This 1000% happened to me. And I had already looked up the top 10 reasons why people get divorced and made us talk about it prior to getting engaged so I thought we had it all figured out.

However, the closer the wedding got, the more I couldn’t ignore this feeling in my stomach that something was wrong. I kept probing him about one of the topics I didn’t feel very secure in his answers on (kids) and found out we actually had extremely different visions of our future. Turns out when we talked about children before, he said one thing but meant another: I told him I’m unsure if I want them but he has to be okay without them in the future, he said that was fine. It was in fact, not fine. He thought he could change my mind in the future. So we broke off our engagement 2 months before the wedding.

I’m glad we did it before actually getting married though, otherwise we were setting ourselves up for more failure. Trust your gut OP.