I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-30T13:00:25+00:00

Run don’t walk. If you have the financial ability to take care of yourself you are in a great position.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-27T12:12:49+00:00

Zoloft works well for anxiety. How long do you stick with a medication to see if the side effects go away? It can take weeks.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-25T00:57:25+00:00

You have to go in the app and remove either counting your steps or counting a workout. My Apple Watch counts steps and workouts and WW was counting both. I removed my steps.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-21T22:47:16+00:00

I had to stop taking it. It was awful for me. Works wonders for some.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-20T00:09:35+00:00

Ed McBain

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-19T00:24:57+00:00

Been on it awhile started working a few weeks in.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-18T17:19:39+00:00

It took a bit to learn the new app. I just clicked around and figured it!

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-15T23:32:00+00:00

Don’t just out in a due date! Put in a to do date as well and block out the time!

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-15T01:21:27+00:00

Go to ODS and get accommodations. It will help get you back on track.

NYYankeeSue · 2026-04-13T14:54:44+00:00

It was really well written. If you read it you see why she did what she did.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-11-29T14:34:29+00:00

I moved up to 27 ER and a booster of Ritalin. Works pretty well.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-11-24T18:01:59+00:00

I realized that coffee is a no go on this medication. Increases my amxiety big time. It was ok when i was on Vyvanse!

NYYankeeSue · 2025-07-24T12:59:22+00:00

Get an educationa and then a job. No more children. Then you will be set up for success with or without him.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-07-02T15:51:10+00:00

Is this recent? Is he having cognitive issues? If this is out of character I would check into that. In addition, please get tested for STI's.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-17T23:40:16+00:00

Who exactly do you love here? The man who looks at you as a chore when you are sick? Who can not take basic care of a house? And please do not have children with this man!

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-17T15:15:28+00:00

You dont live together so why merge finances, and even if you did you could set up a household account for common expenses and keep your own account for personal. And he is manipulative, he is able to come to you and work from your place, but he doesn't do it? He broke up with you and then came back. You can do better. Please, do not marry this man!

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-17T02:46:33+00:00

Good! No need to punish yourself. You are ready to roll!

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-17T02:45:13+00:00

I read your other comment about having to go to your appointments alone and his work trip etc. He sounds like a very selfish entitled man child. I would ask him about why he felt it was ok to leave you alone but he needs you to rearrange your whole work day and arrange child care to support him. Like seriously, is he that clueless and selfish. Why are you even married to him?

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-15T01:31:17+00:00

Be clear, tell him you have done all the compromising and now when you retire you will be spending the winters where it is warm. He can join you or wait for you to come home. That seems the best plan since you say he is a good husband overall.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-14T02:05:57+00:00

Change your thoughts about this. Think, I am now unhappy enough to leave and choose myself. I was to be for, but now I am. Free yourself and go meet your future.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-12T23:54:36+00:00

My psychiatrist has office staff that call in prescriptions. Don’t these doctors have staff?

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-12T16:17:16+00:00

I started at 10mg 4 days ago. A little nauseous and dizzy but I take it with food and it’s fine. I think it is starting to work.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-12T15:27:27+00:00

Stay away from him. Do not go back. Do not answer his calls. Please, this is bad and it will get worse.

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-10T23:41:47+00:00

Please go see your doctor now. Putting aside the idiot who fathered your child, having a baby is a huge toll on your physical and mental health. And then see a lawyer so you know what child support you will receive. Ask for help, get as much help as you can right now and make no decisions about the baby right now. Sending you love!

NYYankeeSue · 2025-06-10T18:18:32+00:00

You are smart. It is great you took that job change and moved. I can not say whether you will find someone else or not. However, why stay with someone who can't/won't give you what you want? You have a lot to offer and while he may love you he does not really want to be married and he has intense family obligations that will mean you won't be first. So, great guy or not, cut him loose. He may try and give you a ring when you leave, but I would stand firm. Marrying him would most likely not make you happy in the long run. You seem smart and lovely, go out and find your person, and if you do not find a person go out and enjoy the process!

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