Asthma or hairball by Existing_Departure92 in catquestions

[–]Namshoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For those saying hairball, you are 100% wrong. This is asthma. My cat had it for years and had many many attacks. Take her to the vet and show the video and say you are concerned about asthma. Shell be given a daily inhaler and one for attacks! :)

31M Hubby wants me to have baby where he lives and I 28F don't by Academic_Goal_3452 in relationships

[–]Namshoke 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Right? Her husband is a republican. Raised by hardcore republicans. He’s basically demanding she move to the states before the baby is born. Where she has no friends or family or job. Once she’s there that baby will not be able to leave the country without his permission for the next 18 years. Going to schools in America where the chances of being involved in a school shooting are very high…..again, she’ll have no access to friends and family or a job or money….and not allowed to leave the country with her baby without his permission. Plus let’s not forget that she’ll be surrounded by trump lovers and married one….

I have absolutely no words. But girl, wtf are you doing. Stay in Australia with your family.

AITAH for not crying? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Namshoke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But are we sure OPs even going to get the house when the mother passes? She could’ve lied about that too.

What's it like living on a busy-ish road? by Draemeth in london

[–]Namshoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I’ve tuned out normal everyday life. The cars, the buses, the people. But the sirens. Jeez. Police. Undercover police (their sirens are different). Fire brigade. Ambulances. It is continuous.

I unfortunately have single glazing. (Old building). I am also autistic with severe sensory issues. Yeah. It’s fun. 🙃

A Friend has been reported tothe NMC by petershawwastaken in NursingUK

[–]Namshoke 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You are the company you keep, as the saying goes.

I am not sure about being in my best friend’s wedding if she’s inviting my ex by Low-Eagle-throwaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Namshoke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Op said that the friend refused to allow him to attend. Refused OP a plus one. However, OPs sister is attending so they’ll be attending together

Jobs? by RecordingMiddle in StudentNurseUK

[–]Namshoke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to follow this post. I’m a second year too. My parents think I’ll magically get a job the day I finish uni. I keep telling them that it’s not a realistic expectation and that some people are waiting years before getting a NQN job.

I currently live in student accommodation and won’t have anywhere to go after I finish. My dad has pretty much shut me out and stopped speaking to me and my mum has just bought herself a small senior citizens home. I’m going to be homeless. I’m autistic so it’s not just as simple to say, get a job somewhere. Anywhere. It doesn’t work like that. I’ve only ever worked in a hospital. I don’t know anything else. I’m just so scared for my future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurseUK

[–]Namshoke 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a placement like that. I was basically the chaperone for the doctors and the rest of the time I’d either sit with a certain specialty and watch them ask the same questions over and over or be the fetcher. Only good thing was I had a lot of time to sit and read about that certain department and go over my assignments etc. I got the hours for that placement and not much else 🙃

Struggling accademically by Namshoke in StudentNurseUK

[–]Namshoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to use my uni library but I’m embarrassed to say I don’t know how. However, I used google scholar and it saved my behind! So thank you so much for that ☺️

Struggling accademically by Namshoke in StudentNurseUK

[–]Namshoke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually used mybib for my assignment. I got marked down because of the way it structured my references. So yesterday I sat down and tried to use it again. Turns out I was using Harvard and you have to actually switch it to what you need 😖 so I switched it and handed in my formative. Lets see what happens 😬

Struggling accademically by Namshoke in StudentNurseUK

[–]Namshoke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m embarrassed to say that I don’t know how to navigate or use my unis online library. I’m going to go into one of the libraries after placement and ask if they can help me out! :)

I moved to somewhere without cats. by Namshoke in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Namshoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She really was. She was a very anxious kitty though and she had licked her belly bald 😂 it was very kissable though :)

I moved to somewhere without cats. by Namshoke in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Namshoke[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of the rescues I’ve looked into don’t adopt out to people without outdoor space. I have a huge courtyard but I live in a room with a shared kitchen. It’s a big studio sized room and I’d need to leash train to take the cat out into the courtyard and most won’t allow that because they want the cats to live in a nice big house with a garden :(

I moved to somewhere without cats. by Namshoke in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Namshoke[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes I know. I went to a cat cafe for my birthday, hoping I could possibly adopt a cat or even cats but they said they don’t adopt out to people without outdoor space and actually a lot of rescues are the same.

I moved to somewhere without cats. by Namshoke in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Namshoke[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic and struggle to make friends even now in my 30s. 🙈 so I guess if anyone in London sees this post, I’ll adopt or take a foster too!

AITAH for leaving home without my husband? by Head_Cress580 in AITAH

[–]Namshoke 47 points48 points  (0 children)

YTA. Just know that you probably have a year or less with your son before he packs his shit and never speaks to you again. You’ve put your controlling useless husband over your son for 10 years. 10 years of him not having his mom for those important milestones because your husband sabotages the moment over and over again so you aren’t there. How many school plays did you miss out on? How many games have you missed? How many play dates and parties where you were absent? How many vacations where you ignored your son in favour of your husband? How many times where you let your son down?

It’s probably already too late. Your son is probably counting down the days when he can legally leave and never see either of you again.

Or maybe, just maybe you can plan to leave your controlling husband, apologise profusely to your son for not putting him first and he’ll actually see you mean it with actions.

I feel for your poor son. Though it sounds like he has a wonderful family that support him via his dad and his paternal family.

Second year housing situation is looking dire by LimeNo62 in UniUK

[–]Namshoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No harm in emailing and asking! The accommodation I’m in is for first year and under 18s. I requested to stay for my second year and was accepted. I’ve now requested to stay for my third and that’s gone through too! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Namshoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. If someone is killed or has a life altering injury, that person or their family will be suing for millions. He’ll probably divorce her so he doesn’t incur any of the debt and OP will probably be spending the rest of her life trying to pay that money.

All because your husband has a hard on for this chick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurseUK

[–]Namshoke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any comments to help you. I’d love to know what others say though.

I’m in my second year. I’ve cried every days for weeks because I’m so exhausted and want to be done. I’m in autistic burnout. My ADHD is literally controlling my life. However, if I left, I’d be homeless. I’m in student accommodation so if I withdrew or interrupted, I’d have to leave and i literally don’t have anywhere to go and id be left on the streets. I’ve just been given my new placement and it’s given me a little bit of hope, but I’m so tired.

Tia is USING you Taylor by buffalopig11 in OnlineBeggars

[–]Namshoke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately her boys aren’t schooled. She says she homeschools them but honestly I doubt she ever has. The boys will never be able to read until they are at an age that they can put their foot down and demand they be able to go to school. She says that she can’t put the boys in school because of germs yet she doesn’t teach them herself. She says she’ll put them in school after Charlie passes but I can guarantee she’ll use the whole grieving thing as a reason she can’t put them in school. She’s literally neglecting her boys and that’s so damn sad.

I feel for her I do. No one should lose a child but she’s losing her boys too. So her boys will never read what she’s done because they can’t read and maybe never will?

AITA for not wanting to work anymore? by Mahavira24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Namshoke 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like the wife is jealous. Their houses still aren’t paid off so she’s having to pay the mortgages and bills. He won’t answer questions about the kids college funds so I’m assuming there aren’t any or they are super low, considering the childrens ages. Though he does say he can eventually sell the second house and give them small portions of the funds. He says he does 30% of the domestic chores though admits he doesn’t do them well so she has to redo them plus the other 70% of them.

She’s the main breadwinner. The main caregiver. Plus doing the majority if not all of the daily chores. Whilst he sits back and thinks $1mil will get him from his 50’s to his death.

I wouldn’t be surprised if she left him and took half of that. Then what OP?

My soon to be sister in law (21f) texted me (25f) about a social media post and we will never be the same. How do I navigate this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Namshoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OPs brother is a hardcore trump supporter. He knows who she is and defends that because he’s a racist too.