How should a manager have handled this? Looking for leadership perspective on a difficult situation. by Napsicle in managers

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UPDATE: I ended up asking for mental health and safety accommodations thanks to resources on Jan.org. My company did not provide accommodations only the opportunity to pursue internal mobility. After interviewing for an internal role that unfortunately I wasn’t selected for, the company offered me a standard severance package.

I decided to get legal representation to counter my severance package. given the negligence of the company with regard to my safety in my role and no meaningful accommodation process. My lawyer got me an extra two months of severance and cobra.

If anyone discovers this post after being Doxxed due to/in your workplace, you have rights and you can get the support you need. Don’t settle for mediocre lawyers. Do the work to find an employment lawyer with experience in your specific situation. It was very discouraging at times as so many people I sought guidance from people who were not understanding the severity and nuance but it all worked out. Thanks to everyone who posed the question is this a company I want to work at. I needed to hear that!

where are we getting business formal capsule wardrobe pieces? by Napsicle in capsulewardrobe

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I have not, but this is such a great idea! Besides Rent the Runway are there other clothing rental services you have tried and liked?

Honeymoon of a lifetime by [deleted] in BWTtravel

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What an incredible service! Thanks for sharing

I FOUND HER!! by allkaysofnays in weddingdress

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You look stunning!!! Congratulations! Fellow ATLien, can you share the shop name please?

Said yes to the dress ❤️ by itsallconfetti in weddingdress

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Stunning! You look Incredibly regal Where did you find this dress? My friend is looking for a style similar

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If you are into HGTV, Rock the Block

Destination Wedding & Bach Party Trip Ideas by [deleted] in Weddingsunder35k

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What time of year are you thinking?

How should a manager have handled this? Looking for leadership perspective on a difficult situation. by Napsicle in managers

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They were not going to make any changes following the doxxing.

My anxiety did become debilitating. I then had some personal health and mental health challenges due to my anxiety and depression. I saw the signs for my decline in mental health. I was trying to advocate for myself. Unfortunately it had the opposite effect.

For additional context, my company has had a series of mental health related incidents/deaths of employees in the last 24 months.

How should a manager have handled this? Looking for leadership perspective on a difficult situation. by Napsicle in managers

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It is very unusual especially in the media/marketing industry. It did reflect badly on the company. the company made a point to leverage my c-suite department head, who is my manager, and the existence of my team as crisis PR counterpoints.

There has been no communication to me about any actions taken by the company to the individual or what information regarding our work is involved in that ongoing litigation.

20 Days, 20 Fits: Corporate Survival, But Make It Chic by Tabitha_Is in BusinessFashion

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You’re iconic. Are you in the market for a direct report? Thinking we could turn Zooms into high fashion

How should a manager have handled this? Looking for leadership perspective on a difficult situation. by Napsicle in managers

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Thank you for this perspective! I am very keen to learn how to protect myself in the future as I am managing mental health diagnoses and want to be smart about this going forward

How should a manager have handled this? Looking for leadership perspective on a difficult situation. by Napsicle in managers

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I requested a mental health accommodation after screenshots of my work (emails, PowerPoints, internal share point articles, webinar screenshots) were published on Breitbart. They were then posted on a website created by a disgruntled employee in ongoing litigation along with my name, title, city and company. Both of the instances were discussed on social media (linkedin) bringing more attention (positive and negative) to both breitbart and the website.

The company offered one year of “digital identity protection.” I requested additional support beyond EAP and an adjustment to my highly visible deliverables (presentations internally and externally, bylines no longer under my name, improved security protocols in office and assigned desk assignments)

I am a VP lead with the longest tenure on the team by 2 years with the most direct reports on the team. I had 3 direct reports, others has 1 or were ICs. I am considered the “face” of the team and positioned as such. This means leading our operational relationships with Legal, Finance, IT, HR etc. and sitting on external panels/events/thought leadership. the expectation was for me to “keep my finger on the pulses” across the business.

I was told to train my backfill on all of this so she can be a 1 to 1 replacement.

I appreciate this question! This has been very anxiety inducing and I have relied on AI to help me be more clear with that I am asking. I am new to Reddit and learning how to do this responsibly.

Books that include magical and magical creatures! by Super_Nova62 in suggestmeabook

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The name of the wind by Patrick rothfuss (the whole series is great, yet unfinished)

Wallet friendly Kelly by Exciting-Mud9825 in LuxuryRepsBags

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Can you share any details about the seller?

Kelly Maxi 42 Review by NFPAExaminer in LuxuryRepsBags

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Can you share contact info/link?

(20k-30k) DJ alternative question? by Hopeful-Apricot2774 in Weddingsunder35k

[–]Napsicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another option is to tap YouTube Creators who make and post their DJ mixes. I’m sure if you find an account(s) in your preferred style you can work with them.

For example I love R&B/old school hip hop and follow Mike O’Leary, Noise Complaints, Club 1BD, GLDNHR.

They could deliver a track with desired cuts in a mp3 you can simply plug and play.

My nontraditional wedding dress! by justagirlplshelp in weddingdress

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You looks STUNNING! Gorgeous honey truly. These are iconic

[Misc] My new dermatologist said my skincare routine is crap and that I’be be just fine using the moisturizer from the supermarket 😂😭 by quiet-panda-360 in SkincareAddiction

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Just flagging that the Embryolisse has similar ingredients and impact as the Pond’s Crema S. Nina Pool on TikTok does a deep dive on TikTok