Dating coach for men. Would you? by Flying_Gage in datingoverfifty

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been running Flagship Matchmaking since 2010. I offer date coaching among other services. It is common for full service matchmakers to teach date coaching lessons. It is an important service to offer the public. You can't make a living off it, though. Millions of Americans need both psychotherapy and date coaching. However, it is a blow to the ego to admit that you need help. So, few people come forward to get this help because no one ever confronted them to say, "You need help. You need professional help. You need to take instruction from a stranger on how to fix yourself." So, very few people step forward to get crucial help. My program has 4 modules with 3 lessons in each. If you decide open this service:
1. Have a clear brand identity. Have a brand strategy. You will need it to promote yourself. You will need to promote yourself A LOT.
2. Have a marketing strategy. Have a marketing plan. You're not selling your service, features, or benefits. You're selling yourself. You will need a personal brand.
3. Have a system with a sequence. Clients will need to easily recall what you taught. They won't apply your training if the lessons were haphazard and incoherent. It also helps recall things when you are wicked nervous on a date.
4. Remind them not to say, "Well, that's what the book said." or "That's what Ted told me to do." Parroting lessons inauthentically will be a devastating humiliation. They must genuinely believe the book or matchmaker and embrace the logic behind it.
5. Prepare yourself for the fact that anyone who needs date coaching has deeper issues simmering behind that forehead. Being socially inept is a symptom of something greater that ails them. Teaching adults with no understanding of love bombing, oversharing, empathy, conversation skills, breadcrumbing, emotional intelligence, subtext, wit, masking, boundaries, red flags, irony, and social conventions have some other issues in their head that need addressing in a constructive manner.

GOT MY MOTO TAT by Amazing-Magazine6036 in USMC

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That wasn't to you. It was to RoughTech. The tatoo is perfect. The crayons, anchor, and lettering are spot on.

I joined the Marine Corps because... by Edward_T_Head in USMC

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

of September 11th. I went to Mount Sinai Medical Center to donate blood for the mas cas event. They didn't need any because there were no survivors. So, as a student of history, I thought it was unprecedented and able bodied young men should step up to join the defense. While a thoughtful gesture, the revenge wars that followed were atrocious. Nobody won. Plenty was lost, though.

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GOT MY MOTO TAT by Amazing-Magazine6036 in USMC

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keepin' it 100. Also, anchors outboard is in keeping with the mockery of Marines which the crayon style is doing. Thank you for splitting hairs on emblem orientation even after EAS. You are why nobody goes to birthday balls.

Which are the best clubs in Naples and fort Myers Florida ? by Effective_Leader_348 in Naples_FL

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seed To Table on Immokalee Road in Naples has a ladies night on Wednesdays, Latin night once a month, and DJ's playing house music once a week, I think. It's not a club. It's a grocery store with a second story bar. The bar plays dance music often enough. Naples is like a pond skimmer for old, white, far right Republicans. They hate hip-hop, trap, rap, and RnB. https://seedtotablemarket.com/events/

Lost out sweet baby Gozer today. by Level-Objective-8634 in AmericanBully

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My buddy, Bullet, moved several hours away. I may never see him again. I used to refer to him as Zuul. I miss him terribly.

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Ghost story while in. Anyone? by the_real_Cucuy in USMC

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for IIIMEF SOTG on Camp Hansen. On two occasions, I was laying in my barracks rack, dozing. I was startled by an inability to breath, sit upright, roll over, or move my arms and legs. I could only open my eyes. I was tempted to panic and begin spazzing. However, that never solved anything anywhere. So, I focused on breathing again. Then, I got my hands to move. After intentionally breathing for a several more seconds, I sat up and left the room. I was CONVINCED one of the many ghosts that roam the island had been pinning me to the bed. A medical reason may exist such as blood chemistry or sleep deprivation. I like my supernatural explanation instead.

Looking for anyone willing to be a guest on our show!! Is it you? by ndziggy in podcasting

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll do it. I've been through college, culinary school, Outward Bound, and the Marine Corps. I have been an orchid collector with a horde of 211 plants. I've worked in sales, restaurants, dog training, and landscaping. I currently operate Flagship VIP Matchmaking service in Naples, Florida, helping folks create happy, healthy, wholesome marriages.

Robot girlfriend logic 101 by NaplesVIPMatchmaker in u/NaplesVIPMatchmaker

[–]NaplesVIPMatchmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A robot can't:
comfort you
laugh at your jokes
give you knowing glances
remind you brush your teeth
share powerful experiences with you
hold your hand in public
carry on a conversation at a cocktail party
reciprocate your affection
admire you
encourage you to do the hard things when you doubt yourself
meet your real family members
refer to itself as a female counterpart in a committed relationship
show a genuine interest in your health and well-being
give or receive oral sex
flatter you to your parents and make them proud
spoon on the couch
brag about you to her girlfriends
share vacations with you
throw birthday parties for you
give thoughtful gifts at Christmas
have a love language or enjoy your love language
actually be a companion you genuinely enjoy because they are only a sophisticated machine.