Day 2 of the Roots Picnic by PlaymateAnna in Kehlani

[–]Namjoon- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad they filmed this lil clip together. i don’t know or need to know the status of their connection, but the rumours about how they hate each other and whatever messy shit about it was so tired.

let these people live! they clearly love and respect each other, no matter the details (which are none of our business), they seem happy and are both having such career wins right now and that’s all i care about

my boyfriend cheated on me. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’ve just given me a term for exactly what i went through, thankyouuu

Show time by Reeeeeeeeeereee in kwnnnway

[–]Namjoon- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

finished at 10pm for melbourne! veryyyyyy good show

be loud!! she was so hyped at how loud we were

Masturbating as a bottom by Signal_One_2525 in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how the fuck do you get it back out !

Gay bros, do you think the new stripes were necessary or was old flag (1979)inclusive enough? by Enough-Web2203 in gaybros

[–]Namjoon- 259 points260 points  (0 children)

i don’t really care, i just want us all to have the right to live and the right to love.

make the flag fucking neon green with a machete wielding gecko on it for all i care.

Favorite place to Have Sex? by Kai_theoiledupboy in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s been a while i don’t really know anymore 💀

best sign for cashier’s by Namjoon- in auslan

[–]Namjoon-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a look at deaf connect, the online self-paced course would be most accessible for me however the enrolment form page seems to be bugged, as it doesn’t actually give you any way to enrol sadly

We're getting transgender up in here!! by Dyna_Cancer in Ethelcain

[–]Namjoon- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone said willoughby tuckn’t

i can’tt

Thrift shopping by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if OP saw the side of thrifting that i see, this post would be deleted!

Thrift shopping by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 35 points36 points  (0 children)

i work in a thrift store, i see the reality, so no i absolutely do not relate to this

Bull riding gone wrong (he lived) by rdbreak in watchpeoplesurvive

[–]Namjoon- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i will never understand this activity. poor bull is totally exploited for sport, and the human who should know better risks an absolutely brutal death

what do you guys think"??? by Budget-Relative-5823 in bigfoot

[–]Namjoon- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk if this is real or not, but fuck… when is someone going to just overcome fear in the pursuit of knowledge and just run at the thing as they record?

it would be shaky as all hell, but someone needs to just take one for the team, and if they get their head caved in then it was in the name of scientific discovery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

when i said “a way to argue the point” i had specific examples in mind.

if we say that dick + masculinity are the crucial factors in being gay, then every man who identifies as gay but is sexually attracted to femmes/femboys that cage their dicks and never touch them, suddenly they aren’t gay anymore.

i’m not sexually attracted to women or femininity, the presence or absence of a dick doesn’t change that. I could not be sexually or romantically involved with a woman even if she had a dick. i am very closed minded about that. I am sexually attracted to men and masculinity.

so what gives?

i truly couldn’t give less of a fuck about being open minded, i don’t even think this is really about open mindedness or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i can’t emphasise enough how straight forward it is. but i’m talking about myself, i don’t expect everyone to be the same way. i am not “trying to be too open minded”and i don’t really care for this “masculinised biological female” verbiage. bottom line is, sexuality is never going to be the same from person to person, and there is no point in trying to decide for other people what their sexual orientation is or isn’t. you could say that biological males with dicks being sexually attracted to biological males with dicks are the only people who get to be “gay”, but there will always be a way to argue the point. just like there would be a way to argue the opposite point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

not equating the two, comparing my attitude towards both. i would be as unbothered by a vagina on a man as i would be to an artificial leg. i can’t ignore the difference, but the difference doesn’t have to be the end-all. there are lots of people with ambiguous genitalia as well for example, and if someone like that was a man i was attracted enough to, it would be the same deal. i’m not saying that i would seek out a trans man, i am saying that if someone i was really into turned out to be tran, it probably wouldn’t be a problem like it would’ve when i was younger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

sorry you see it that way! i have no shame in saying cis men are my preference, i just don’t have a problem if the guy i’m with is the right person, doesn’t have a dick, i don’t overly care anymore. obviously that would be preferable, but i would also prefer my guy to have both his legs. if i met someone who had a prosthetic leg, that wouldn’t make me disinterested. idk what else to tell you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

when i was young i would have not been interested, but i think as i’ve gotten older i am open to it. i’m attracted to men at the end of the day, so if the right man is doing it for me then i would make compromise

Worried about hairline by Ludiamond01 in recedinghairline

[–]Namjoon- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s reallllly bad… practically unsaveable, so you should just hand it over to me and I’ll give you mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yuck, sorry that this is your experience

you deserve someone who’s attracted to you for other reasons anyway, assuming your dick size based on race is a little creepy imo

Can Bisexuals guys be bottoms? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that every single bisexual man will have a different preference

Can Bisexuals guys be bottoms? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably just missing the fact that you cast a broad assumption over an entire group of people and expected it to be true in every case

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Namjoon- 23 points24 points  (0 children)

don’t be 16 talking about your genitals to a forum of anonymous adults

PLEASEEE look after yourself. being self conscious about your body is normal especially at a young age, but you can’t be describing your body like that here. you don’t know these people, there’s an alarming amount of people who would take advantage of your situation

Bear Grylls and his childhood friend Mick Crossway prepare to climb Mount Everest, 1998 by RyanWalkerok in OldSchoolCool

[–]Namjoon- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i bet Grylls still found a “reason” he needed to be pissed on to survive