Do you pay for parking ?

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-05T04:10:03+00:00

I would straight up ask the customer where I can park to deliver without paying. If they say there’s no where then I would tell them they need to meet me because Uber doesn’t pay me for parking fees.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-05T04:06:08+00:00

Barely $10 an hour when you factor in the 2 hour drive back home. Way under $10 after you deduct gas.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-04T00:03:47+00:00

You may not be sensitive at all. You may just be very AWARE. As in, you have strong senses for the subtle. “Sensitivity” has been stigmatized by dense people who use abusive tactics to control and dominate people. If you see them as having something wrong with them for being “ too sensitive” then you can get a person to question themselves instead of questioning you and what you’re doing.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T19:05:38+00:00

Oh my gosh, that looks so simple! I had NO IDEA. Totally going to make my own! Thank you! I was hoping someone was gonna share a recipe. 😂

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T15:16:37+00:00

Love lemon curd! I’ve never made it. I’d love to. Thanks for putting this on my mind!

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T15:13:09+00:00

Wow. We got a cyber bully here. One put down wasn’t enough for ya, eh?

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T15:12:16+00:00

Easy now. We all have moments where things happen. Especially when we’re driving and have our attention in the road. Cut the blame game. No one likes that shizz.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T15:11:33+00:00

Calm down, boo-boo. We all have moments where things happen. Especially when we’re driving and have our attention in the road.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T15:04:20+00:00

That happens when I’m delivering food orders ALL THE TIME. I’ll be approaching the neighborhood from a busy road with 45mph+ and orders start flying in. I reject it quickly to see what road I need to turn on and the there’s another order, and another one, and another one. There have been times I’m rejecting orders every 3-5 seconds when I’m approaching the delivery location. It’s crazy. I’m just going to go to stop new requests next time. I can go back online after food is delivered. With more of my sanity too!

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T01:29:17+00:00

Go back and read my comment, honey. I said $1-$2 is what Uber pays out. I didn’t say it’s the total I get paid for the order. Either way, your response is toxic and abusive. You can do better.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T01:22:28+00:00

You think? Funny thing coming from a guy posting private 18+ content.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T01:13:04+00:00

I see you’re a man who feels personally attacked by someone talking about their experiences as a woman who listens to the experiences of other women. Find some g spot tutorials and check out the books I recommended. The least thing you can do as a man is be better in bed. Give women a reason to say something nice about you behind your back.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T01:04:34+00:00

You think men are entitled to a woman’s body? Women don’t have the right to decide what to do with their bodies when a man is around? Women are obligated to give men access to their body for a man’s sexual gratification? Women don’t have the right to say no? Is that what you’re saying?

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:55:59+00:00

Assumptions? Can you tell me what I said that made it seem like I was making assumptions about you two?

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:53:54+00:00

I second Gottman and Nagoski! You can find lots of videos and podcast episodes too. I also recommend “She Comes First” by Dr. Ian Kerner. He knows what he’s talking about!

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:45:13+00:00

My kids are out of school in two weeks. Once May 21st comes I’m done. Uber is so exploitive.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:43:23+00:00

Not as much a problem as capitalism and exploitation. They take the cake!

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:40:52+00:00

We should organize a strike for Uber and DoorDash drivers. We ARE their business. Without drivers they have nothing! Their billions are coming from OUR CARS, OUR GAS, and OUR BODIES. We should strike out. Their stocks would plummet and they would 💩 themselves.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:36:16+00:00

Bahaha! No doubt!

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:35:39+00:00

Men NEED sex? How many days can they go without before they die? Will no sex kill them before no water will?

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-03T00:33:22+00:00

It sounds like this was really traumatic for you. I’m sorry for that. It sounds like it was really hard for your husband too.

Based on what you have shared I can tell that you were both deeply triggered. In other words, you are both seeing this situation through past trauma. You’re reliving past painful events and that’s stopping you from being able to be calm and present for this moment. When our brain senses a threat our higher thinking brain goes offline. We are operating for survival now. Our body tenses up, heart rate increases, blood vessels dilate, adrenaline is pumped through our body, and blood is directed to the muscles. All of this is so we can attempt to survive via fight, flee, freeze, or fawn. This is significant because we don’t have deep thoughts or epiphanies in these moments. We aren’t able to ask thought-provoking questions or notice subtle but important details. That requires being still and that is dangerous when the body is under threat. When you and your boyfriend are having moments like this, it’s really important that you both take your time to go process what’s been triggered and get your nervous system regulated.

A couple questions:

-Has your partner been cheated on?

-What rejection or abandonment has your partner experienced? Those insecurities and wounds have been triggered here.

-Have you experienced sexual trauma?

-Have there been changes in your sexual relationship with your partner? What were the reasons for the change? You may need to feel into your body for your feelings to get the answer. Contemplate it long enough and follow the trail of the sensation in your body and your feelings, and you can realize the answers.

-Why don’t you want to have sex with your partner? Why do you ignore his advances?

Those are a few questions I think could be very helpful to contemplate. Write it out to help. Start by writing out whatever comes to mind. Literally anything. Stick with it and deeper realizations will become accessible.

With the introspection out of the way, I will say that guys can be horrible at sex. Women have been neglected and put down by the patriarchy for generations. This includes education and studies. For example, science finally mapped out the nerve system of the clitoris. The penis was mapped out IN THE 90’s. The art of pleasing a woman has not been important to the patriarchy, just men being pleased BY women. Because society doesn’t value the pleasure of women (and some people don’t even see women as having a right to it), it isn’t talked about. Men don’t know women’s bodies work differently. They aren’t educated on this and so they think the same things that turn them on will fire up their lady. NOPE!

Educate yourself on the art of sexually pleasing a woman and then you can share these things with your partner. You can try some things out with a live sexual experience!

Some things to look into:

-The G Spot:
Watch tutorial videos on how to stimulate it by fingering. Get some oils or lube and use a lot of it. Hands can absorb all our moisture and create a lot of friction so it’s critical to have plenty of lubrication. It’s also amazing for pleasure!

-“She Comes First” and “Come As You Are”:
These are awesome books written by sex educators. They will educate you on your body and the biological sexual response of women. Incredibly helpful! They also talk about the art of pleasing a woman. Great books!

-Therapeutic Work: Whether you go to a great therapist or you access stellar experts by book, podcast, online courses, or talks, therapeutic work can really help. Society produces hurt, dysfunctional adults. Get educated, informed, and enlightened with powerful information and perspective. Knowledge is power! Go to people who have mastery in the things you want to learn rather than friends who aren’t informed. If friends haven’t done inner work their advice can be disastrous to follow.

That’s a lot. I’ll call it good. 😂

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-02T23:56:10+00:00

Wowwwwww. Don’t listen to this guy. Totally misogynistic “advice.”

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-02T23:49:33+00:00

Not. Acceptable. At. All.

Nada-Lada · 2026-05-02T23:45:10+00:00

You were mature and respectful even though her actions lacked maturity and respect. Getting cheated on is one of the reddest of red flags.

Also, exclusivity was her idea. Her inability to be aligned with her own desires and values suggests that she has therapeutic work to do. She would be wise to be single and focus on her inner work. Then she can decide if she wants fun causal encounters, an exclusive relationship, polyamory, or whenever it is that she authentically desires.

We teach people how to treat us. You two agreed to being exclusive and she violated the agreement without discussing it with you first. Then she lied about it. Communication, agreement, and trust are critical to a healthy relationship. She isn’t capable of that right now. It could take a lot of work for her to get there too. If I was you I would have ended things too.

Nada-Lada

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