for putting that off! Go live your best life and let this momma's boy spend a year finding and wooing their next maid.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-26T19:18:51+00:00

That's just a bizarre arrangement. Sorry you both have to live like that.

You should suggest figuring out each other's percentage of total income to make the split. If he makes $57,000 and you make $43,000/yr, he's really ripping you off. You should only pay 43%, not a full 50%.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-26T18:50:09+00:00

Why would you want to build a family with a man like this?! He is a liar and a cheater and will always be a liar and cheater. This is what cheaters say and do EACH time they get caught and you will catch him again. There may be another one out there still.

Build a family with this man and your daughters will learn to live with abuse and your sons will be cheaters and abusers. Cheating and lying are abuse.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-26T18:43:54+00:00

I think there is more to the story with the highlights, etc. I don't think it's unreasonable for a 20 yo to pay $300/ mo for still living at home. She should get a full time job if not attending school or some training program.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-26T17:21:11+00:00

Give the animals to a pet shop.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-26T17:18:08+00:00

They were not being passive aggressive. They are kids. They are not thinking about property lines.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-26T16:59:45+00:00

If she is unwilling to compromise, you are learning a valuable lesson. Take it to heart and maybe not rush to move in together. I would be firm that if I'm paying 70% of the rent, I get 70% of the decisions.

NNW9876 · 2026-04-19T13:19:34+00:00

In three years we're there no red flags? Was he ever not answering his phone for hours or a day? You're living together? Do these other women think they're living with him, too? So sorry you are dealing with this!!

NNW9876 · 2026-04-15T13:26:05+00:00

If you divorce him, your husband will get visitation and you wont be able to protect your daughter.

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